peppermintpatty
Pearl Clutcher
Refupea #1345
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Jun 26, 2014 17:47:08 GMT
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Post by peppermintpatty on Aug 1, 2014 17:47:00 GMT
I read the post through a quote but why did you remove the op?
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Deleted
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Oct 7, 2024 10:22:23 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Aug 1, 2014 18:20:04 GMT
I read the post through a quote but why did you remove the op? and ALL of her posts from this board.
Did something happen?
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Post by shamrock on Aug 1, 2014 18:21:04 GMT
I was wondering the same thing. All her posts have been deleted. I enjoyed reading about Mr. Darcy.
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Aug 1, 2014 18:28:12 GMT
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Post by Goldynn on Aug 1, 2014 18:28:12 GMT
Wow, I wonder what happened, all the posts are now gone?
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Post by Sam on Aug 1, 2014 18:38:00 GMT
and ALL of her posts from this board.
Did something happen?
Really? I was quite enjoying those, even though some of the responses didn't seem to take into account a little poetic license in the re-telling of the events!
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Post by christine58 on Aug 1, 2014 18:39:42 GMT
Interesting that all her posts are gone...weird.
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Post by melanell on Aug 1, 2014 18:40:24 GMT
Uh-oh. This makes me worry that something happened to Benem behind the scenes here at refupeas. I hope I'm wrong.
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inkedup
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 4,837
Jun 26, 2014 5:00:26 GMT
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Post by inkedup on Aug 1, 2014 19:17:37 GMT
Uh-oh. This makes me worry that something happened to Benem behind the scenes here at refupeas. I hope I'm wrong. What does this mean? I think most people were really supportive of the OP and am not sure why you're trying to imply that someone was mean to benem without a word from her to indicate that? Seems like some of the former Peas are itching for drama!
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Post by annabella on Aug 1, 2014 19:19:26 GMT
The OP didn't use her name or photo, I wonder what happened?
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Post by lumo on Aug 1, 2014 19:20:55 GMT
Well, this just got a little weird.
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Post by CarolinaGirl71 on Aug 1, 2014 19:25:27 GMT
This is very weird! Benem, please come back and let us know you're ok. I'm concerned.
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tracylynn
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 4,899
Jun 26, 2014 22:49:09 GMT
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Post by tracylynn on Aug 1, 2014 19:27:07 GMT
Ok, I read through this thread earlier this morning and was confused but moved on. I even looked at benem's post history and saw posts were being deleted and wondered.
Glad to see I'm not the only one who was wondering!
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tracylynn
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 4,899
Jun 26, 2014 22:49:09 GMT
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Post by tracylynn on Aug 1, 2014 19:28:30 GMT
Uh-oh. This makes me worry that something happened to Benem behind the scenes here at refupeas. I hope I'm wrong. What does this mean? I think most people were really supportive of the OP and am not sure why you're trying to imply that someone was mean to benem without a word from her to indicate that? Seems like some of the former Peas are itching for drama! I didn't get that at all from melanell 's post. I just got that she was concerned that something might have happened that forced @benem to want to leave the boards. I don't believe there was any drama involved here other than your accusation, but that's just my interpretation of the posts and how I read/took them.
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Post by AN on Aug 1, 2014 19:30:42 GMT
Before everything was deleted, I thought she had posted that Mr. Darcy "had been told" (I assumed by her, from the tone of the post, like "Oh yes, I've told my friends about you") that she posted about him on Facebook and that he had a nickname. Did anyone else see that or was I imagining things?
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Post by Laurie on Aug 1, 2014 19:32:31 GMT
Uh-oh. This makes me worry that something happened to Benem behind the scenes here at refupeas. I hope I'm wrong. What does this mean? I think most people were really supportive of the OP and am not sure why you're trying to imply that someone was mean to benem without a word from her to indicate that? Seems like some of the former Peas are itching for drama! Umm Melanell is a very sweet person and I have never even seen her make a mean post. Itching for drama is one of the last things I would think Melanell would do. You are way off base on this one....
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61redhead
Full Member
Refupea #1938
Posts: 456
Location: South Carolina
Jun 28, 2014 11:27:52 GMT
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Post by 61redhead on Aug 1, 2014 19:39:51 GMT
She has deleted ALL of her posts! And I just read some of them earlier today. I hope nothing is wrong.
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Post by kimpossible on Aug 1, 2014 19:47:25 GMT
[HASH]whereisbenem [HASH]bringbackMrDarcy
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Post by annabella on Aug 1, 2014 19:52:38 GMT
Can someone sum up what I missed in this post? Is this the same guy she wrote about before that worked in her building that she brought a coffee to?
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Post by 1lear on Aug 1, 2014 19:57:38 GMT
Oh, no, I hope everything is ok and Benem returns to the board!
