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Post by Deleted on Jul 24, 2016 14:29:17 GMT
We watched bits and pieces of the women's qualifying gymnastics events. As the commentators talked about each of their ages, and how those at 15 are prime and those at 19 are fading out and Nastia in her early 20s is a dinosaur, it made me wonder at our values as a global society where we're putting this ridiculous pressure on children for our own entertainment. To be at that level, these girls had to start in gymnastics and be seriously committed to it long before they were old enough to actually choose that life. They put their bodies through hell, potentially disrupt their own fertility, and then are left on their duffs (unless they can score a coaching or commenting gig) before most kids even know what they want to do when they grow up.
I don't find fault with the girls at all. But I just wonder, if the machine that's been created by pushing the qualifying age so young is really the right thing to do.
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Post by imsirius on Jul 24, 2016 14:35:57 GMT
It used to be that any age could compete, but now I believe an athlete has to be 15 to be on the team. I don't think that is a child in the sense that the athletes are old enough to choose to continue.
I watched the US trials and it seemed tame compared to years' past. The team is quite well rounded with Laurie Fernandez at 16 and up to Ali Raizman who is 23. The youngest, Reagan Smith is an alternate and won't likely see any floor time. She is 15.
Parents are also way more involved now than in years past. I think they have more say now than back in the 80’s and 90’s.
Tim Dagget also mentioned the girls have a mentor and a chaperone.
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Post by epeanymous on Jul 24, 2016 15:05:16 GMT
I can't get too bent out of shape about it, considering how much effort, money, and time is poured into sports for boys. Gymnastics and figure skating are really the two sports where female athletes get the glory. That glory may itself be for some sexist reasons, and I am personally not a sports person at all, but our culture places a huge emphasis on athletics. I have met and heard of plenty of parents of boys who are young star basketball, baseball, and football players who organize their families around their child's sporting life and make school decisions based on where their kids will play, and those are kids who are much less elite than Olympic-level gymnasts.
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Post by pierkiss on Jul 24, 2016 15:10:53 GMT
Don't kid yourself. Those little girls that are competing at this level made the choice to do it themselves. They are seriously into it. If they didn't want to be there, and all that it entails, then they wouldn't be. At least in this country, the girls are given the choice to move up/go to competitions every step of the way.
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Post by secondlife on Jul 24, 2016 15:23:09 GMT
Don't kid yourself. Those little girls that are competing at this level made the choice to do it themselves. They are seriously into it. If they didn't want to be there, and all that it entails, then they wouldn't be. At least in this country, the girls are given the choice to move up/go to competitions every step of the way. I knew a child ice skating prodigy many years ago - her mom was a friend of my parents and the girl went to the US trials. Obviously I haven't known all ice skating prodigies in the world, but please don't fool yourself into thinking this is all about the kids and their ambition without there being some significant push from the parents. Some young athletes fulfill their parents' ambition as much as their own. They do things like split up the family so the child can train in a specific place or uproot to move somewhere else to train, not to mention the expense and schooling issues and all the rest.
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Post by pierkiss on Jul 24, 2016 15:26:19 GMT
Don't kid yourself. Those little girls that are competing at this level made the choice to do it themselves. They are seriously into it. If they didn't want to be there, and all that it entails, then they wouldn't be. At least in this country, the girls are given the choice to move up/go to competitions every step of the way. I knew a child ice skating prodigy many years ago - her mom was a friend of my parents and the girl went to the US trials. Obviously I haven't known all ice skating prodigies in the world, but please don't fool yourself into thinking this is all about the kids and their ambition without there being some significant push from the parents. Some young athletes fulfill their parents' ambition as much as their own. They do things like split up the family so the child can train in a specific place or uproot to move somewhere else to train, not to mention the expense and schooling issues and all the rest. True. Some parents are living vicariously through their kids. I get that the pressure to compete and be the best can be extreme. However, if a kid really really didn't want to do it anymore, they could simply flub their routines. Done. You mess up enough and you're out. And hey all know it.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 24, 2016 15:27:26 GMT
Personally I see an overabundance of parent involvement in lots of kids sports. And saw how detrimental it was to one nephew. While he loved the sport as much as his dad, it was his whole life. But it did feel like the sport was picked for him at a very early age because it was the sport dad played. And when he got hurt his senior year of high school and could no longer play, he really lost a large part of who he thought he was. He really lost his way and 8 years later is still kind of lost.
I think at some point there should be a life for the child outside of the chosen sport. I am not sure that there would be as an Olympian gymnast. Hopefully the parents and coaches make sure that there is. That not every family vacation is a sporting meet/tournament. But do wonder what happens after it is over? How do they assimilate back to a 'normal' life?
I do wish the competitors were older, more like the ones swimming who are generally college age or above. Are there any other Olympic sports where the age of the competitors is that young?
