tduby1
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Post by tduby1 on Apr 2, 2016 14:55:45 GMT
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Post by hop2 on Apr 2, 2016 14:56:34 GMT
I'll sit on the can't imagine bench with you.  ? |
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Post by Darcy Collins on Apr 2, 2016 14:58:20 GMT
Is this an April fool's joke?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 2, 2016 14:58:27 GMT
Unbelievable!!  |
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tduby1
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Post by tduby1 on Apr 2, 2016 15:04:16 GMT
Is this an April fool's joke? I hope so but aside from it breaking yesterday I am not seeing any indication that that is case. A lot of news outlets are carrying the story along with video. |
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Post by tduby1 on Apr 2, 2016 15:07:04 GMT
Is this an April fool's joke? I found at least one link dating to 3-31, so I don't think so, sadly. |
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Post by pastlifepea on Apr 2, 2016 15:15:12 GMT
Before even opening this thread, I thought, "Florida." Bam!!! I love Florida...for real. Moving back to Tampa in June and couldn't be happier. That said, yes, wildly inappropriate.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Apr 2, 2016 15:23:37 GMT
Crazy, inappropriate and the mother should be ashamed at teaching those children that money thrown at a women for sexual favor us a good thing. I hope she is charged with pandering at least --there is a reason that "only those over 18 or 21" can go into strip clubs.
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Post by johnnysmom on Apr 2, 2016 15:28:35 GMT
Wow! I hope charges are brought against the mother (child abuse? stupidity?) and the stripper (indecent acts with a child?). Who in their right mind thinks thats ok?
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Post by bluepoprocks on Apr 2, 2016 15:34:15 GMT
I think in most states letting a child that young watch a stripper preform is considered child abuse.
I wonder if the parents of the other children present knew this was going to happen.
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Post by jackie on Apr 2, 2016 16:06:22 GMT
Did she actually strip naked? The images just show her in a bikini. If she did get naked then the mom should absolutely be charged--I mean that has to be against the law, right? If she's just dancing provocatively in a bikini then that's trashy, poor taste, and horrible judgment on the mom's part, but nothing illegal.
It's really crazy that a mom would be that stupid and that any stripper would take that job.
Can you imagine what the parents of those other kids thought when they saw this?
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Post by tduby1 on Apr 2, 2016 16:19:53 GMT
Did she actually strip naked? The images just show her in a bikini. If she did get naked then the mom should absolutely be charged--I mean that has to be against the law, right? If she's just dancing provocatively in a bikini then that's trashy, poor taste, and horrible judgment on the mom's part, but nothing illegal. It's really crazy that a mom would be that stupid and that any stripper would take that job. Can you imagine what the parents of those other kids thought when they saw this? Technically she was in a bra and panties (which isn't much different than a bikini, I suppose). The boy was video taped spanking her behind and she was filmed grinding her behind in his face, which certainly seems to be including the child in sexual behavior- which is against the law. While looking for articles on this I found an article about a mom in NY who hired a stripped to dance in a bikini (as opposed to bra and panties) for her 16 year old son and friends (ranging down in age to 14) and also perform lap dances for them and the mom WAS arrested. The stripper was not as she denied knowledge of their ages. In this case that doesn't seem possible. |
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Post by refugeepea on Apr 2, 2016 16:39:31 GMT
What 8 year old is going to want to give away their money to a girl?  |
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Post by myshelly on Apr 2, 2016 16:43:44 GMT
At 8 my boys would have laughed and said "haha, I can see her belly button". They thought belly buttons were hilarious. They wouldn't have found it sexy. They didn't know what sexy was.
There seems to be A LOT of problems here.
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Post by justkat on Apr 2, 2016 16:56:57 GMT
What are they putting in the water there?!?! Seriously how many things are wrong with this picture...mother hires stripper for 8 year old, guests gleefully participate, someone films the whole thing, the stripper herself "dances" for the 8 year old....oh my brain hurts.
