Can we talk about the term "butthurt"?

My husband says it quite often. I don't remember where I heard it the first time.

I remember it from 20 years ago in highschool

The first time I heard was a few months ago by my teen daughter and I had to ask her to explain it.
I wonder if it's regional and just becoming more common?

My teens (one college-age, one a young teen) both say this fairly frequently, and have for a couple of years. I don't use it, but the term doesn't bother me. They often use it in combination with "jelly" for jealous.

I'm from the rural midwest and there are a lot of phrases floating around that I think just sound "backwoods country". This is one of them.

I've known of the word for so long, I can't remember when I first heard it.

In general, I don't use much slang or cutesy talk (presh, jelly, totes adorbs, prezzie, sammie, etc).

No, I don't either. I consider it to be slang. The other type of language I generally avoid.

Aren't you fancy? 

Stabby? Haven't heard it before but love it! And I'm one that avoids Fab, Prezzie and doesn't even say MickeyD or Tarje

I've never heard it before now.

Until now, of course.

My DD just used this term yesterday. I, like you, had never heard this term before. I had to ask her what it meant

I've only ever seen it on the internet, usually on snarky blogs or message board posts.

I think it's vulgar because, well, I'm finding I can't quite type out what I always thought it was referring to. Maybe if I said the prisoner who dropped the soap was butthurt. Apparently I went too far with my assumption, though. I've heard the term chapped since I was a kid, as in "that really chaps my a$$." To me, that just meant irritation similar to having a chafed rear. I took butthurt to mean more than just chafing, but now it makes sense that I was wrong about that.

Now I feel simultaneously like a prude and a horribly inappropriate person.

People assume it's related to being dominated and/or anally raped.

I use it frequently and I'm on the East Coast.