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Post by justcindy on Jul 30, 2014 18:02:09 GMT
good for you for knowing your limits on what you can properly attend to during this time - I am horrible at that and end up either making a huge mess of it, or stretch myself so thin to the point of tears and exhaustion and not have the energy or mental resources to invest in what's really important.
I am so sorry you and your family are going through this, it's never easy, no matter the circumstances. You don't need to worry about what you will say. Just love your uncle, hold his hand. If words are needed, they'll come to you.
Praying for your strength during this time, and that you and your family will be able to soak in these moments and appreciate them for what they are.
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Post by chlerbie on Jul 30, 2014 19:03:40 GMT
I'm so sorry--sending my best to you and your family.
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Post by mikklynn on Jul 30, 2014 20:32:00 GMT
OP - All you need to say is I love you.
Prayers for strength and wisdom for you and your family. I'm sorry.
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Post by cannes on Jul 30, 2014 20:38:37 GMT
Prayers being said. I'm so sorry.
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jayfab
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Post by jayfab on Jul 30, 2014 20:41:25 GMT
I'm sorry, hugs to you and yours.
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cycworker
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Post by cycworker on Jul 30, 2014 21:21:50 GMT
Prayers for: *Strength to be able to be a decent support to my family *Clarity/Wisdom... I haven't got a damned idea what to say to him, or my aunt for that matter. Luckily I've been up front with my young man, the fellow I've posted about before, re: the seriousness of the situation. I called him tonight & filled him in, and let him know I had no idea now how much time I can put in to the event, as when my cousin (aunt & uncle's daughter) arrives, I'll need to be there for her, there's going to be a funeral to help with (though I imagine my mom will likely take the lead in helping with all that), and just... life. On the one hand, I'd love the distraction of some continued involvement... I just can't be relied upon to be a 'go to' person; someone who can be there 12 hours a day during the event. {{{hugs}}} Cyc, you are a strong woman. Just be yourself. {{{prayer and more hugs}}} Now.... What young man? He's the 19 yr old I've been mentoring. This year is our final attempt to break the record for the World's Longest Street Hockey game. He has decided since I am not sure what the next 10 or so days will look like and can't commit to being available 24/7, I am no longer part of the organizing team.
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