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Post by scrapmaven on May 26, 2016 15:30:21 GMT
My mil and sil are coming to the graduation. Then we're going out for a celebratory dinner. We chose not to send out announcements since I didn't want to do a gift grab. I am happy to receive announcements. We're still not sure what to give him as a gift. I'm definitely going to decorate his room while he's in his last hours at school. We only get 6 tickets for the ceremony, so we didn't do a big to-do w/other relatives.
What are you doing?
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Post by pridemom on May 26, 2016 15:48:07 GMT
DD graduated Saturday. We had an Open House with anoth family, then attended the graduation ceremony. My mother in law and father in law came from another state and my brother's wife flew in. DD requested a luggage set, so that's what we gave her. We are doing a lot of traveling this summer. She leaves for Playa de Carma next week. I am taking her shopping Saturday for some vacation clothes.
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Post by peabay on May 26, 2016 16:02:13 GMT
We are having a party the day after. A luncheon catered by a pizza truck.
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Post by peppermintpatty on May 26, 2016 16:06:10 GMT
We will be going out to lunch afterwards. It is a DAR Constitution Hall in DC so we may go somewhere down there or come back into MD for it. No party here. We are going to Europe on June 14 as a celebration gift.
I'm not doing announcements. I don't really get the point of them other than hinting that the recipient should send a gift.
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Post by maryland on May 26, 2016 16:16:16 GMT
My 18 yr. old graduated last year and we didn't really do much. We didn't send out announcements either because of the gift thing. But I too love to receive them! We couldn't afford to do a party and our deck was a mess, so our big graduation gift to her was a nice laptop and the fact that we are helping pay for her to go to her dream school!
Our graduation was in the evening at the football stadium and we had an hour delay right in the middle because of ligtning. So we got back to the house late, the grandparents came by for cake and that was our big celebration. We are out of state, so relatives wouldn't be able to come anyways.
Congratulations to all the graduates and their parents!
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Post by littlemama on May 26, 2016 16:25:46 GMT
Graduation is next Thursday. If it's not too late, we might grab a bite to eat afterwards. His party is July 1 - the grad party invites serve as the announcement, since we only get 5 tickets to graduation, it's not like anyone else could come to that!
If you all like to receive announcements, why do you think that your sending them is a "gift grab"? It is actually accepted social convention to send an announcement for a graduation, when there will not be a party. People who don't want to give gifts won't give them, and people who do, will. Grad gifts are pretty minimal, too - maybe $25 from most people, and some people will come to the party and not give anything, which is also fine.
ETA: DS is getting a new 2-in-1 for college as his gift.
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Post by needtime2scrap on May 26, 2016 16:28:43 GMT
Coming from a small rural school our grad is a combined prom and ceremony. Because ds is the first grandchild and first great grandchild to graduate we are doing an open house the Friday night and grad is Saturday afternoon. The reason for the open house is simple, we can't invite everyone to the ceremony/banquet. Not sure on the gift yet but I still have a month to go.
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Post by smalltowngirlie on May 26, 2016 16:31:16 GMT
DS graduates on Sunday, June 5th. His Open House party is on Saturday, June 4th. We invited a lot of people, I guess I never thought of it as a gift grab, but rather others celebrating with us.
My in-laws and one of our exchange students will be attending the actual graduation ceremony with us. Afterwards, DS is free to go wherever he wants and hang out with his friends. I tried to keep a very open schedule for him.
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Post by scrapmaven on May 26, 2016 16:35:10 GMT
DS graduates on Sunday, June 5th. His Open House party is on Saturday, June 4th. We invited a lot of people, I guess I never thought of it as a gift grab, but rather others celebrating with us. My in-laws and one of our exchange students will be attending the actual graduation ceremony with us. Afterwards, DS is free to go wherever he wants and hang out with his friends. I tried to keep a very open schedule for him. I don't see an open house as a gift grab at all. I think it's a nice idea. People get excited and want to give well wishes to the graduate and parents.
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Post by supersoda on May 26, 2016 19:13:32 GMT
Grad is on a Wednesday evening, and we won't do much of anything that day. It will probably be just our immediate family and her boyfriend.
We're having an open house party the following Saturday. We sent formal announcements/invites to close friends and family, and she posted an invite on FB and texted her friends. The party will be on our patio and pirate themed because her college mascot is the Pirates. Fun to plan and super laid back.
