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Post by ahiller on Nov 12, 2016 17:26:59 GMT
God I wish the old board's archives were still up so we could take a walk down memory lane after Obama's first victory. It's an effing miracle the earth didn't implode in the past 8 years, given the histrionics and doomsday attitude of the conservatives on the board. Now it's our turn. We're just as upset and pissed off as you were then. And if you think you (general conservative you) were sweetness and light and respectful and giving lip service to unity, you have a very selective memory. And as I already stated, I know the right treated Obama and his policies with no mercy. IMO, there's a HUGE difference between speaking out against the candidate or President and/or his/her policies vs. the personal attacks we've seen so much of this time. Except there WERE personal attacks on the old board to the people who voted for Obama. Hell, I can remember people being called racist and being accused of only voting for Obama *because* he was black. (Side note, does that make it reverse racism? I really don't know. 🤔). I think many peas are having a selective memory because they were the ones slinging the insults the last two times around.
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Post by imsirius on Nov 12, 2016 17:30:05 GMT
God I wish the old board's archives were still up so we could take a walk down memory lane after Obama's first victory. It's an effing miracle the earth didn't implode in the past 8 years, given the histrionics and doomsday attitude of the conservatives on the board. Now it's our turn. We're just as upset and pissed off as you were then. And if you think you (general conservative you) were sweetness and light and respectful and giving lip service to unity, you have a very selective memory. And as I already stated, I know the right treated Obama and his policies with no mercy. IMO, there's a HUGE difference between speaking out against the candidate or President and/or his/her policies vs. the personal attacks we've seen so much of this time. Damn right they did...so tired of hearing how only HRC supporters are nasty. Look at these images..focus mostly on the last one. Republicans aren't innocent. Both sides are as bad as each other.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 12, 2016 17:30:06 GMT
And I don't understand how you could vote for someone who plays so fast and loose with our national security. Both candidates were majorly flawed...but you're so focused on Trump's flaws that you're completely unable to understand that as strongly as you felt about Trump's flaws, nearly the same amount of American voters felt the same about Clinton and her flaws. But I've said this about 100 times. I could say it 1,000 more times and people on the left would still be so shocked that anyone could dare vote for Trump. "Playing fast and lose with our national security" is an opinion, an interpretation of the events that occurred. The racist and misogynistic things Trump said defy interpreting them in a different manner. Is it not racist to make the statement "They're rapists..." in reference to Mexicans? Is it not misogynistic to say "Grab 'em by the pussy?" This is why I personally find a vote for Trump to be indefensible. Whether a Trump voter agrees with those sentiments or not, they cast their vote for the racism, sexism, and xenophobia along with all the other reasons they voted for him. I can understand that how a Trump voter would value the other things, but I cannot understand how they were okay with the "deplorable" stuff. Ok, so they feel very strongly that Clinton was not an acceptable choice either. Nobody was forcing them to vote for her...there were other options, including organizing and finding an acceptable candidate. But they didn't do any of those things, and now want to be upset when the actual majority of the country is terrified of the demagogue they've saddle us with. Although we did not find clear evidence that Secretary Clinton or her colleagues intended to violate laws governing the handling of classified information, there is evidence that they were extremely careless in their handling of very sensitive, highly classified information. For example, seven e-mail chains concern matters that were classified at the Top Secret/Special Access Program level when they were sent and received. These chains involved Secretary Clinton both sending e-mails about those matters and receiving e-mails from others about the same matters. There is evidence to support a conclusion that any reasonable person in Secretary Clinton’s position, or in the position of those government employees with whom she was corresponding about these matters, should have known that an unclassified system was no place for that conversation. In addition to this highly sensitive information, we also found information