schizo319
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Post by schizo319 on Jun 2, 2016 18:45:02 GMT
My friend (a fellow pea) has an adult child in ICU in a neighboring town. She and her family are in and out of the house and since I have a key, I thought I would go and get some groceries and stock her fridge and pantry with something for all of them to eat. I'd make a big meal, but we don't know how many people will be there at what times, so I thought groceries might be a better idea?
She's single and eats a lot of frozen meals and soups, so she doesn't have much in the way of stuff to feed a crowd. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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Post by mellowyellow on Jun 2, 2016 18:49:52 GMT
You could make a lasagna or chicken spaghetti with a salad and bread. That way they could freeze the leftovers. Prayers for a quick recovery for her child.
ETA: Or how about cheese, crackers, summer sausage. Chicken salad with croissants.
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pridemom
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Post by pridemom on Jun 2, 2016 18:50:55 GMT
Salad fixings, frozen precooked chicken, sandwich fixings, breakfast foods, etc. It's likely they are exhausted and not up to cooking much.
Can you arrange to make home cooked meals in the crock pot for them to eat when they come home? You could prepare at home, then take the Crock Pot over and plug it in. That would give them a hot meal with little effort.
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Post by twinks on Jun 2, 2016 18:57:39 GMT
I have done this several times for friends. Things I do - a big pasta salad, a meat/cheese tray with rolls, a pot of soup that can easily be heated up in portions, muffins, sweet rolls, granola, and yogurt. I make sure there is juice, milk and if they are soda drinkers, their favorite sodas. Another thing is a gas card and gift certificates to various fast food places. Paper products so they don't have a sink full of dishes to deal with after a long day at the hospital.
I had a dear friend's husband in the hospital for a very long time. She would come home late at night and be totally exhausted. It was easy for me to make a plate of dinner and run it over to her house for her to heat up. I would set a place mat out and set a place setting with a note. I would turn down her bed. Sometimes leaving a "thinking of you" card, or a small bouquet of flowers, a book, a package of thank you cards, etc.
Anything along those lines are appreciated. You are so thoughtful!
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NoWomanNoCry
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Post by NoWomanNoCry on Jun 2, 2016 19:09:57 GMT
I'm thinking make some crock pot meals and freeze them. When they leave off in the morning for the hospital they can pop a meal into the crock and then it will be ready when they arrive back.
Soups. Chili Chicken and dumplings Chicken and rice with vegetables Stuffed shells Stuffed peppers
Maybe make some breakfast burritos ahead of time wrap in plastic wrap and freeze. Brownies, cookies, fresh friut tray. Maybe get some snack packs of nuts, granola bars, cereal bars in case they want to bring them to hospital. Vending food isn't cheap so it will save them $$.
Prayers for your friends son and the family.
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schizo319
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Post by schizo319 on Jun 2, 2016 19:10:53 GMT
Great ideas guys! Thank you so much. It's hotter than blue blazes here, so we really don't eat a lot of hot foods at this time of year (especially anything that uses the oven), but the mention of a crockpot made me think pulled pork for sandwiches would be perfect. Another friend is picking up a gas card today and I'll definitely add paper products to the list!
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Post by Deleted on Jun 2, 2016 19:14:25 GMT
Put toilet paper on your paper products list. If she's used to being there by herself, she might not have a good supply. With other people coming in and out, she might not think to replenish.
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Post by blueeyedpups on Jun 2, 2016 19:16:47 GMT
In addition to the crock pot meals, snack packs of nuts, granola bars, peanut butter crackers would be great. Bottled water to take to the hospital too. Those vending machines are so expensive!
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Post by mikklynn on Jun 2, 2016 19:21:31 GMT
In addition to the crock pot meals, snack packs of nuts, granola bars, peanut butter crackers would be great. Bottled water to take to the hospital too. Those vending machines are so expensive! This is a great idea. My DH is hospitalized fairly often and generally with no prior notice. These items would be very helpful.
twinks My neighbor brings by cold pasta salads for me...it's fabulous.
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Post by Linda on Jun 2, 2016 19:21:36 GMT
easy breakfast items - bagels/cream cheese, muffins, breakfast bars
easy lunch items - bread/rolls, sandwich fixings, salad (potato or coleslaw or pasta), fruit, cookies/brownies
the crockpot is awesome for a hot cooked meal if you know someone will be there to eat it when it's ready. Deli fried or rotissiere chicken can be eaten hot or cold.
paper products - plastic forks/knives//spoons, paper plates, napkins, kleenex, toilet tissue. If anyone is likely to be of an age to still get AF (esp. if your friend is past that), a sampling of supplies for the bathroom is nice
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Post by myshelly on Jun 2, 2016 19:38:03 GMT
I would buy some individually wrapped/packaged things that family members could throw in their bags on their way to the hospital.
There are a variety of grown up lunchable type snacks and meals at my grocery store right near the actual lunchables. Maybe individual hummus/pretzel or hummus/veggie packs. Protien bars/breakfast bars.
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Post by keesha on Jun 2, 2016 20:46:17 GMT
So thoughtful of you. If you make a list of what you bring a list plus where it's located (freezer, pantry, refrig) is helpful to already stressed out brains. Kind of like a menu. One thing I bring to hospital is a box of good tissues (kleenex brand with lotion). The institutional ones are so abrasive.
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Post by Layce on Jun 2, 2016 20:53:10 GMT
Well you definitely do not necessarily want them to over-expect while you help out. I once had a new friend ask for cat food and litter, and a meal of course, preferably not spaghetti. Do the best you can. &, Bless you
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Post by LilyRose on Jun 2, 2016 20:57:11 GMT
Another vote for a pasta salad--easy to serve up whenever you're hungry and no prep. Perhaps some bottled water they can grab on their way out the door. And in the paper products category, how about some of those to-go coffee cups with lids (but still disposable) so they can take a cup of coffee on their way back to the hospital?
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Jun 2, 2016 23:01:06 GMT
Big pan of rigatoni Tacos--brown and season the meat, chop all the "stuff" and put into separate containers tell her that they can make tacos or taco salad with all the goods Gift cards for a sub shop or pizza Veggie pizza ( the cold kind with raw veggies) Chicken casserole (chicken, mushroom soup, stuffing on top)
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Post by shevy on Jun 3, 2016 1:56:44 GMT
If you can, try putting things in single servings by using muffin tins to freeze in. Then she can use somethings for herself. If she has 1,2,10 people there, she can add more servings.
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Post by shescrafty on Jun 3, 2016 2:25:48 GMT
This really helped us when we came home and had people in and out of our home:
Paper products (plates, utensils, TP, and paper towels) Cans of soda Fried chicken (from grocery store-can be eaten hot or cold) Mac and cheese Chicken salad and croissants Sliced cheese /ham/pepperoni tray Sliced carrots/cucumbers and hummus or dip Bagels and cream cheese or English muffins or other muffins
It is really kind of you to help out!
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