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Post by Linda on Apr 20, 2016 22:27:41 GMT
all these threads on makeup are a) making me feel insecure and b) reminding me of my teen years when it seemed everyone was wearing makeup and instinctively knew how and what to do and I didn't.
I haven't worn makeup in probably 20-25 years, maybe more. DH isn't keen on makeup and I never really got the hang of it....I'm almost 47 now and I feel like I missed the window on this (and other things - manicures, hairstyling, fashion...)
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Post by keithurbanlovinpea on Apr 20, 2016 23:09:46 GMT
You didn't miss the window. If you want to start, there were are plenty of resources like YouTube and blogs. I have always worn makeup, some times more than others. I am currently "back into it" with increased interest and I can tell you that, like all things, it takes practice. I play around a lot, especially since I work at home now. But it is not instinctive at all. I learn techniques and tips mostly on YouTube, especially Angie at Hot & Flashy (she is more, ahem, mature like me).
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Post by refugeepea on Apr 20, 2016 23:13:06 GMT
I usually wear foundation and concealer because my skin is terrible. There are days I go without with nothing too. I really don't care to make it a daily routine.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Apr 20, 2016 23:18:16 GMT
I wear mascara on my top lashes. Probably 3-4 days a week I wear foundation too because I think my skin looks better with it. But other than that? I'm just not very interested. When I go out on a Saturday night I will wear some eyeshadow and lipgloss. But only if I'm going out. I feel like I need to improve my look too. At the very least I should be wearing a better quality foundation than the Neutrogena acne clearing I've been wearing for twenty years now. I don't even have acne. I have thought about having some kind of a makeover but I'm not sure where to go.
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Post by keithurbanlovinpea on Apr 20, 2016 23:24:06 GMT
I have so many options. On some days I wear full coverage foundation and full on makeup. Others I wear CC cream, powder and a bit of mascara. Most days are in between the two (I have about 6 different foundation options... LOL). I wear what I feel like wearing. That is the beauty of makeup. No one but you controls what you do with it.
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Post by birukitty on Apr 20, 2016 23:41:41 GMT
If you want to start wearing makeup there are easy ways to go about it. Do you have an Ulta or Sephora store near you? Both stores have women who work in them that will help you choose products that will be a great match for your skin color. They will both try products on you with no obligation to buy, and I've found the women that work there to be very helpful and warm to me, with no pressure to buy.
I've found this is the best way to buy products because you can see a product on your skin, and you can get a perfect match to your skin color rather than choosing something online or even choosing a color yourself from an array of products on a store shelf. I've been wearing makeup since I was 15 and I'm 55 now, and I still like to go to both stores (Ulta is easiest for me to get to) and either try the samples on my skin, or ask for help when choosing a color.
To start with you'll probably want a foundation to even our your skin color and cover any imperfections. Personally I love this product-Urban Decay Naked Skin Weightless Liquid Makeup. It feels like you have nothing on (which isn't true of all foundations), it lasts a solid 8 to 10 hours, and covers shine beautifully. It creates a nice, dewy finish. It's not cheap, at $40.00 but to me it's worth it, because of what it does, how it feels and how long it lasts.
For lips, I have very dry lips. I wasn't able to ever use lipstick until I found this brand 3 years ago. I love this brand! It is the very best of lip balm with amazing color combined. It's called "Lipstick Queen" Ulta carries this brand. So far I've tried, Hello Sailor, Medieval, Butterfly Ball (comes in various shades), and my all time favorite Frog Prince-which turns your lips a gorgeous rose. Each person is different, for me it's a deep rose. This one has shea butter and vitamin E. It's the most moisturizing of all of the ones I've tried. It also stains your lips a beautiful color.
For cheek color I went cheap and chose a product from L'Oreal, but it doesn't last long, and I need to replace it with a better product.
For mascara I've been using a product for years called Blinc mascara. Ulta doesn't carry it, but Sephora does. I really like it because it doesn't just paint your lashes, it actually forms a plastic tube around each lash. For me this is great because I wear contact lenses. It means no sticky lashes, but mascara that lasts through getting wet. It also looks very naturally. They slide off when I wash my face.
That's all I wear. It's very minimal and simple. But it makes me feel better about myself when I go out.
There are a lot of videos on youtube about doing your makeup but for me I've always learned better by reading books. Check your local library if you are like me, or even Amazon. There are a lot of books on makeup for women our age. I've checked out a few books from my library on this subject.
Debbie in MD.
