chocluver
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Post by chocluver on Jul 29, 2014 3:06:35 GMT
Can't remember the 1st guys name but did you catch what he said to Andi tonight? He asked her why she made love to him. How's that for live t.v.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2014 3:12:33 GMT
Wow I cannot believe he said that - I also can't believe she'd make love to him knowing she wasn't keeping him.
There's the answer to the question many of us wonder.
Wonder how Josh will take that. (I'm a bit behind watching)
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Post by stampinchick on Jul 29, 2014 3:12:42 GMT
I missed that. I didn't bother paying attention to Nick because I still don't like him.
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Post by cristie on Jul 29, 2014 3:13:12 GMT
I was shocked that he said it on live tv! Crazy!
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chocluver
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Post by chocluver on Jul 29, 2014 3:14:41 GMT
He was so sad. He still loves her. It just came out. He didn't mean anything melicious by it. I feel so sorry for him.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2014 3:15:15 GMT
I've never cared much for Nick but what he just said on live TV I dislike him that much more. And how awkward was he trying to talk to her.
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Post by stampinchick on Jul 29, 2014 3:19:17 GMT
After seeing an interview with that skanky chick from Ben's season when she was plugging her tell-all book it's pretty obvious what goes on. I think there have been some who haven't but I think those are the exception.
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Post by stampinchick on Jul 29, 2014 3:25:39 GMT
I hadn't deleted it yet so I just watched it. Wow. Andi seems ticked at him for saying it. I have no sympathy for her. If you don't want somebody to tell all, don't give them anything to talk about.
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Post by stampinchick on Jul 29, 2014 3:27:44 GMT
Did they announce the next Bachelor?
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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2014 3:28:24 GMT
If they did I missed it as did a lot of others
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Post by winogirl on Jul 29, 2014 3:54:28 GMT
Wow. Really Nick? That was such a calculated douchebag move. Now I remember why EVERY OTHER GUY IN THE HOUSE disliked you. I actually almost forgot why I didn't like Nick in the first place and felt sorry for him until that display of true colors. Ick. I wasn't a big Andi fan going in , but I think Josh and Andi are a good couple and I hope the best for them!
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Post by 5peanutsnana on Jul 29, 2014 6:09:11 GMT
Wish I had a nickel for every time Nick said, ya' know? Suppose he was nervous but man, it was making me crazy. Not sure what exactly he wanted to know from her and apparently he didn't either. Awkward! I don't think they announced the new Bachelor, but I heard Chris say they would announce it at a later date, as he patted Chris on the shoulder and smiled. But then again maybe it was just to throw us off. They like to manipulate us that way.
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Post by DinCA on Jul 29, 2014 6:13:35 GMT
Yeah, that was a very low blow from Nick. Very spiteful. I think he showed his true character tonight.
I don't doubt that he has/had feelings for her. He was obviously emotional about it and seemed very nervous but if he still really cared about her, he wouldn't have asked the question. I think he's moving through the grief stages and right now he's angry. Still, no excuse for that.
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Post by jlynnbarth on Jul 29, 2014 6:19:23 GMT
I didn't feel sorry for Nick either. You know going in that you could go home the "loser". It was crappy of him to say that (i even sucked in my breath when he said it.) it proved to me he didn't really love her. If he truly loved her he wouldn't want to hurt her. It was below the belt as Andi said on the show. I am no Andi fan at all, but thought that was horrible of him. I honestly believe he did it to stir up trouble between her and Josh. Hopefully Josh already knew. If he didn't, and watched it live with the rest of us, it must mot have affected him like Nick was hoping, because he really seems to love Andi. I wish them the best.
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Post by mommamoonrn on Jul 29, 2014 11:35:36 GMT
I felt bad for him tonight, but sadly I think he was over confident in their relationship. Has been cocky and a jerk since the get go and what he said on live TV was well like Andi said a low-blow..... I sometimes wonder if he was kept around because of the drama he created among the guys....I do not know. A reality show without drama is boring...so just wondering.
I wish Andi and Josh the best....
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Post by Miss Ang on Jul 29, 2014 12:16:21 GMT
I think that he needed an answer to that question and that's why he asked it. He tried to talk with her 3 times off camera (that we know of) and she refused to talk to him. This woman gave him the impression that she was in love with him and wanted a forever. If I were him, I would have wanted an answer to the question he asked too. Was it inappropriate to ask in front of a live audience and a national viewing audience? Yes, it was. But he felt like he needed and deserved an answer to that question (and honestly, I do too) and this was his only opportunity to ask it. On a funny note, I told DH about the drama of that happening on the show and how she said, "That was below the belt." and my dh said, "Actually, it sounds like she had HIM below the belt." He doesn't watch the show but I just thought that was so funny. +1 for DH.
