edie3
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Post by edie3 on Apr 7, 2016 23:03:46 GMT
We are planing a short vacation, DH, DS, SIL and me, with 2 hotel rooms with 2 queens each. How would you divide it up? DS is 23.
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Post by quiltz on Apr 7, 2016 23:06:02 GMT
SIL = sister in law OR son in law?
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Post by scrapmaven on Apr 7, 2016 23:06:24 GMT
Sil pays for her share and it's up to you and dh who pays for ds. It's either you or ds.
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Post by anxiousmom on Apr 7, 2016 23:06:25 GMT
That's like one of those math questions with the trains traveling from opposite directions.  So my answer is Disney.  |
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Post by NoWomanNoCry on Apr 7, 2016 23:06:49 GMT
If SIL is sister in law I would stick her into a room with you and your DS and husband into a room together.
If SIL is son in law I would stick him in with your son and sleep with your husband.
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Post by NoWomanNoCry on Apr 7, 2016 23:07:04 GMT
If SIL is sister in law I would stick her into a room with you and your DS and husband into a room together.
If SIL is son in law I would stick him in with your son and sleep with your husband.
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Post by NoWomanNoCry on Apr 7, 2016 23:08:03 GMT
Oh I didn't know it was who pays for what I thought it was sleeping arrangements lol
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Post by edie3 on Apr 7, 2016 23:08:09 GMT
sister in law, and not money, just who sleeps with who. LOL!
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Post by lesley on Apr 7, 2016 23:10:10 GMT
That's like one of those math questions with the trains traveling from opposite directions. So my answer is Disney. Yes, we need further clarification! Who is SIL in this case, and do you mean how people physically share, or who pays what?  |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 7, 2016 23:10:48 GMT
Sil pays 1/4, DS pays 1/4 you and dh pay the remaining 1/2. If ds cant afford it then you all pay 3/4. Unless sil requested the one room all to herself then she pays for that room alone.
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Post by mlynn on Apr 7, 2016 23:10:58 GMT
Men in one room. Women in the other.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 7, 2016 23:11:15 GMT
Is the hotel room for just one night while traveling or is it for several nights?
If I were the SIL, I would get and pay for my own room. And if I were you, I would not expect to be separated from DH during our vacation (other than just a one night stay)
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Post by cmpeter on Apr 7, 2016 23:11:41 GMT
You and SIL share and split the cost of one room. Your dh and son share the other room and pay for it.
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Post by lesley on Apr 7, 2016 23:12:03 GMT
I forgot to say, if it's about how you split the cost, I would think your SIL should pay one-quarter of the total room cost.
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Post by justkat on Apr 7, 2016 23:30:08 GMT
sister in law, and not money, just who sleeps with who. LOL! Isn't this a Springer episode? :-P You,Dh, your son and your sister-in-law? In 2 rooms I'd say girls in one and guys in the other. |
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Post by edie3 on Apr 7, 2016 23:49:59 GMT
justkat, you just want your Jerry beads!
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Post by ktdoesntscrap on Apr 8, 2016 0:24:48 GMT
Girls one room Boys the other.
Or son sleeps on the floor in your room.
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Post by ktdoesntscrap on Apr 8, 2016 0:26:07 GMT
I just realized you would have to share a bed with your SIL....
Yeah I would be getting son his own room... or asking for a rollaway.
if it was my sister I would be ok sharing.
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Post by quiltz on Apr 8, 2016 0:29:15 GMT
Each room has 2 queen beds so 1 person per bed. No sharing, other than the room.
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Post by kristi on Apr 8, 2016 0:30:09 GMT
You & SIL 1 room - husband & son in the other.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 8, 2016 0:37:24 GMT
Everyone in the group is an adult who are also related family members.
IMHO, everyone should be responsible for 1/4 of the room cost.
SIL should be the Auntie of DS.
I am trying understand if there is/should be a big deal with SIL and DS sharing a room unless the age gap is really small.