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Post by maryland on Apr 21, 2016 1:18:33 GMT
I have so many options. On some days I wear full coverage foundation and full on makeup. Others I wear CC cream, powder and a bit of mascara. Most days are in between the two (I have about 6 different foundation options... LOL). I wear what I feel like wearing. That is the beauty of makeup. No one but you controls what you do with it. I can't find a good foundation or concealer. I have tried a few kinds, but they seem to make fine lines more noticeable! I can't afford to keep trying new foundation, but would love to have one that covers some brown spots and evens up skin tone. Also, I have trouble finding a good color.
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Post by keithurbanlovinpea on Apr 21, 2016 1:20:58 GMT
Definitely go to Ulta or Sephora and ask. They are happy to help. Sephora will give samples too.
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Post by myshelly on Apr 21, 2016 1:21:08 GMT
I have so many options. On some days I wear full coverage foundation and full on makeup. Others I wear CC cream, powder and a bit of mascara. Most days are in between the two (I have about 6 different foundation options... LOL). I wear what I feel like wearing. That is the beauty of makeup. No one but you controls what you do with it. I can't find a good foundation or concealer. I have tried a few kinds, but they seem to make fine lines more noticeable! I can't afford to keep trying new foundation, but would love to have one that covers some brown spots and evens up skin tone. Also, I have trouble finding a good color. You should buy at Ulta or Sephora so you aren't out any money when you try something new and don't like it.
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Post by Jockscrap on Apr 21, 2016 7:09:44 GMT
You didn't miss the window. If you want to start, there were are plenty of resources like YouTube and blogs. I have always worn makeup, some times more than others. I am currently "back into it" with increased interest and I can tell you that, like all things, it takes practice. I play around a lot, especially since I work at home now. But it is not instinctive at all. I learn techniques and tips mostly on YouTube, especially Angie at Hot & Flashy (she is more, ahem, mature like me). I could have written this post. Back in the eighties in my mid teens, I used to wear lots of slap when I wasn't in school. If I was wearing a red, yellow and purple top, I had those colours of eyeshadows on too lol. For the next 20 years or so, I used a little face powder, some eyeliner and blusher every day, with more on a night out, but never foundation. Then when I hit my early forties, I seemed to get more unevenness in my skin and added daily foundation to the eyeliner, blusher routine. Thanks to the peas, DH gave me a Naked 2 palette and that set me off down the 'full slap every day' route including mascara which I seldom wore before. Most days I wear the lot, but I vary the foundation routine but need to cover age spots now. Most mornings I'm not in a huge rush to get out the door and I quite enjoy the few minutes I spend at the dressing table, painting my face and listening to music. It's a bit of me time before the day begins in earnest.
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Post by Jockscrap on Apr 21, 2016 7:16:38 GMT
all these threads on makeup are a) making me feel insecure and b) reminding me of my teen years when it seemed everyone was wearing makeup and instinctively knew how and what to do and I didn't. I haven't worn makeup in probably 20-25 years, maybe more. DH isn't keen on makeup and I never really got the hang of it....I'm almost 47 now and I feel like I missed the window on this (and other things - manicures, hairstyling, fashion...) Linda, I may well be wrong as you know your DH, but I suspect that when he says he isn't keen on makeup, he means he isn't keen on heavy and obvious makeup. If your skin is a little red, blemished or has an uneven tone, a little well-applied foundation is something that your DH wouldn't even see or know you are wearing. If using a foundation, I think blusher is needed too, just to take away the flatness and put some colour back, but if this is a matte cream or powder blusher, it's unlikely he'd even realise you have make up on - he'd probably just think you're looking fab! Having said that, noone should feel that they have to wear makeup and he obviously thinks you are lovely just as you are, but if you want to do this for you, I doubt your DH would object (if he notices at all).
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Post by Deleted on Apr 21, 2016 7:48:49 GMT
I've worn and loved make up since I was 13 years old. I don't have an even skin tone so a little foundation and concealer make me feel more confident. I love eye make and do lots of different colours and looks, no two days are the same! There are lots of videos on YouTube that will show you absolutely everything you need to know about make up application. Once you have the basics down I think the best thing is just to play around with it and see what you like. It's easily removed if you don't like it or make a mistake.
As for your husband not liking it, sorry but it isn't his face.
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Post by uksue on Apr 21, 2016 8:46:43 GMT
Ive never worn much makeup and I'm lucky that my skin has always been pretty good. The most I ever wear foundation-wise is a light dusting of Laura Geller balance and brighten. I do like mascara but can't be bothered to wear it every day.
In reality I see a lot of people who wear makeup badly (IMO obviously ) and it puts me off. Tide marks at the jaw line, mismatched foundation colours, poorly blended shadow, thick nasty liner, dark lipstick liner on lighter lipstick, stripes of 'contouring' or blusher and orange bronzer. Maybe it's just where I live, but I'd don't see a lot of nicely applied makeup here ( although my daughter does do a lovely job.- but wears less as she gets older.)