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Post by melissa on Jul 24, 2016 15:29:34 GMT
The qualifying age has actually been pushed up. The age was 14 when Nadia Comaneci (I know I probably massacred her last name). They could even compete as 13 yrs i=in the senior division if they were turning 14 that year.
I think it was around 1997 when the age was pushed up to 16. I only remember because dd was born in 1997 and there was a lot of coverage on the training these girls do. Dh turned to me and said "no gymnastics for her." I can laugh now because she trains full time in ballet. You can't do a schedule like that if you do not love what you are doing. It is all consuming.
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Post by imsirius on Jul 24, 2016 15:40:34 GMT
No expert, but from what I see, most well known athletes are picked up as commentators or reporters. Lots in gymnastics turn to coaching and open gyms of their own. Some go to college, some turn to acting etc. Shannon Miller assimilated into a very normal life and was basically left alone. Shawn Johnson went to school but not sure what she does now. Carly Patterson is a doctor I heard. Mary Lou Retton became a mom and wife. You don't see much of Kerri Strug but she married too.
So, yes, I think most do go on to have normalcy. In fact, with their noteriety, I think they have lots of options.
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Post by katlady on Jul 24, 2016 15:40:55 GMT
Are there any other Olympic sports where the age of the competitors is that young? The nature of the sport. Female gymnasts are at their best when they are young and small. After puberty, most grow out of the sport. I think the change happened because of Nadia. Before that, gymnast were older and bigger, but they did less physical movements. More emphasis was placed on grace. Now, it is all about tumbling and strength. My biggest surprise watching the sport evolve was when they started doing full swings on the bars! Wow! Figure skating is similar. The smaller girls can spin faster.
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Post by M in Carolina on Jul 24, 2016 15:42:18 GMT
My cousin's son is 16 and is being scouted by UNC for basketball and wants to play ball for them. He's done all this by himself, but we've heard of other players who have a lot of pressure from their parents to excel. If a child wants to put in all the effort to be an athlete at this level, then they should be able to do this. I have seen young children who are pressured to excel who aren't old enough to have really chosen that life for themselves. Like ice skaters and gymnasts who are competing at extremely high levels even though they are very young. I just read a wikipedia that listed some North Korean gymnasts who claimed to be in their late teens but were actually pre pubescent and had competed for several years. The girl was missing her front teeth which raised the most suspicion and at that point the girl who had been competing for several years. There's no way that she had a choice in training and competing at such a high calibre--the training to compete at those levels must have started as a toddler. Another gymnast claimed to be 15 for 3 years. Here's the link
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Post by raindancer on Jul 24, 2016 17:55:08 GMT
When my dd was in gymnastics there was the take it or leave it attitude at her gym (wh8ch is not producing elite athletes). Meaning that if they didn't conform to advancement, increase hours at the gym, etc. They were ousted for all intents and purposes. And the girls left behind were not looked upon highly. They worked more to get to the next level, not for love of sport but because of peer pressure. At age 8 they get into a little bubble of people pushing and don't know anything else.
I think that parents play a huge role in this. And I think no matter the child very few of them want to dedicate their entire lives evenings, weekends, etc. At the sacrifice of all else. They do it because it's expected.
I think the true passion is more rare than not.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 24, 2016 18:26:56 GMT
Are there any other Olympic sports where the age of the competitors is that young? The nature of the sport. Female gymnasts are at their best when they are young and small. After puberty, most grow out of the sport. I think the change happened because of Nadia. Before that, gymnast were older and bigger, but they did less physical movements. More emphasis was placed on grace. Now, it is all about tumbling and strength. My biggest surprise watching the sport evolve was when they started doing full swings on the bars! Wow! Figure skating is similar. The smaller girls can spin faster. I guess that's my point. Why aren't we satisfied with or entertained by normal bodies doing normal things (accomplished only with significant discipline of course), that are chosen by people old enough to choose for themselves a dedication level that high, rather than needing or wanting the more showy, thrilling, unnatural activities performed by girls making sacrifices they may not even be able to fully comprehend they're making yet?
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Post by scrapaddie on Jul 24, 2016 18:50:36 GMT
New show to replace dance moms.... Olympic moms! Yes, there are stage mothers everywhere. This kids are not pushed by us, but by the parents
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Post by Deleted on Jul 24, 2016 19:39:20 GMT
New show to replace dance moms.... Olympic moms! Yes, there are stage mothers everywhere. This kids are not pushed by us, but by the parents But if there wasn't a "market" for it, those moms wouldn't be nearly as successful.
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Post by *leslie* on Jul 24, 2016 19:56:12 GMT
I'm ambivalent about these type of sports. I know these girls really train hard and can appreciate that but the pressure on these girls is immense. You can see it their faces. It makes me uncomfortable.
To be honest I don't care for gymnastics, ice skating and even diving. Maybe because I don't like sports with judging involved. As we have seen in the past it can be rigged and I don't think every judge can be truly objective. I also find it weird that pretty much the winners, or at least the top three, always seemed to be determined before the event even takes place. That kind of takes the excitement out of it for me.