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Post by bosoxbeth on Apr 8, 2016 0:47:45 GMT
I would book more rooms but that's just me!
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Post by tuva42 on Apr 8, 2016 0:52:17 GMT
I think some of you are missing the point that each room has 2 beds. So she and DH can share a bed, son can have a bed, and SIL can have her own room.
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Post by luvnlifelady on Apr 8, 2016 0:58:18 GMT
I think some of you are missing the point that each room has 2 beds. So she and DH can share a bed, son can have a bed, and SIL can have her own room. I just realized this would be an option too. At first I thought it should be ladies in one room, guys in the other but I think it's fine to share with your DH and then your DS gets his own bed in your room. Then SIL gets her own room. Either that or back to the girls and guys in separate rooms. I would not put DS and SIL in the same room. |
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Post by quiltz on Apr 8, 2016 1:02:01 GMT
Everyone in the group is an adult who are also related family members. IMHO, everyone should be responsible for 1/4 of the room cost. SIL should be the Auntie of DS. I am trying understand if there is/should be a big deal with SIL and DS sharing a room unless the age gap is really small. Yes, it is & should be a big deal about an aunt sharing a bedroom with her nephew, especially since he is 23 years old. Simply not done. Aunt should really have her own room or share with the other adult woman. |
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Post by freecharlie on Apr 8, 2016 1:04:36 GMT
Who decided how many rooms? Who is paying?
Those questions would sway my answer. If the SIL is paying for a room, she should get her own room. If the family is paying, then it should be son, DH in one room SIL, wife in other room. If they are sharing the cost, then the SIL should pay for half of one room and keep the sleeping arrangements that I just typed.
Maybe because DH works nights and I sleep alone a lot, but it doesn't bother me at all to sleep separate of my DH. Hell, if SIL doesn't snore and we get along, it might be more peaceful.
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Post by lucyg on Apr 8, 2016 1:04:48 GMT
I think SIL should have her own room and pay for it herself (unless you are treating her).
DS can sleep in the other bed in your room or in a separate room, your choice. I assume you are paying for DS's trip. The number of people who seem to assume otherwise surprises me. A lot. Who makes their young adult kid pay when you travel together? I'm 62 and I've never paid for a trip when my mother is there. And my kids have never paid if I was there.
BUT if DS and SIL know each other well and don't object to sharing a room, then I wouldn't have a problem with them sharing. I'd share a room with my nephew, no problem. Of course, he might object. I snore. LOL
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Post by gmcwife1 on Apr 8, 2016 1:08:15 GMT
I think SIL should have her own room and pay for it herself (unless you are treating her). DS can sleep in the other bed in your room or in a separate room, your choice. I assume you are paying for DS's trip. The number of people who seem to assume otherwise surprises me. A lot. Who makes their young adult kid pay when you travel together? I'm 62 and I've never paid for a trip when my mother is there. And my kids have never paid if I was there. BUT if DS and SIL know each other well and don't object to sharing a room, then I wouldn't have a problem with them sharing. I'd share a room with my nephew, no problem. Of course, he might object. I snore. LOL This is how it would work in my family and in my head, well minus the snoring part because I deny snoring  |
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Post by lucyg on Apr 8, 2016 1:10:57 GMT
Everyone in the group is an adult who are also related family members. IMHO, everyone should be responsible for 1/4 of the room cost. SIL should be the Auntie of DS. I am trying understand if there is/should be a big deal with SIL and DS sharing a room unless the age gap is really small. especially since he is 23 years old. Simply not done. Aunt should really have her own room or share with the other adult woman. Says who? I think you're all wrong, and probably have a dirty mind to boot. Again, assuming aunt and nephew know each other well and are comfortable sharing a room. |
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Post by scrapaddie on Apr 8, 2016 1:15:21 GMT
I just realized you would have to share a bed with your SIL.... Yeah I would be getting son his own room... or asking for a rollaway. if it was my sister I would be ok sharing. Two queen beds in each room |
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