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Post by mandolyn9909 on Jul 29, 2014 12:42:55 GMT
I think that he needed an answer to that question and that's why he asked it. He tried to talk with her 3 times off camera (that we know of) and she refused to talk to him. This woman gave him the impression that she was in love with him and wanted a forever. If I were him, I would have wanted an answer to the question he asked too. Was it inappropriate to ask in front of a live audience and a national viewing audience? Yes, it was. But he felt like he needed and deserved an answer to that question (and honestly, I do too) and this was his only opportunity to ask it. On a funny note, I told DH about the drama of that happening on the show and how she said, "That was below the belt." and my dh said, "Actually, it sounds like she had HIM below the belt." He doesn't watch the show but I just thought that was so funny. +1 for DH. I agree. I think if she would have talked with him privately before the live show things would have went quite differently. You could tell he was really nervous and upset.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jul 29, 2014 13:03:01 GMT
Personally, I think if you don't want to admit to doing it, then don't do it. He tried to talk to her several times before last night and she refused. I think if he had had that opportunity, it would not have come out. You could tell he was upset. I don't think he was trying to be manipulative or vengeful at all. He was just hurt and confused. And honestly, if someone slept with me, I'd be confused too. That just wasn't the right thing to do.
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Post by TankTop on Jul 29, 2014 14:05:48 GMT
It made for so e good tv! I'm sure the execs were very happy!
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Post by meowgal on Jul 29, 2014 14:13:57 GMT
Seriously, what did she expect? She did NOT give him the chance to talk to her off-camera, even though he tried several times...she just refused. He had the right to an answer about her implied intentions and her behavior in the Fantasy Suite. SHE didn't want to answer off-camera and it was the ONLY chance he was ever going to get to find out an answer. I am NOT a Nick fan, (not a Jittery Josh fan either), but he did seem sincerely in love with her and she knew that when she slept with him. AND, she admits that she knew she was totally in love with Josh early on, so why sleep with Nick?
I don't think he is actually a stalker...he just wanted an answer. She didn't really give him one because she HAS NO ANSWER for her inappropriate behavior. You could actually tell he was struggling with asking her that, but he really wanted an answer.
Also, did time run out or are they still deciding on the next Bachelor?
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Post by ScrapsontheRocks on Jul 29, 2014 15:22:16 GMT
Seriously, what did she expect? She did NOT give him the chance to talk to her off-camera, even though he tried several times...she just refused. He had the right to an answer about her implied intentions and her behavior in the Fantasy Suite. SHE didn't want to answer off-camera and it was the ONLY chance he was ever going to get to find out an answer. I am NOT a Nick fan, (not a Jittery Josh fan either), but he did seem sincerely in love with her and she knew that when she slept with him. AND, she admits that she knew she was totally in love with Josh early on, so why sleep with Nick? I don't think he is actually a stalker...he just wanted an answer. She didn't really give him one because she HAS NO ANSWER for her inappropriate behavior. You could actually tell he was struggling with asking her that, but he really wanted an answer. Also, did time run out or are they still deciding on the next Bachelor? Dang! this fantasy suite speculation was your 69th/ throbbing member post but the quote feature doesn't preserve that.
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Post by cadoodlebug on Jul 29, 2014 15:36:54 GMT
I guess I will be the only one to say this but in today's world where 14 year olds are having sex on a school bus, is anyone really THAT shocked that they have sex in the fantasy suite? Really? I know some people still save themselves for marriage but the vast majority of people do not and have sex before hand. Some with MANY partners. Didn't sweet Marcus admit to over 20 sexual encounters? Not saying it's right or wrong, just saying it doesn't surprise me that they had sex. Heck, maybe she and Chris had sex too.They were playing coy about the next Bachelor and Chris Harrison said we would find out later in the program last night. He lied.