She's getting a new laptop as her gift, and I'm trying to finish up a photo book of her childhood, but I keep getting bogged down in all her adorable little girl pics.
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Post by mtscrapper on May 26, 2016 19:35:50 GMT
My father-in-law came and also my daughter and her boyfriend (side note that my daughter got to graduation late and because the gym had reached the capacity, she couldn't get in - I was very upset at the time, but they didn't have to be late, either, so I'm hoping it was a lesson to her.) My daughter actually sang the National Anthem, so it was a big deal! We went out for dinner afterwards. That was Tuesday.
Tonight (Thursday), we are doing an open house with her friends. She has been friends with the same 3 girls throughout middle school and high school and we are doing an open house with all 4 of them tonight. I normally don't do open houses (my 2 older kids didn't have one) for graduation, but two of the moms wanted to do one, so we are kind of "along for the ride." It will be very informal at a park.
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Post by gottapeanow on May 26, 2016 19:49:58 GMT
I have a year to go with oldest ds. This thread gives me a few ideas for future reference.
Lisa
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Post by pealikecrazy on May 26, 2016 20:06:54 GMT
My DS graduates on the 4th at 8 PM and so we are having a family get together the night before on the 3rd. I wanted to have a big get together but he doesn't want that, so we are keeping it just family. Nice cake from a baker in the area... decorations and just the local family - two aunts, a cousin and her hubby, grandma, little sis.... That's it.
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Post by perumbula on May 26, 2016 20:20:01 GMT
DS graduates tonight. he's off right now at the last day festivities. They have a rehearsal, then they are graffi-ing the parking lot (my favorite tradition), then they get to go do a grad walk at the other schools. That last one is new this year. I think it was added last minute because the pictures and article about the school in another state only went viral a few weeks ago. I'm excited they added it. I love the idea. The safe and sober party is this evening after the ceremony. We aren't going to have a big party this weekend. There aren't a lot of family members who can make it to the graduation. We're going to throw him a big party in June when more family will be in the area and combine it with his Eagle Court of Honor. I'm going to see if we can make him a Drinko game for the party. That looks too fun.
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Post by *leslie* on May 26, 2016 20:43:09 GMT
My son graduates tomorrow. It takes place at the local community college football stadium. Something like 750 students are graduating. Each family gets 10 tickets and we are getting 3 extra from my son's girlfriend's family. It starts at 7pm and will probably be over around 8:30pm, then we stay another hour or so and take pictures. Too late to go to dinner so we are having grandparents, uncles, cousins over around 4pm for early celebration dinner before we head over to the venue.
My husband and I are still trying to figure out what to get DS for a graduation gift.
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Post by canadianscrappergirl on May 26, 2016 21:44:13 GMT
Nothing other then his grad dinner and ceremony. This is where having a dysfunctional family full of assholes is very handy no fuss no muss. Can't wait to have this last one graduated!
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Post by River on May 26, 2016 21:48:36 GMT
My oldest son graduates tomorrow night. We took him out for a nice dinner Tuesday for doing so well on his final exams. We have not planned any kind of party for him. I'll take him shopping for a laptop sometime next week since that's what he wants. We have planned a canoe and kayak trip for the family this weekend and he's really looking forward to that. He's considering that his party.
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Post by anonrefugee on May 26, 2016 23:02:32 GMT
You all are making me feel better. DS doesn't want a party. We can't figure out what to get him for a gift. He has a two year old computer and is waiting to see what he really needs at school, has a car. I want something memorable-ish.
We bought the minimal number of announcements, but most are still sitting in the box. I wanted to do the less expensive photo kind- but DH wanted traditional.
We had a big trip planned, but it fell apart and DS isn't bothered.
I feel like a dud and disappointment. But DS is kind of okay about it all. I am not!
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Post by scrappersue on May 26, 2016 23:39:19 GMT
I send announcements only to family and a few close friends. I print up a simple invitation to our open house that my daughter will hand out to her friends. She graduates next Friday and we are having the open house on Sunday. Then she graduates the following Friday from Community College with her AA (Running Start student). I bought her a Surface Pro a few months ago when her laptop bit the dust. That is her graduation present - along with college tuition for the next 2 years
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