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Aug 4, 2014 0:09:00 GMT
Post by elaine on Aug 4, 2014 0:09:00 GMT
"Eh, I don't know. Benem first made it onto my radar on the old board with the thread asking us to vote for a creepy sadist for best Craig's List personal ad, because she found him hot. And then started an email exchange with him, including sharing various fetish sites with him that she read/knew people on. And it was a 50/50 split between peas who were disgusted and those who lapped it up." --------------------------------------------- ahhh...WHAT?!! When in the heck did this happen? do you have the thread saved? I've been here forever, and do NOT remember this!! It happened within two months of the board going down. I'll see if I can find it, but Lovestocreate on the previous page found it. I don't know if we are allowed to link to 2peas from here if I find it. Can we?
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Aug 4, 2014 0:09:36 GMT
Post by Deleted on Aug 4, 2014 0:09:36 GMT
If this isn't 'allowed', admin, please remove. Here's the link to the Craigslist post; Benem playing with fireSheds new light on all of this, IMO.
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Post by elaine on Aug 4, 2014 0:13:40 GMT
Actually, the "I live for the applause, applause, applause" says it all.
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Aug 4, 2014 0:16:51 GMT
Post by 1lear on Aug 4, 2014 0:16:51 GMT
Wow . . . . .
I love this place!
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oaksong
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Post by oaksong on Aug 4, 2014 0:21:21 GMT
I liked reading Benem's stories and her writing style, but was a little bit . I am following this closely, have studied some of the old threads (French teenagers), and am totally up to speed with what going on. I guess I'm putting a lot more effort into it than you old timers . I do hope she's OK emotionally as well as physically, but yeah, it doesn't quite make sense. Carry on...
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Aug 4, 2014 0:22:25 GMT
Post by christine58 on Aug 4, 2014 0:22:25 GMT
"Eh, I don't know. Benem first made it onto my radar on the old board with the thread asking us to vote for a creepy sadist for best Craig's List personal ad, because she found him hot. And then started an email exchange with him, including sharing various fetish sites with him that she read/knew people on. And it was a 50/50 split between peas who were disgusted and those who lapped it up." --------------------------------------------- ahhh...WHAT?!! When in the heck did this happen? do you have the thread saved? I've been here forever, and do NOT remember this!! www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3285489
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wenchie
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Jun 26, 2014 14:49:36 GMT
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Aug 4, 2014 0:25:10 GMT
Post by wenchie on Aug 4, 2014 0:25:10 GMT
Oh my, I'm glad I decided to read this thread because you can't make this shit up! OP...seriously? I read none of your Darcy threads because they didn't interest me, but somehow you found a way to make sure that everybody on Refupea now knows your story. Nice work for someone who claims to want to stay anonymous. I think the problem is that she is making shit up. OP has a history of weirdness. If you are afraid for your life GET OFF THE INTERNET. Stay safe and stay anonymous. I really wouldn't want anything to happen to you. My bet to you benem.
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wenchie
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Aug 4, 2014 0:25:36 GMT
Post by wenchie on Aug 4, 2014 0:25:36 GMT
Oh my, I'm glad I decided to read this thread because you can't make this shit up! OP...seriously? I read none of your Darcy threads because they didn't interest me, but somehow you found a way to make sure that everybody on Refupea now knows your story. Nice work for someone who claims to want to stay anonymous. I think the problem is that she is making shit up. OP has a history of weirdness. If you are afraid for your life GET OFF THE INTERNET. Stay safe and stay anonymous. I really wouldn't want anything to happen to you. My best to you benem.
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Aug 4, 2014 0:28:09 GMT
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Post by caro on Aug 4, 2014 0:28:09 GMT
Do we know Benem's real name or was she under another identity on 2 Peas ? The French teenagers thing rings a bell with me.
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Post by sisterbdsq on Aug 4, 2014 0:30:05 GMT
Here's my recollection...she lost a bunch of weight and posted a lot of self promoting, look at me, threads on the old board. Which, at the time didn't seem odd because people like to show off their accomplishments and that's great. Then she started posting all kinds of crazy (read, BOY crazy) shit. Playing with people in the BDSM community is a dangerous, dangerous thing. Believe me. Some peas may know, I am a former Domme. I know the kinds of sick people you can get mixed with and you really need to be careful. Then the Darcy stuff started and that seemed off and dangerous too. Very juvenile and playing with fire shit again. I couldn't figure out why those posts had so many followers drooling for more. It was borderline, IMO.
Once she and I pm'd about meeting up at a local beer fest because we are both in Chicago. But later, unprovoked (and I'd admit if I was being antagonistic) she went at me on a thread. No idea why.
