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Post by chitchatgirl on Mar 28, 2016 16:00:03 GMT
In my area, the inner envelope would have the names of the people intended to be invited. In the case that you weren't sure of the names of all children, then it is considered acceptable to write, "The Smith Family" or "Mr. and Mrs. Smith and family". Of course we didn't really have an issue with kids showing up so I didn't have to deal with that. I also hand addressed every single one of those invites. The closest labels ever came, was a cute return address stamp on the back of the envelope. This was five years ago and even then I thought I was pushing it with the stamp.
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Post by mommaho on Mar 28, 2016 16:01:20 GMT
Since your DD is a bridesmaid she must be close enough to the bride that she could ask her. This is true, but I do not want them to feel cornered to allow all of us addressed on the save the date. Surely if we ask, they are going to say "yes" but will they want to?? You are right about that - and maybe circumstances changed since they sent the Save the Date. Maybe she could approach it with the thought of we (they) are all ok if the invite is only for so and so and not everyone and we don't want to mess up your list . . . we understand.
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