finaledition
Pearl Clutcher
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Post by finaledition on Apr 1, 2016 16:10:02 GMT
Once upon a time kids could play 2 (or more) sports. In fact, I'm sure many older pros would tell you that they never specialized in any one sport until they were much older. But sadly those days are not realistic. Coaches are asking more exclusivity at younger and younger ages. I'd ask which one he enjoys most and drop to pure recreational for any other sport. And when you play recreational it really needs to be emphasized that it's for fun-he has to enjoy the sport, the teammates, the activity-winning and training should not be a motive in recreational sports.
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finaledition
Pearl Clutcher
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Post by finaledition on Apr 1, 2016 16:13:08 GMT
I agree that it's too hard to play two sports these days. Which is sad because overuse injuries and burnout happen more often when kids do the same thing year round. I also think it's sad that in high school you can only play if you're really good. I miss intramural and rec sports where kids can try something new with no pressure and just be active. I totally agree. Around here I've seen kids cut from middle school basketball teams for not being tall enough and then quit only to hit a growth spurt a couple years later. I think decisions about kids' athletic ability for a particular sport are being assessed way too early. |
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Post by ilikepink on Apr 1, 2016 16:48:46 GMT
Another former sports mom here. Between the 3 boys, we did a lot of sports, but only one season were there two - soccer and football. It was the school soccer team with a coach who knew the twins well, and was understanding. After that season of changing in the car from one practice to another, I said no - only one at a time. (although they did sleep well for a few months!)
Your son is 10-not physically developed yet to do that much at one time. And with stuff going on at home? Be easy on him - and, as others have said, be careful who you are as the sports mom - don't push him into something he really doesn't want to do. I used to say to my boys that there are more seats in the audience than on the stage - only a few people can be the star, and there's no shame in not being the best.
Good luck!
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