Personally, I think she has mental problems and I'm with the few other peas who are calling BS on this whole situation
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Aug 4, 2014 0:34:44 GMT
Post by Deleted on Aug 4, 2014 0:34:44 GMT
Wow...that CL post. I sure hope she got the attention from this Lionel Ritchie thread and her Yesterday thread. It's most likely not the kind she was looking for...but attention is attention, right? Does she have children? If she does, I'm quite concerned because it certainly appears her judgment is quite impaired.
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Post by annabella on Aug 4, 2014 0:40:46 GMT
Things just got weird.
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Post by Ellie on Aug 4, 2014 0:43:54 GMT
I take a couple days off and...whatever this is happened. So confused.
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Aug 4, 2014 0:45:35 GMT
Post by lovetodigi on Aug 4, 2014 0:45:35 GMT
Oh my! That CL thread. She is playing with fire and she is bound to get burned. Maybe she was trying to make Mr. Darcy into this CL dude. That is not the kind of person that you want to try to involve yourself in if you want to live a peaceful life without fear. Benem, you need to find a new adventure that doesn't involve weirdos and pain if you don't want to spend a good part of your life hiding in fear. Please take some time to think about whether this is really the kind of life that you want to persue.
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Post by sisterbdsq on Aug 4, 2014 0:45:35 GMT
Things just got weird. TEE HEE! You know when annabella thinks things are weird, things are WEIRD. she has a high threshold for the strange!
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linda~lou
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Aug 4, 2014 0:46:50 GMT
Post by linda~lou on Aug 4, 2014 0:46:50 GMT
Wow! Her blog is gone!
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Aug 4, 2014 0:55:54 GMT
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Post by pierkiss on Aug 4, 2014 0:55:54 GMT
This is so dang weird. From any angle it is weird.
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Post by molove on Aug 4, 2014 0:58:05 GMT
Things didn't "just get weird."
They have been weird for a long time. Red flags, bells and whistles, all of it. Like I said on another thread, "ain't nothin' wrong, but somethin' ain't right."
I'm sorry but I just lol at all the "OMG, please be safe. Please don't endanger your life. Please take care of yourself." For a normal situation, sure. This, no.
I think Admin got played. Just a nice person who took her at her word. Do you guys have any idea how hard it is to prove internet crimes? It's really hard. Investigator? To do what? Sorry, this is nothing to be alarmed about. Other peas have been annoyed and sought out at their workplace. That really sucks. But serious online stalking and harassment is a serious crime and it takes a whole lot of cooperation with law enforcement and prosecution. I have a feeling this isn't close to that. I may be wrong, but I don't think I am.
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Post by myboysnme on Aug 4, 2014 0:59:08 GMT
Too bad. I kinda wanted to read it but didn't have a link.
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Aug 4, 2014 1:00:16 GMT
Post by elaine on Aug 4, 2014 1:00:16 GMT
And everything past the first page of the CL thread is gone too. There were more. But, since I can't edit my post on that first page, I'm guessing she can't edit or delete either.
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Nanner
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Aug 4, 2014 1:00:46 GMT
Post by Nanner on Aug 4, 2014 1:00:46 GMT
Weird is right!!!
I do hope Benem is ok, though.
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Post by julieb on Aug 4, 2014 1:01:06 GMT
I was thinking the same thing - and I do believe this thread will be deleted soon.
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Nanner
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Aug 4, 2014 1:05:47 GMT
Post by Nanner on Aug 4, 2014 1:05:47 GMT
I don't believe this thread should be deleted. But it's not my call.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 4, 2014 1:06:00 GMT
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Post by jeremysgirl on Aug 4, 2014 1:06:21 GMT
This is one of those head scratching posts that just leaves me feeling grateful my life is relatively boring.
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Post by whirledpeas on Aug 4, 2014 1:07:50 GMT
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Aug 4, 2014 1:08:04 GMT
Post by marianne on Aug 4, 2014 1:08:04 GMT
... I think, "is it me you're looking for ?" Anybody know what I'm talking about ? Lionel Richie
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Aug 4, 2014 1:08:37 GMT
Post by Deleted on Aug 4, 2014 1:08:37 GMT
Too bad. I kinda wanted to read it but didn't have a link. It's still cached by Google.
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Aug 4, 2014 1:08:59 GMT
Post by AngieandSnoopy on Aug 4, 2014 1:08:59 GMT
Sure is. I still have her accidental glasses posting on my screen but everything you click says it is gone.
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Post by whirledpeas on Aug 4, 2014 1:09:55 GMT
Shameless inflation of my post count...
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