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Post by smginaz Suzy on Jul 24, 2016 20:39:56 GMT
One of my friends has a daughter who trains as the same gym as MyKayla Skinner, the gymnast alternate for the summer games. Her daughter loves everything about the sport, trains very seriously, and is awesome at what she does. Her mom is the farthest thing from a stage mom, and simply is involved in supporting her daughter's passion (along with her other daughter, who is also an athlete in another sport.) I can imagine the sport is like any sport or even any hobby. You have some who thrive under the pressure and the involvement, others who are pushed outside their comfort zone, others who can take it or leave it. I mean, I have been a scrapbooker for as long as I can remember, and there were definitely times in the history of the hobby where it felt very competitive and ugly.
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Post by kernriver on Jul 24, 2016 21:10:00 GMT
gymnastics is a young person's sport due to the nature of the tumbling, movements, etc. i feel like you're comparing this to child beauty pagents where there really is a perverted machine driving tiny kids to compete.
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Post by scrapaddie on Jul 24, 2016 21:51:02 GMT
New show to replace dance moms.... Olympic moms! Yes, there are stage mothers everywhere. This kids are not pushed by us, but by the parents But if there wasn't a "market" for it, those moms wouldn't be nearly as successful. True.... But until you get to Olympic level, which does not happen for most kids will not, is there even much of an audience for these kids? Are you saying Olympics should be discontinued? There are countries where children leave their families at a young age to become gymnasts
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Post by Sarah*H on Jul 24, 2016 23:18:30 GMT
Actually, this group of girls has changed the age dynamic completely. Simone just missed the last Olympics age cut off. It was widely accepted at that time that she would be too old to go to Rio. But the sheer athleticism that is now de rigeur on the American team favors the girls who are a little bit older and more physically developed. The fact that Gaby, Aly and Simone are all on the team speaks to the change. It's also created a wide disparity in the rest of the world which continued to focus on different elements of gymnastics (think of the more ballet driven, graceful gymnasts) who can no longer generate the same kinds of scores that Simone gets just from the starting value of her routines.
DD's gym doesn't train at the elite level but there are numerous Level 10s (the highest you can train without going elite) and NCAA Div 1 scholarship gymnasts. Every single one of them chose this sport and time commitment consciously. I used to think it was insane but these kids are more savvy about what they are giving up and what they are choosing than we give them credit for. So many girls quit when they reach a certain level or a certain age (when they understand that the training schedule means no Friday night dances and no marching band, etc.) so the girls who stick with it definitely understand what they are choosing.
ETA: So our gym is just down the road from Abby Lee and the original Dance Moms studio. We joke all the time about Gym Moms (except in our case, we would probably call it Gym Dads.) I can't speak for the dynamic at any other gym but at DD's gym, there is no parental involvement. It's just not the culture. We drop them off in the parking lot and pick them up when it's over. I can't find the right words to express how negative the head coach's reaction would be to the kind of over involved, over invested helicopter parenting that I see in my son's chosen sport of soccer, just as an example. And if the coaches even smell a whiff of a girl not being as interested or into it as she used to be, they will let the parent know. At least in our gym, the bedrock rule is that the gymnast has to want to be there and demonstrate that with her attitude, conduct and work ethic.
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Post by bigbundt on Jul 25, 2016 2:30:01 GMT
I see it in a lot of kids sports and hate it. My daughter is small and muscular and people have been asking me if she is in gymnastics since she was three but I have skirted around enrolling her precisely because of this new "sports" mentality. Kids start sports at three or four years old recreationally and then are expected to go "pro" shortly after if they want to continue to play. And by "pro" I mean traveling teams or competition teams, big time and financial commitment. Why can't kids just play to play? Why this push? It is one thing if your kid is a natural or is passionate about it but I'm seeing more and more perfectly average kids with waning interest pushed into higher levels because there is the pressure to do so. My daughter is starting gymnastics next month (her request) and I asked the gym we chose where they stand on this specific issue because I don't want her to get roped into this mentality. If it turns out she has above average talent, we'll go from there. If she doesn't but has fun with it, I want her to have the opportunity to continue doing it for JUST fun. Not to win, not to be the best, just fun. I think that mentality is going away with a lot of leagues, gyms, dance studios and it makes me sad for our kids.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Jul 25, 2016 4:04:00 GMT
I agree with bigbundt. I've intentionally avoided enrolling my kid in various sports or dance lessons for all the same reasons, and she hasn't asked either. I was in gymnastics in high school (wasn't very good because I didn't even start until 9th grade) and it was fun for a while. I saw firsthand kids get REALLY hurt, as in, go to the hospital with bones sticking out hurt. Instead, I'm encouraging her to pursue the other things she has shown interest in like art, music and academics.
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