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Post by Jamie on Apr 12, 2016 11:25:14 GMT
Please keep hubby and I in your thoughts. They dropped the news on us yesterday that they have sold our part of the company and are getting out of the business all together. There stating we have probably until Sept before everything is final. As the usual we will have more information following, but I just want an end date. Very nerve wracking when you are the sole provider and having to think about finding another job, that is also going to work around my PT job. It's just all very overwhelming right now. I went through the same thing almost 8 years ago to the date.
We have been riding the SSDI rollercoaster with hubby for 2 years this June as he got hurt at work 11 years ago. The dr. told him 3 years ago that he could no longer hold a job due to the injury and had to quit that day. We've already been denied twice. First time was the usual denial, 2nd time SSDI said they didn't have the required paperwork even though our lawyer proved to them they did, so now here we are almost 18 months later. Someone up there sure is looking out for us as when I checked the mail yesterday, after having a complete melt down when I got home, there was paperwork from SSDI and they are getting ready to review his case with the judge. Lawyer says we have one of the strongest cases he has seen, but there is that little voice in my head that keeps putting those negative thoughts there. I know they are seeing his age (42) and saying there is no reason this person can't work. Of course it's written in the Work Comp documents of the settlement that he is not to be working and if he does they will not pay for his surgeries, RX, etc
I don't know how much more at this point that I can take. Woke up this morning when the alarm went of at 3:30 wondering why am I even doing this. You can't tell us that it's business as usual and expect everyone to go along with it. It'll be interesting to see the uptick in sick time that is being used now
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Post by woodysbetty on Apr 12, 2016 11:31:00 GMT
I hope it all works out...what a stressful situation...sending positive energy, good karma, and hope for positive result!! Hang in there!
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Post by happymomma on Apr 12, 2016 11:54:47 GMT
Sending good vibes.
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Post by gailoh on Apr 12, 2016 11:56:45 GMT
So hope all gets sorted out for you...hugs
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Post by anniebeth24 on Apr 12, 2016 12:04:58 GMT
Praying for peace in your home and that the SSDI comes through quickly. So sorry you're going through all of this.
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Post by Nanner on Apr 12, 2016 12:10:28 GMT
I hope everything works out well for you. Good luck
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Post by mallie on Apr 12, 2016 12:17:59 GMT
I am so sorry. Hugs.
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Post by tincin on Apr 12, 2016 12:28:22 GMT
Sorry to hear this. Is there any chance that the new owners will keep the current staff. Being in limbo sucks and so does the Social Security Administration. It's complete BS that virtually everyone gets turned down the first time. It shouldn't take years for someone who is unable to work because of a work related injury that is well documented. Good luck.
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Post by miominmio on Apr 12, 2016 12:29:10 GMT
How stressful! Hugs to you.
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Post by leannec on Apr 12, 2016 12:33:51 GMT
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Post by maurchclt on Apr 12, 2016 12:42:43 GMT
Sending you hugs and strength. This is certainly a lot to deal with.
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Post by scrappert on Apr 12, 2016 12:48:12 GMT
Oh, hugs and prayers to you. I can't imagine being in limbo like that.
Prayers for positive things coming in your very near future.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 12:56:59 GMT
How stressful! Praying that it all works out for you and soon.
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Post by caro on Apr 12, 2016 13:08:17 GMT
Just asked the Lord to give you peace.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Apr 12, 2016 13:17:57 GMT
Keeping you guys in my thoughts and I'm hoping everything all comes together for you. That certainly is a lot of stress!
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Post by jeremysgirl on Apr 12, 2016 13:21:16 GMT
That is a lot of stress. Prayers and hugs for you that everything works out like it's supposed to.
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Post by shaniam on Apr 12, 2016 13:24:48 GMT
I'm so sorry everything is so rough right now. Hopefully things will get better quickly.
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Post by Peamac on Apr 12, 2016 13:59:42 GMT
How frustrating! (((Hugs))) and prayers!
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Post by luvnlifelady on Apr 12, 2016 14:24:49 GMT
I'm sorry you are going through this. I understand too the dilemma of finding a job that works for a challenging schedule. I lost my job recently and while I did find another quickly, it's a horrible schedule for family time.
I'm trying to find one that will let me car share with at least one teenager (meaning I would work nights somewhere) but that hasn't happened yet.
I hope you find something that works out soon.
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Post by ntsf on Apr 12, 2016 14:33:43 GMT
prayers and good thoughts
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Post by eastcoastpea on Apr 12, 2016 15:47:06 GMT
I hope the new owners decide not to make any major changes and that your job is secure. Good luck.
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Post by bethany102399 on Apr 12, 2016 16:14:59 GMT
Praying. I have swam in the turbulent ocean of can't we just get a break so many times. We are currently above the waves, but they are so close I can see them. Peace.
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Post by lucyg on Apr 12, 2016 16:24:21 GMT
I'm sorry for your bad news and wish you all the best in lining up new work.
And I bet your husband's disability will come through soon. They make you go through all these paces but it sounds like his case is rock solid.
good luck!!
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Post by Mystie on Apr 12, 2016 18:12:42 GMT
I'm sorry, that is all so stressful. I hope things smooth out for you and your husband--and quickly!
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Post by mlynn on Apr 12, 2016 18:29:23 GMT
The good news is that when approved, they will backdate the benefits and you should get a nice little check. Also, DH was 37 when his claim was approved. And it was not even work related. His age should not be a problem.
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Post by chirpingcricket on Apr 12, 2016 18:38:50 GMT
OP, I am so sorry. Those are both incredibly stressful situations, and I really do hope you get the break you need soon. I'll be thinking of you.
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Post by anniefb on Apr 12, 2016 18:42:06 GMT
So sorry to hear you're going through such a stressful time. Sending positive thoughts and prayers.
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Post by purplebee on Apr 12, 2016 19:12:03 GMT
Oh such a stressful situation to be in. Sending prayers for a quick and positive resolution. Hugs....
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Post by Really Red on Apr 12, 2016 19:18:50 GMT
I'm sorry. It makes me kooky that there is so much fraud in our system that people like you get shafted.
Hang in there! Hope you get good news soon!
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Post by Mary_K on Apr 12, 2016 19:28:26 GMT
Prayers for a quick and satisfactory resolution for you!
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