that was properly classified as Secret by the U.S. Intelligence Community at the time it was discussed on e-mail (that is, excluding the later “up-classified” e-mails). None of these e-mails should have been on any kind of unclassified system, but their presence is especially concerning because all of these e-mails were housed on unclassified personal servers not even supported by full-time security staff, like those found at Departments and Agencies of the U.S. Government—or even with a commercial service like Gmail. Separately, it is important to say something about the marking of classified information. Only a very small number of the e-mails containing classified information bore markings indicating the presence of classified information. But even if information is not marked “classified” in an e-mail, participants who know or should know that the subject matter is classified are still obligated to protect it. While not the focus of our investigation, we also developed evidence that the security culture of the State Department in general, and with respect to use of unclassified e-mail systems in particular, was generally lacking in the kind of care for classified information found elsewhere in the government. With respect to potential computer intrusion by hostile actors, we did not find direct evidence that Secretary Clinton’s personal e-mail domain, in its various configurations since 2009, was successfully hacked. But, given the nature of the system and of the actors potentially involved, we assess that we would be unlikely to see such direct evidence. We do assess that hostile actors gained access to the private commercial e-mail accounts of people with whom Secretary Clinton was in regular contact from her personal account. We also assess that Secretary Clinton’s use of a personal e-mail domain was both known by a large number of people and readily apparent. She also used her personal e-mail extensively while outside the United States, including sending and receiving work-related e-mails in the territory of sophisticated adversaries. Given that combination of factors, we assess it is possible that hostile actors gained access to Secretary Clinton’s personal e-mail account. - James Comey, July 5, 2016 That's where I get my info to make my "she plays fast and loose with national security" claim.
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Post by valincal on Nov 12, 2016 17:30:36 GMT
God I wish the old board's archives were still up so we could take a walk down memory lane after Obama's first victory. It's an effing miracle the earth didn't implode in the past 8 years, given the histrionics and doomsday attitude of the conservatives on the board. Now it's our turn. We're just as upset and pissed off as you were then. And if you think you (general conservative you) were sweetness and light and respectful and giving lip service to unity, you have a very selective memory. Truth! I still have people on ignore because of how I and other Canadians were treated back in the day when the right ruled the peas. Trump is your president, kids. Looks like a bad reality TV show from here but no need to get all butt-hurt about it. The shit that was slung about President Obama was far worse but I didn't see peas crying and leaving because of it.
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Post by redhead32 on Nov 12, 2016 17:32:34 GMT
The right sees life as "pull yourself up by your bootstraps". The left sees life as "some people don't even have F#($#$ing Boots!". The right thinks all have the same capability to succeed, but are just lazy. The left thinks that some people top out at a 3rd grade academic and/or emotional level - mostly through shit that happened to them while they were still in utero, sometimes because of their shit upbringing (from parents w/the same issues back through generations). Here's the flaw in that philosophy. The right also have children with learning difficulties. With physical challenges. With horrific stories of abuse. And some of them are even dirt poor. What do you suppose conservative people do when their children turn out to be children and not impossibly perfect beings? Discard them? 'Cause I'm pretty sure that I saw a conservative family just the other day who somehow managed to fight their instincts and hold on to their imperfect children and raise them with love and respect. Gasp. If only I had taken a picture of them for proof that they do exist. And the same flaw exists with your argument. No one believes that a Republican that has a special needs child is going to throw that child away. But it is plausible that a Republican without contact with anyone different doesn't see that perspective. Same is true for a Democrat. I saw a FB conversation in my local area where a very vocal Repub was talking about "them" and how "they" need to get off welfare and quit sucking up "his" money. We live in a VERY white area. He sees welfare/SNAP/etc. as a "them" problem, which is code for black (IMO). He doesn't recognize that 40% of one of our local elementary school students are on free-and-reduced lunch, and about 30% of the other 2 elementary schools are. Words on the internet can't fight that perception. Facts don't even work (at least in this guy's case). He believes what he believes. Period. Painting everyone with one huge brush stroke only makes the rhetoric and anger escalate.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 12, 2016 17:33:10 GMT
