esredhead
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Post by esredhead on Apr 19, 2016 18:48:46 GMT
My DD tried to over dose last night and the hospital gave us a list of names of psych doctors but every single one of them is a male, due to other issues my daughter isn't comfortable be alone with unknown males. Right now I am so overwhelmed numb and so so beyond tired I am having trouble finding anyone in our area, or even a starting point.
I would be beyond grateful if any of the Houston peas could recommend a dr they have heard or have used that is good with young adults. Anything would be helpful at this point.
Thank you
Andrea
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Post by scrapmaven on Apr 19, 2016 18:57:46 GMT
I'm so sad to hear that your dd is in such a difficult place. I'm not in your area, but I wonder if her school counseling office would know the good female psychs in your area?
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Post by jeremysgirl on Apr 19, 2016 18:59:10 GMT
Hugs to you, Andrea. That must have been scary. I don't know if it will help your situation but my son sees a psychiatrist and every time he sees him I go in with him. He has a separate therapist that he goes in alone to see so definitely a therapist is someone you want your child to be comfortable with. But most likely you will go in with her to see the psychiatrist so maybe a male won't be as intimidating if you are there with her. I will keep your daughter in my prayers. Good luck.
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calgal08
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Post by calgal08 on Apr 19, 2016 19:27:02 GMT
No help regarding a doctor, but I couldn't read and run. Thinking about you.
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Post by anonrefugee on Apr 19, 2016 19:32:34 GMT
Can you call the list of references and ask if they have a female partner? At least while you seek other recommendations?
Best wishes and hugs to you. Even if prayers aren't your thing, I said one.
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Post by keithurbanlovinpea on Apr 19, 2016 19:41:37 GMT
Do you want a full on psychiatrist? If not, I can't recommend Rae Stern highly enough: Rae's Website She really, really got me back on track when I was in an unhappy marriage. Call her... Tell her that Lisa Russell (nee Alvarado) referred her you and that I am a friend of Donna A's. She will remember one or both of us for sure. If she can't help you, she can give you guidance on who to call. I adore her and she is wonderful! |
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Post by threecs on Apr 19, 2016 19:56:13 GMT
Hugs to you, Andrea. That must have been scary. I don't know if it will help your situation but my son sees a psychiatrist and every time he sees him I go in with him. He has a separate therapist that he goes in alone to see so definitely a therapist is someone you want your child to be comfortable with. But most likely you will go in with her to see the psychiatrist so maybe a male won't be as intimidating if you are there with her. I will keep your daughter in my prayers. Good luck. My situation is different. My daughter goes in and meets with the psychiatrist (male) first (for 10-15 minutes) and then I go in and join them. When you call ask how the psychiatrist handles the visits. Also, a friend sees a psychiatrist nurse practitioner for meds. That might be another option. |
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Post by scrappert on Apr 19, 2016 20:38:42 GMT
I don't have any advice either but wanted to send my support to you.
Thinking of you and your daughter.
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esredhead
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Post by esredhead on Apr 19, 2016 23:23:52 GMT
Thank you guys so much, for the prayers, names and good thoughts. I have been at work all day and will be her until after nine. I will start making calls first thing in am.
Andrea
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Post by Deleted on Apr 20, 2016 0:30:51 GMT
Big (((hugs)))! I am so sorry. Thinking of you all!
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Post by Deleted on Apr 20, 2016 0:34:06 GMT
Dr Debra Stokan (sp?) out near 59S out at Beltway 8 -- It says Stafford but is behind the Walmart -- www.stokanjaggers.com/ I highly recommend her....we only saw her one time, but would have been more than happy to continue. She just was able to pinpoint our issue as medical vs psychological....She is great and I highly recommend her |
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Post by librarylady on Apr 20, 2016 14:36:30 GMT
Andreea Andrei, M.D. 281-715-0011
Karen Lawson, MPH, PhD. 832-549-0427
Charlene Caid, Ph.D.. 713-526-3218
Marki McMillian, LCSW 713-798-1600
Karen Winston, LCSW 713-666-1419
Kristin Kassaw, M.D. 713-798-3876 (not sure if she is taking new patients)
Kim-Lan Czelusta, M.D. 713-798-4872
Andrei and Kassaw are the youngest, if daughter is looking for that. The Ph.D and LCSW are all terrific and have M.D. they work with if medication is needed.
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Post by ChicagoKTS on Apr 20, 2016 18:06:14 GMT
Does your work or benefit provider (e.g. insurance company) have a referral service? One of my benefits from my employer is an employee assistance program. I can call them any day or time and speak with a counselor who will assist in helping me find the kind of help I need. They try to make sure they locate a provider within my insurance network, best location, taking new patients, etc. Basically they help navigate through the maze of confusion when someone needs help. It is a very valuable benefit for someone going through a situation where you just don't know what to do or where to turn to find what you need.
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Post by pb on Apr 20, 2016 19:30:09 GMT
I am glad you are getting some resources.
I will keep you and your daughter in my thoughts.
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caro
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Post by caro on Apr 20, 2016 19:32:28 GMT
I can't help but wanted to give you hugs.
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M in Carolina
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Post by M in Carolina on Apr 20, 2016 20:29:23 GMT
I am so very sorry.
Some practices also have nurse practitioners that can both counsel and write meds.
Is your dd in a psych hospital right now? I went for a week, and it was exactly what I needed. There were lots of caring people.
The older women looked after the young ones. My roommate was 17, and her mom was worried until she saw that I could keep an eye on her.
I feel so sad for you. What's horrible about depression and suicidal thoughts is that your brain just won't shut down and stop telling you to do it already. It really isn't a conscious thought--like that little voice in the back of your head that says "jump" when you look over the edge of a height. It's not something you'd ever do in your right mind, but it's just there.
The meds will make that impulse go away and counseling will help her and you deal with the darkness. I definitely recommend that you talk to someone too. This is really painful for everyone. This doesn't mean that she doesn't love you. I think part of depression is loving your family so much that you're convinced they're better off without you burdening them.
I will be praying for you and your family.
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esredhead
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Post by esredhead on Apr 20, 2016 20:48:11 GMT
librarylady THANK YOU so much  ChicagoKaren My daughter has her own insurance, but i will have her check that out. Well the sun came up again. DD and I have talked a lot in these last 24 hours. To answer a few questions, she wasn't hospitalized the doctors at the er realized she was screaming for the world to stop vs a true attempt to die. DD had taken 6-10 tylenol 3 pills and then called me crying, saying she had taken to many pills could I come help her. She was released to us. One of our conditions of her not being put inpatient was she had to move back home ( she lives with her grandparents and helps care for them). She has been one of those kids who wears her heart of her sleeve and she would rather take the hurt of others vs them. She has had several things happen in her life that in all honesty she just hasn't dealt with all the way through. She did try counseling on her own about 6 mths ago but stopped going when her story made the therapist cry. I can not thank you ladies enough for all the messages and help with this. I have been a pea for almost 13 maybe 14 years, I am just one of the very very quiet ones, Long time reading first time poster  Andrea |
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