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Post by gsquaredmom on Apr 21, 2016 9:08:08 GMT
My husband does not care one way or another if I wear make up.
I wear it because I want to. I feel I look better in it. OP, you can wear as much or as little or none if you want. It's all good.
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Post by Linda on Apr 21, 2016 11:05:37 GMT
Thanks everyone - lots to think about and consider. Not sure if there is an Ulta or Sephora near me but I'll look into it. Jockscrap - you may be right - he is a fan of the 'natural' look in general though. Ultimately it's my choice whether it's makeup or colouring my hair etc...but I do try to keep his preferences in mind
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Post by maryland on Apr 21, 2016 11:28:51 GMT
I can't find a good foundation or concealer. I have tried a few kinds, but they seem to make fine lines more noticeable! I can't afford to keep trying new foundation, but would love to have one that covers some brown spots and evens up skin tone. Also, I have trouble finding a good color. You should buy at Ulta or Sephora so you aren't out any money when you try something new and don't like it. Do they let you return it if you don't like it?
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Post by keithurbanlovinpea on Apr 21, 2016 11:34:44 GMT
You should buy at Ulta or Sephora so you aren't out any money when you try something new and don't like it. Do they let you return it if you don't like it? Yes, they do. They both have pretty generous return policies, even when opened. I think Ulta is something like as long as there is at least 75% of the product left in the container.
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Post by gsquaredmom on Apr 21, 2016 11:53:04 GMT
Do they let you return it if you don't like it? Yes, they do. They both have pretty generous return policies, even when opened. I think Ulta is something like as long as there is at least 75% of the product left in the container. I think Wal Mart, Walgreens and others will also take returns.
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Post by anxiousmom on Apr 21, 2016 11:53:32 GMT
I find I am a little awkward on the make up/skin care threads too. I do wear a little make up when the occasion calls for it, but for me it is more that I don't always think I should be buying the expensive stuff. I tend to buy what is in the drug store/Target-and that goes for skin care as well. My skin care routine is pretty simple-wash with soap (the old school dove bar) and lotion (again, old school Oil of Olay) and that is pretty much the extent of it. I do a scrub every couple of days (these days a salt scrub) but beyond that, it doesn't happen. I don't get hung up on sunscreen (you have to reapply sunscreen with regularity to be effective and unless you want to reapply your foundation every 80 minutes or so, it really isn't as effective as people think it is.)
Make up is the same thing-a BB cream, blush, eye shadow and mascara is pretty much the full deal for me. I don't go to Sephoia or the like.
When I read the make up threads I hardly say much because I think people will laugh at my cheap Elf preferences- like I some how missed the meeting where people learned about make up and skin care.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 21, 2016 13:18:54 GMT
I love makeup and have a lovely collection of great products. I really like Mary Kay foundations and eye shadow, but prefer elf mascara and such.
That being said, I haven't actually worn any in about 7 months.
I know, makes no sense.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 21, 2016 13:46:01 GMT
OP, if you want to start wearing makeup, go for it, but please know that you are not ugly, incomplete, or less without it.
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Post by peasapie on Apr 21, 2016 14:09:40 GMT
all these threads on makeup are a) making me feel insecure and b) reminding me of my teen years when it seemed everyone was wearing makeup and instinctively knew how and what to do and I didn't. I haven't worn makeup in probably 20-25 years, maybe more. DH isn't keen on makeup and I never really got the hang of it....I'm almost 47 now and I feel like I missed the window on this (and other things - manicures, hairstyling, fashion...) Makeup takes practice. I've been wearing it since 13 and I'm still practicing and learning. I don't know of anyone who instinctively gets it right. I'm not clear on whether you actually want to wear makeup. But if you do, I suggest a very natural line like Bobbi Brown cosmetics. Their salespeople are very knowledgeable and will show you how to enhance your features in a natural-looking way.
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Post by Jockscrap on Apr 21, 2016 14:14:54 GMT
I've just 'treated' myself to an Aldi mascara and their pretendy Touche Éclat, as they both come recommended, and they are very, very cheap. I'm looking forward to giving them a try. I'm not a makeup snob
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Post by myshelly on Apr 21, 2016 14:23:44 GMT
You should buy at Ulta or Sephora so you aren't out any money when you try something new and don't like it. Do they let you return it if you don't like it? Yes! That's why I shop there for all my makeup.
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Post by Linda on Apr 21, 2016 14:42:02 GMT
OP, if you want to start wearing makeup, go for it, but please know that you are not ugly, incomplete, or less without it. Thank you!
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