Trump's policies are starting to be formed, but they aren't lining up with his campaign promises. Repealing Obamacare was a huge promise. I don't remember if it made the first 100 days contract with America, but it was a constant throughout the election cycle. And now he's met with Pres. Obama and saying he might fix it instead of remove it. Another campaign theme was that we need to drain the swamp and the elites need to be kicked out. Big money and lobbyists shouldn't be governing us. Only he's got lobbyists advising him now. I've been a lurker for years and years and years. I've seen the ebb and flow of this board. I've walked away and come back to read more (and now I'm participating). My heart hurts for people that are subject to vicious personal attacks. I'll say to that exactly what I told my 7 year olds when I sent them to school on Wednesday morning: If you see bullying, it is your job to say something. If you see any of your brown classmates being told that they are going to get kicked out of America and they don't belong here, YOU go over there and say THAT IS NOT TRUE. We are so much more willing to use our words as weapons when we are sitting behind a keyboard. I would've assumed that the left would've been THRILLED with his plan to take a closer look at Obamacare? Are you saying now that you want it repealed and not just fix the biggest things that are the most broken? So he already can't win. I thought him having a change of heart so to speak was very courageous. It means he was willing to listen and take things into consideration vs. ramming through to save his pride on what he promised. And while some on the far right may fault him for that, I think taking a closer look at how ACA can be salvaged vs. immediately repealing it was the right thing to do.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 12, 2016 17:35:11 GMT
And as I already stated, I know the right treated Obama and his policies with no mercy. IMO, there's a HUGE difference between speaking out against the candidate or President and/or his/her policies vs. the personal attacks we've seen so much of this time. Damn right they did...so tired of hearing how only HRC supporters are nasty. Look at these images..focus mostly on the last one. Republicans aren't innocent. Both sides are as bad as each other. I was more talking about personal attacks of one another HERE...on this board. The same people we "see" daily, share recipes with, mourn losses with. THOSE are the people that we're ripping to shreds here simply to get a political dig in. With that said...I'm doing some cleaning...followed by a shower and then out with a friend tonight. Taking a break and getting necessary and fun stuff done.
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Post by redhead32 on Nov 12, 2016 17:38:08 GMT
Slow down. I said neither. I didn't vote for either of the major party candidates. I don't line up ideologically with either party. I'm saying that what he said during the campaign and what he is doing in the 4 days after the election don't match. My fear is that we now have a total wildcard as president. We really have no idea what he will do or where he will dig in his heels.
That's also, IMO, why it's so divisive right now. If you don't know what the policy plan is, then all that is left is character. And very few can argue that his character is what we want.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 12, 2016 17:39:16 GMT
I would've assumed that the left would've been THRILLED with his plan to take a closer look at Obamacare? Are you saying now that you want it repealed and not just fix the biggest things that are the most broken? So he already can't win. I thought him having a change of heart so to speak was very courageous. It means he was willing to listen and take things into consideration vs. ramming through to save his pride on what he promised. And while some on the far right may fault him for that, I think taking a closer look at how ACA can be salvaged vs. immediately repealing it was the right thing to do. Of course we would be thrilled w/a plan to amend Obamacare. That's what Hillary said was needed. But, no, Trump was adamant about "repeal and replace!" and scoffed at the suggestion that it only need amending (as most systems do over time).
