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Post by Merge on Jun 14, 2016 18:45:08 GMT
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happymomma
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Post by happymomma on Jun 14, 2016 18:58:41 GMT
Oh my goodness. It's as if he was programmed with evil from early on, from his own home. More than anything else, parents have got to start instilling respect, tolerance, kindness and goodness into their children. These are things that cannot be legislated by law, bought by money or often changed in adulthood. My heart goes out to those of you who are teachers or others that work with children. It must be heartbreaking and soul hurting to try to combat this kind of upbringing.
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Post by mom on Jun 14, 2016 19:14:21 GMT
oh how sad. Im not a teacher, but I remember being in school with a kid who literally gave chills when I was around him.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 14, 2016 19:43:39 GMT
Chilling is exactly the word for it. It sounds like his father encouraged his violent behavior, too. Simply awful.
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TankTop
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Post by TankTop on Jun 14, 2016 20:24:14 GMT
It is such a helpless feeling to be able to see the writing on the wall. When the school staff and all mental health professionals are in agreement and the parents won't support, it is heart breaking.
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M in Carolina
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Post by M in Carolina on Jun 14, 2016 21:24:39 GMT
oh how sad. Im not a teacher, but I remember being in school with a kid who literally gave chills when I was around him. I did, too. This was before Columbine, and the guy was in ROTC and told everyone he went through actual Army boot camp between junior and senior year (he did send me and another girl letters from an army base in SC). He claimed to carry an assault rifle in his car trunk. He actually carried a pistol on a "missionary" trip to NYC where they'd be handing out tracts on the subway and in the worst neighborhoods as well as holding services at shelters--no food drives to help the shelters or fixing meals (because the only reason these people are homeless is a lack of character). He showed it to me, and I told the principal who did nothing--I got the feeling that the principal liked the idea that a "trained" "soldier" had a means of "protecting" the students. (who'd be mugged and raped in the "Sodom and Gomorrah" of NYC). He would pass me notes in class and actually used the words "damsel in distress" and referred to himself as my "knight in shining armor". He was not amused when I rewrote his notes so the "damsel in distress" rescued herself, knocked him off his horse, and rode away into the sunset with a guy who celebrated and encouraged her independence and strength. (I didn't know he was dangerous) This is the guy who came to my church a few years later and hid in a classroom until after the service so he could ambush me when I was alone, so he could rape and kill me. My dad had taught me self defense, so I was able to hold him off until dh showed up and chased him off. We didn't tell anyone because we wouldn't be believed, and I would be blamed for being alone. It's not just Islam that teaches men that women are inferior and the reason why men go astray is because of how women tempt them. Bad BobThese religions teach that men are superior, and women are delicate, weak and need a big, manly man to take care of them. If their fathers, husbands, and pastors didn't control them, women would usurp the man's authority by becoming career women who are either lesbians or immodest whores who lure wholesome family men into adultery and break up families. All because they refuse to submit to their feminine roles of "beautiful mothership". People like this terrorist blame the "homosexual agenda" for destroying our society. A society that accepts homosexuality will become a moraless "Sodom and Gomorrah" where anything is ok. Those that believe this also believe that gays are pedophiles and want to destroy our society and are lying when they insist that all they want is the same freedoms and benefits as other US citizens.
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MizIndependent
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Jun 25, 2014 19:43:16 GMT
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Post by MizIndependent on Jun 14, 2016 21:37:57 GMT
It's not kids like this that bother me...these kids stand out and set the red flags off. It's the kids who seemed completely normal that turn out to be really violent that terrify me because how do you know? You don't.
One of my oldest DD's friends that she was in band with all through high school and actually wound up dating for a very brief period of time after graduation was one of these seemingly normal kids. About four months after they decided to end their relationship, this kid was arrested for several counts of sexual abuse, sodomy, rape and assault in the first degree. He allegedly forced a woman to have sex with him and hurt that woman with a knife as well, then filed a false robbery report to try and cover up his actions.
DD was so thrown by the whole thing - she had zero red flags but very easily have been his victim instead of someone else. She said, "Mom, I've known him for years - if someone I know that well could do this, how can I ever trust anyone enough to date again?"
Personally, I'm grateful for the kids who give off that creepy vibe, at least you kinda know something is wrong and take some precautions.
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