msliz
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Post by msliz on Jun 14, 2016 0:07:20 GMT
Due to my fibroids, there's a possibility that I'll be joining the "Peas with Hysterectomies" ( HysterectoPeas? ) later this summer, and a friend asked me whether I'd be keeping my cervix if I'm given the option. I don't know. I've never thought about it before now.
Should I ? Should I not ? Why ?
What would you do? Or what did you do?
(When I say "keep it," I mean in my person, not in a little jar in my fridge.)
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leeny
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Post by leeny on Jun 14, 2016 0:27:07 GMT
I kept mine. I felt the more parts I kept, other than the $%^& trouble causing uterus, the better off I was. If you have a male partner, some docs would say that not having a cervix might change sensation (okay, insert blushing smiley here).
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Post by msliz on Jun 14, 2016 0:36:13 GMT
This is what I need to hear. Thanks Leeny.
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Post by eleezybeth on Jun 14, 2016 0:38:35 GMT
I wasn't given an option. Not sure why, but Dr. said the cervix would have to go. Thanks for making me think about it!
(Recently had an ablation that probably won't work so only in the talking stages of the hyster)
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Post by FurryP on Jun 14, 2016 0:54:41 GMT
My Dr. told me that if he was able he would leave at least part of the cervix because that would keep me from going into early menopause. I was all up for that, so I prayed that he would be able to leave part of it in. And he was! I don't want to deal with the menopause stuff before my time!
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Post by mom on Jun 14, 2016 0:56:27 GMT
I didn't have a choice, and yep. I was sent into early menopause in my late 20's.
I say if you can keep it and you don't have a family history of cervical cancer, then I would keep it.
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Post by Zee on Jun 14, 2016 1:01:23 GMT
I was offered a vag hyst (also had large fibroids) and that means they take the cervix too. After weighing all options, I decided I didn't need it and a bonus is that I no longer need pap smears! As far as "sensation", there's nothing worse than taking a hit to the cervix IMO so good riddance. Everything healed up just fine and it's business as usual I recall melissa gave me (and all of us who have ever posted about these issues!) some excellent advice and that helped me decide to go with the vag hyst. No regrets at all. ETA I did keep my ovaries so am not menopausal yet, as far as I know.
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Post by Zee on Jun 14, 2016 1:03:12 GMT
I didn't have a choice, and yep. I was sent into early menopause in my late 20's. I say if you can keep it and you don't have a family history of cervical cancer, then I would keep it. That's nothing to do with the cervix, just the ovaries.
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Post by Penellopy on Jun 14, 2016 1:57:34 GMT
My doctor was just going to take one ovary. I told her while she was in there take everything I didn't need. She took it all. Good thing too. My Mother's doctor left her ovaries, and she passed away from Ovarian Cancer. We didn't have a history of any cancer in our family, but we do now. Early Menopause for me and no more pap's!
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Post by msliz on Jun 14, 2016 2:17:31 GMT
For those of you who said goodbye to your cervix, are your orgasms just as strong?
They're kind of important to me, and I don't want to risk losing them!
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Post by ~Susan~ on Jun 14, 2016 2:17:39 GMT
I had mine removed since that was the main thing giving me the trouble. As for losing sensation during intercourse, I haven't noticed any difference whatsoever
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Post by alexa11 on Jun 14, 2016 2:18:12 GMT
Dr. told me that he was going to leave mine- everything else went. He left it for sensation- orgasms didn't change.
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Post by ~Susan~ on Jun 14, 2016 2:19:44 GMT
For those of you who said goodbye to your cervix, are your orgasms just as strong? They're kind of important to me, and I don't want to risk losing them! Yep
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Post by PEArfect on Jun 14, 2016 2:28:57 GMT
I kept my ovaries and cervix. Same reasons as already mentioned.
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Post by Zee on Jun 14, 2016 2:41:30 GMT
There is no difference noted here
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Post by scrapmaven on Jun 14, 2016 3:08:57 GMT
I would do what my doctor advised if I completely trusted my doctor. If you don't need it and they're already going in anwyay, why not remove one more cancer risk?
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Post by melissa on Jun 14, 2016 3:23:19 GMT
I really think this is a very individual situation. This decision should also take into account your personal HPV and pap smear history. If there is a history of dysplasia and HPV, I would definitely take the cervix.
The biggest issues with leaving the cervix are twofold. One is the possibility of monthly spotting from endometrium that might be in the cervix. The other is that leaving the cervix behind means some ligaments are not cut. These ligaments provide support to the vagina. If they are already stretched out, I'd probably take the cervix out. If not, there is the thought that leaving the cervix will provide more support to the vagina.
The talk on orgasms and husbands feeling it is just that, mostly talk. Some say things are better. I've never heard a woman who really needed a hyst who regretted it, especially women with excessive bleeding or very symptomatic fibroids.