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Post by utpea on Apr 2, 2016 17:10:56 GMT
I watched this video on YouTube a few days ago and it truly is jaw dropping. The level of disrespect this little boy has for women is sad. He is so young :-(
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Post by bc2ca on Apr 2, 2016 17:13:47 GMT
At 8, DS wanted to go to a laser tag place for his birthday. At 16, he might have wanted a stripper, but there is no way he would have wanted me involved in arranging it!? Unbelievable stories.
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Post by originalvanillabean on Apr 2, 2016 18:36:59 GMT
Sad, and disgusting, and sad.
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Post by jemali on Apr 2, 2016 18:47:10 GMT
That is disgusting.
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Post by mlynn on Apr 2, 2016 20:08:40 GMT
I object to Hooters, so you can just imagine my thoughts on this one.
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Post by cadoodlebug on Apr 2, 2016 20:12:31 GMT
I can remember a while back when a mother was charged for hiring a stripper for her teen's party and I believe he was 16 or so. I can't imagine hiring one for an 8-year-olds party.
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Post by caro on Apr 2, 2016 21:36:15 GMT
Aside from how wrong the mom was, can you imagine your sweet little 8 year old GUEST at this party comes home to tell you all about it?
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Post by anniefb on Apr 2, 2016 21:41:36 GMT
What the ?? Disgusting. |
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Post by my3freaks on Apr 2, 2016 23:15:29 GMT
Aside from how wrong the mom was, can you imagine your sweet little 8 year old GUEST at this party comes home to tell you all about it? I can't even imagine how I'd react to that, other than completely losing my shit.  |
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Post by myshelly on Apr 2, 2016 23:18:13 GMT
Aside from how wrong the mom was, can you imagine your sweet little 8 year old GUEST at this party comes home to tell you all about it? Would people really drop an 8 yr old off for a party *in someone's home* unless you knew that person really, really, really well? My oldest is 9 and all adults still stay at all the bday parties he has ever been to. |
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Post by tduby1 on Apr 2, 2016 23:45:28 GMT
Aside from how wrong the mom was, can you imagine your sweet little 8 year old GUEST at this party comes home to tell you all about it? Would people really drop an 8 yr old off for a party *in someone's home* unless you knew that person really, really, really well? My oldest is 9 and all adults still stay at all the bday parties he has ever been to. I wonderd the same. The only explanation I have for the other party goers is that their parents were fine with it. Which I find disturbing as well. |
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Post by NanaKate on Apr 3, 2016 0:39:44 GMT
So inappropriate I don't even know where to begin. I don't care if she stripped down completely or not. I can't help but wonder what she will think is appropriate for his 16th birthday...
I try not to be judgmental regarding the parenting decisions of others, but this is beyond trashy, and i feel sorry for that little boy.
And if my son had been there as one of the guests, whoa Nellie!
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Post by rickmer on Apr 3, 2016 0:51:06 GMT
i preface this with..... i did not watch the video but i cannot see how it would change my opinion. i think it is ridiculous.
way to raise a son, when he grows up and treats his future partner terribly, will mom sit there and wonder why???
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Post by caangel on Apr 3, 2016 4:40:05 GMT
Before even opening this thread, I thought, "Florida." Bam!!! I love Florida...for real. Moving back to Tampa in June and couldn't be happier. That said, yes, wildly inappropriate. The morning radio show i listen to has a bit called "What's up with Florida?" Where they highlight the crazy that comes out of there. We are on the west coast so it's not like we're neighbors or anything!lol |
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Post by zella on Apr 3, 2016 4:58:11 GMT
Eight years old falls within the years of childhood before sexual feeling are awakened, after having some at a younger age, and before puberty. Hopefully he didn't get from the stripper incident what his mother was hoping.
At the least I hope she has to take court-mandated parenting classes, since she's obviously clueless.
Unbelievable.
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