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Post by jenjie on May 3, 2016 18:32:38 GMT
I think with the picture thing, it's just that there will be no.more.pictures. Ever. I know a lady whose son died. It was his birthday. She posted a picture of him and his dd who looked to be around 5. Now she is graduating high school. No more pictures. No more anything. This is so very real, no more pictures. I still look at the pictures from my son's wedding and there is something wrong or not right with the pictures. My dd isn't in them, where is she? Why does the family picture look so skewed? It is because my parents are not in the pictures. This is a real "thing". Talk therapy really helped with this. Please go easy on yourself. It hasn't been a year yet. Too many changes in such a short period of time. Yes yes yes. Thinking of you missing your Cassie My poor counselor is going to get an earful at my next appointment. I like your suggestion about not needing to do anything with the picture from the dinner too. It's one thing I can let go of for now.
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Post by jenjie on May 3, 2016 18:34:57 GMT
Hugs, and more hugs. As others have said, I can't imagine how hard life can be for you sometimes. The moments that have happened, and those to come, that aren't as you expected have to be the worst. Try and remember that you are not alone--everyone misses Fred; allow your village to come together to help you and the children through it. There's not much that the "village" can do except to honor Fred and assist his family as much as they can. Your faith and church will help, and you have all of us who are with you in spirit. You are one of the strongest women I know, you will get through this moment, and the next ones as well. (and yes, you made me cry again!!!) Ahhh sorry about that. And thank you for your thoughtful words.
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