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Post by lindywholoveskids on Jul 29, 2014 16:26:03 GMT
I think although they say it's a LIVE show, they have a chance to take things out. they left this in because it would add drama and boost ratings. I don't really care about it but I think that Andi deserves to be in a good relationship. Nick lacks boundaries.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jul 29, 2014 17:22:33 GMT
I guess I will be the only one to say this but in today's world where 14 year olds are having sex on a school bus, is anyone really THAT shocked that they have sex in the fantasy suite? Really? I know some people still save themselves for marriage but the vast majority of people do not and have sex before hand. Some with MANY partners. Didn't sweet Marcus admit to over 20 sexual encounters? Not saying it's right or wrong, just saying it doesn't surprise me that they had sex. Heck, maybe she and Chris had sex too.They were playing coy about the next Bachelor and Chris Harrison said we would find out later in the program last night. He lied. I am not one of those no sex before marriage types. I lived with my boyfriend for 3 years before we got married. But I am teaching my kids that sex should be reserved for a loving, committed relationship. I guess I'm not shocked that sex goes on in the fantasy suite, but I am a bit disgusted that sex with two guys in two nights was happening in the fantasy suite. One guy at a time, IMO. So, no, I'm not shocked, but neither should she be that he would bring it up. Clearly for him, sex is something that is special and not to be shared with two guys two nights in a row.
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Post by mandolyn9909 on Jul 29, 2014 17:28:50 GMT
I guess I will be the only one to say this but in today's world where 14 year olds are having sex on a school bus, is anyone really THAT shocked that they have sex in the fantasy suite? Really? I know some people still save themselves for marriage but the vast majority of people do not and have sex before hand. Some with MANY partners. Didn't sweet Marcus admit to over 20 sexual encounters? Not saying it's right or wrong, just saying it doesn't surprise me that they had sex. Heck, maybe she and Chris had sex too.They were playing coy about the next Bachelor and Chris Harrison said we would find out later in the program last night. He lied. I am not one of those no sex before marriage types. I lived with my boyfriend for 3 years before we got married. But I am teaching my kids that sex should be reserved for a loving, committed relationship. I guess I'm not shocked that sex goes on in the fantasy suite, but I am a bit disgusted that sex with two guys in two nights was happening in the fantasy suite. One guy at a time, IMO. So, no, I'm not shocked, but neither should she be that he would bring it up. Clearly for him, sex is something that is special and not to be shared with two guys two nights in a row. I agree it isn't the idea that she had sex in the fantasy suite. It is the fact that she done it with two different guys on back to back nights. Good thing the rumors about the pregnancy weren't true because if so the next show she would have been on is Maury asking "who is the father!"
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Post by JustCallMeMommy on Jul 29, 2014 17:37:41 GMT
I thought that comment was completely inappropriate. Maybe it is the Southern girl in me, but there are things you don't talk about in public. <...>They were playing coy about the next Bachelor and Chris Harrison said we would find out later in the program last night. He lied. He said at a later date.
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Post by cadoodlebug on Jul 29, 2014 18:20:29 GMT
.[/quote]I am not one of those no sex before marriage types. I lived with my boyfriend for 3 years before we got married. But I am teaching my kids that sex should be reserved for a loving, committed relationship. I guess I'm not shocked that sex goes on in the fantasy suite, but I am a bit disgusted that sex with two guys in two nights was happening in the fantasy suite. One guy at a time, IMO. So, no, I'm not shocked, but neither should she be that he would bring it up. Clearly for him, sex is something that is special and not to be shared with two guys two nights in a row.[/quote]
I don't disagree with what you are saying. But, the entire show is based on a very fast moving set-up that encourages that behavior. The FS is basically the only place they can be together without cameras in their faces. Unfortunately some of the contestants are naive enough to think that the bachelor/ette has only feelings for them. Haven't they watched the show before?
Also, I missed when Chris said they would announce the new Bachelor at a later date, I thought he said later in the program.
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Post by beanbuddymom on Jul 29, 2014 18:27:05 GMT
He was so sad. He still loves her. It just came out. He didn't mean anything melicious by it. I feel so sorry for him. I don't believe for ONE SECOND that it just "came out" or that he wasn't meaning anything malicious. I absolutely think that not only he meant to say it last night, but also that he planned that all along. If you recall he has been calculating all the while and has watched every bachelor season. He knows it was live and there was nothing they could do to stop him saying anything he wanted. And he wanted to put a rift between her and Josh. Oh I think he knew EXACTLY what he was doing.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jul 29, 2014 18:30:28 GMT
I agree with you, cadoodlebug, that they should definitely know what they are getting themselves into. There is the very real potential for heartbreak and they should know that going in. I still stand by my opinion, though, that it's pretty gross to be sleeping with two men at the same time and that if she didn't want it known because she was embarrassed of it, she should not have done it in the first place. I think there is a line you don't cross, you don't lead a man (or woman) on that way. I can certainly understand Nick feeling a little upset with her over that. It gives me a little hope in this world full of 14 year olds having sex on the school bus that a man would think that sex is something that is not to be taken lightly.
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Post by cadoodlebug on Jul 30, 2014 2:50:03 GMT
I just read on another message board that Andi went to LSU. Interesting.
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