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Post by christine58 on Aug 1, 2014 20:08:01 GMT
Can someone sum up what I missed in this post? Is this the same guy she wrote about before that worked in her building that she brought a coffee to? I believe so..
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Post by elaine on Aug 1, 2014 20:18:30 GMT
Before everything was deleted, I thought she had posted that Mr. Darcy "had been told" (I assumed by her, from the tone of the post, like "Oh yes, I've told my friends about you") that she posted about him on Facebook and that he had a nickname. Did anyone else see that or was I imagining things? I didn't read that, but it certainly would explain her deleting everything if he was able to figure out his nickname and google it all. I'd probably be a bit upset if a guy that I worked with and liked as a friend wrote a novella in installments on the internet about his interactions with and crush on me for the entertainment of masses of unknown guys. I hope that he didn't get to read it all before she deleted it and that her heart is okay.
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Post by melanell on Aug 1, 2014 20:29:22 GMT
Uh-oh. This makes me worry that something happened to Benem behind the scenes here at refupeas. I hope I'm wrong. What does this mean? I think most people were really supportive of the OP and am not sure why you're trying to imply that someone was mean to benem without a word from her to indicate that? Seems like some of the former Peas are itching for drama! Not itching for drama. Just concerned. It's kind of uncommon for someone to suddenly delete every post from a site. And I just hope it doesn't mean that something happened here to upset her. I will miss her if she stays away. I hope that the posts were deleted for some other reason and that she will be back posting soon.
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scrappert
Prolific Pea
RefuPea #2956
Posts: 7,960
Location: Milwaukee, WI area
Jul 11, 2014 21:20:09 GMT
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Post by scrappert on Aug 1, 2014 20:38:56 GMT
Before everything was deleted, I thought she had posted that Mr. Darcy "had been told" (I assumed by her, from the tone of the post, like "Oh yes, I've told my friends about you") that she posted about him on Facebook and that he had a nickname. Did anyone else see that or was I imagining things? I didn't read that, but it certainly would explain her deleting everything if he was able to figure out his nickname and google it all. I'd probably be a bit upset if a guy that I worked with and liked as a friend wrote a novella in installments on the internet about his interactions with and crush on me for the entertainment of masses of unknown guys. I hope that he didn't get to read it all before she deleted it and that her heart is okay. I hope this too. That would be really bad.
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Post by leftturnonly on Aug 1, 2014 20:43:35 GMT
She has deleted ALL of her posts! And I just read some of them earlier today. I hope nothing is wrong. I hope everything's OK with her. That's such a drastic action without any obvious reason.
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Post by leftturnonly on Aug 1, 2014 20:47:08 GMT
Can someone sum up what I missed in this post? Is this the same guy she wrote about before that worked in her building that she brought a coffee to? No, this is someone she's built a friendship with. They were being sarcastic to each other and some peas were concerned that he sounded like some of their very bad ex's and to run away and others thought they sounded kinda cute together.
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Post by mzza111 on Aug 1, 2014 20:48:52 GMT
She was getting a beating on the blog so maybe that had something to do with her deleting everything. That sucks!
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fastmommie
Shy Member
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Jun 28, 2014 18:20:18 GMT
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Post by fastmommie on Aug 1, 2014 21:31:38 GMT
She was getting a beating on the blog so maybe that had something to do with her deleting everything. That sucks! That would really suck if that becomes the reason why she'd disappeared!! I was really enjoying her story telling. I do hope that she is ok.
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blue tulip
Pearl Clutcher
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Jun 25, 2014 20:53:57 GMT
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Post by blue tulip on Aug 1, 2014 21:37:12 GMT
She was getting a beating on the blog so maybe that had something to do with her deleting everything. That sucks! I hope not. being catty is one thing, but if someone figured out who that guy was and clued him in, just to be mean? that's messed up. hopefully that's not what happened.
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admin
Chatterbox
Refupea #1 - jumping right out of the Pod and loving it!
Posts: 648
Location: testing testing...
Administrator
Jun 25, 2014 19:10:46 GMT
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Post by admin on Aug 1, 2014 22:01:44 GMT
Benem has let me know that she has deleted all her posts for personal reasons, and she also asked that I delete anywhere she has been quoted, which I am in the process of doing (if you know you have quoted her and would delete it yourself that would save me a bit of work).
It's unclear at the moment whether she will return to the board in the future. I do not have any further details to share, and I would be grateful if you would refrain from further speculation.
Thanks everyone. I'm sure she is grateful for your concern.
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Deleted
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Post by Deleted on Aug 1, 2014 23:01:03 GMT
(((Benem))). I don't know what happened, but I'm sorry people are such jerks!
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