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Post by vjlau on Jun 14, 2016 3:29:12 GMT
I had a hysterectomy in 2011. I was 35. Everything gone including cervix - except one ovary. No menopause. Best thing I ever did - no more periods, and no more pain! My doctor even advised she take my appendix at the same time just to "clean it up" in there and avoid any future issues. I had her take it out too.
I've never had any problems with orgasm, sensation, etc after. DH says it's all the same too.
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Post by msliz on Jun 14, 2016 3:35:02 GMT
Thank you, all of you.
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Post by lisacharlotte on Jun 14, 2016 4:01:36 GMT
I can tell you without a doubt menopause killed my orgasms. For the 5 years I was on HRT, they were good, but not quite as great as before. Now 3 years off HRT they are just a mere shadow of their former glory. For me, this has been the worst part of menopause. I don't even think about sex now and it used to be a daily consideration. I'm 51 and went into medical menopause with chemo/radiation due to cervical cancer in 2008 at 43.
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Post by papersilly on Jun 14, 2016 4:43:51 GMT
I went back and forth on it up until the morning of the surgery and didn't decide until the last time my doctor checked on me before doing the procedure. In the end I chose to keep it to avoid a vaginal prolapse. My doctor also said it's easier to detect any abnormalities with the cervix than my ovaries or uterus so keeping it won't be so risky.
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Post by lily123 on Jun 14, 2016 15:22:50 GMT
For those of you who said goodbye to your cervix, are your orgasms just as strong? They're kind of important to me, and I don't want to risk losing them! No they're not - I would definitely keep it if I had a choice. I wish I'd known that it could make a difference - I feel that I wasn't given all the information.
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Post by gsquaredmom on Jun 14, 2016 16:10:11 GMT
I would keep it. I have read some things that indicate it may affect sexual satisfaction to remove it. Cancer? Maybe. Fibroids? I'd keep it. But then I would try embolization before hysterectomy if I could.
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Post by flute4peace on Jun 14, 2016 16:27:57 GMT
Due to my fibroids, there's a possibility that I'll be joining the "Peas with Hysterectomies" ( HysterectoPeas? ) later this summer, and a friend asked me whether I'd be keeping my cervix if I'm given the option. I don't know. I've never thought about it before now. Should I ? Should I not ? Why ? What would you do? Or what did you do? (When I say "keep it," I mean in my person, not in a little jar in my fridge.) When I asked my Dr. this question, she said it was just one more thing to have to worry about getting cancer in. I chose to have mine removed.
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Post by flute4peace on Jun 14, 2016 16:32:05 GMT
My Dr. told me that if he was able he would leave at least part of the cervix because that would keep me from going into early menopause. I was all up for that, so I prayed that he would be able to leave part of it in. And he was! I don't want to deal with the menopause stuff before my time! I've never heard of this before. Isn't it the ovaries that produce the hormones? I was keeping one ovary so maybe it just wasn't discussed.
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Post by melissa on Jun 16, 2016 1:50:42 GMT
Yes, flute4peace, you are correct. It is the ovaries that produce hormones. The cervix has nothing to do with menopause. I think she may have been a bit confused. One ovary left behind at hysterectomy can be associated with a slightly earlier menopause probably due to changes in blood supply, but it's not like you really know the age you would stop having periods when you've had a hysterectomy anyway!
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Post by peasapie on Jun 16, 2016 1:52:49 GMT
They took out my cervix with my hysterectomy (for fibroids) but left the ovaries. I did not go through menopause. I do not miss my cervix and neither does my husband. It didn't affect orgasms. I was happy to have it out. One less kind of cancer to worry about.
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Post by scrapaddie on Jun 16, 2016 2:19:30 GMT
My hysterectomy was for endometriosis, so everything went... Uterus, Ovaries, cervix. Thankfully, I still have a vagina. Did hrt for a few years but stopped when the insurance plan changed and my gyno was no longer available. I was 37 when I lost it all. Orgasms great, still. Never went through any symptoms of menopause and I am almost 65 now.
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Post by hawkeyegal on Jun 16, 2016 16:22:10 GMT
So if they take the cervix you don't need Paps anymore? So how do they test for Ovarian Cancer without a pap? Or is hat just for cervical cancer? I go in next week to talk with my OB/GYN about surgical options for my fibroids and polyps (I have gone through the biopsy, ultrasound and salt water ultrasound.)
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Post by pjaye on Jun 16, 2016 17:16:59 GMT
So how do they test for Ovarian Cancer without a pap There is currently no routine screening test for ovarian cancer. A PAP test has nothing to do with the ovaries or ovarian cancer, A PAP test takes a scraping of cells from the cervix and is therefore only able to identify abnormal/cancerous cervical cells. You can have normal PAP test but still have cancers in other parts of the female reproductive organs.
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