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Post by redhead32 on Nov 12, 2016 17:40:34 GMT
Trump's policies are starting to be formed, but they aren't lining up with his campaign promises. Repealing Obamacare was a huge promise. I don't remember if it made the first 100 days contract with America, but it was a constant throughout the election cycle. And now he's met with Pres. Obama and saying he might fix it instead of remove it. Another campaign theme was that we need to drain the swamp and the elites need to be kicked out. Big money and lobbyists shouldn't be governing us. Only he's got lobbyists advising him now. I've been a lurker for years and years and years. I've seen the ebb and flow of this board. I've walked away and come back to read more (and now I'm participating). My heart hurts for people that are subject to vicious personal attacks. I'll say to that exactly what I told my 7 year olds when I sent them to school on Wednesday morning: If you see bullying, it is your job to say something. If you see any of your brown classmates being told that they are going to get kicked out of America and they don't belong here, YOU go over there and say THAT IS NOT TRUE. We are so much more willing to use our words as weapons when we are sitting behind a keyboard. I would've assumed that the left would've been THRILLED with his plan to take a closer look at Obamacare? Are you saying now that you want it repealed and not just fix the biggest things that are the most broken? So he already can't win. I thought him having a change of heart so to speak was very courageous. It means he was willing to listen and take things into consideration vs. ramming through to save his pride on what he promised. And while some on the far right may fault him for that, I think taking a closer look at how ACA can be salvaged vs. immediately repealing it was the right thing to do. Whoops. My response was to this. Still learning how to work things on the board. ETA my response above with the quote: Slow down. I said neither. I didn't vote for either of the major party candidates. I don't line up ideologically with either party. I'm saying that what he said during the campaign and what he is doing in the 4 days after the election don't match. My fear is that we now have a total wildcard as president. We really have no idea what he will do or where he will dig in his heels. That's also, IMO, why it's so divisive right now. If you don't know what the policy plan is, then all that is left is character. And very few can argue that his character is what we want. Also - it might be courageous. I think the best thing Trump could do is say he's revisited his previous position and seen that throwing it out would be a mistake. If he's capable of admitting he was wrong, that would be something to give me hope.
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Post by Merge on Nov 12, 2016 17:43:03 GMT
You personally know who she voted for? I don't. I'm pretty sure she's allowed to keep that information to herself and is under no obligation to disclose it here or anywhere. Something about it being her right..... ETA - Sorry, It attributed the quote to the wrong person the first time. If she didn't vote for him, what's she upset about?
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Post by ahiller on Nov 12, 2016 17:43:40 GMT
Trump's policies are starting to be formed, but they aren't lining up with his campaign promises. Repealing Obamacare was a huge promise. I don't remember if it made the first 100 days contract with America, but it was a constant throughout the election cycle. And now he's met with Pres. Obama and saying he might fix it instead of remove it. Another campaign theme was that we need to drain the swamp and the elites need to be kicked out. Big money and lobbyists shouldn't be governing us. Only he's got lobbyists advising him now. I've been a lurker for years and years and years. I've seen the ebb and flow of this board. I've walked away and come back to read more (and now I'm participating). My heart hurts for people that are subject to vicious personal attacks. I'll say to that exactly what I told my 7 year olds when I sent them to school on Wednesday morning: If you see bullying, it is your job to say something. If you see any of your brown classmates being told that they are going to get kicked out of America and they don't belong here, YOU go over there and say THAT IS NOT TRUE. We are so much more willing to use our words as weapons when we are sitting behind a keyboard. I would've assumed that the left would've been THRILLED with his plan to take a closer look at Obamacare? Are you saying now that you want it repealed and not just fix the biggest things that are the most broken? So he already can't win. I thought him having a change of heart so to speak was very courageous. It means he was willing to listen and take things into consideration vs. ramming through to save his pride on what he promised. And while some on the far right may fault him for that, I think taking a closer look at how ACA can be salvaged vs. immediately repealing it was the right thing to do. I *am* thrilled he wants to keep parts of it and improve upon it. I think it's much better than just repealing. My personal assessment of Trump is that he listens to whomever has his ear at the moment so time will tell if he holds true to keeping some of it. Thanks though for painting all of us with the same broad brush that you claim to not want to be painted with. It certainly is a two way street.
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Post by beebee on Nov 12, 2016 17:43:59 GMT
I just don't think there is a tolerance for the right anymore. I don't see it that way. I have tolerance for the right. Here's how it boils down (to me, not to everyone): The right sees life as "pull yourself up by your bootstraps". The left sees life as "some people don't even have F#($#$ing Boots!". The right thinks all have the same capability to succeed, but are just lazy. The left thinks that some people top out at a 3rd grade academic and/or emotional level - mostly through shit that happened to them while they were still in utero, sometimes because of their shit upbringing (from parents w/the same issues back through generations). I have tolerance (though not agreement) w/the right's point of view. I think it's wrong, but I have tolerance. I DO NOT HAVE TOLERANCE for making fun of the disabled, saying that most of the immigrants who come here come to rape, saying that a child of immigrants can't be an objective judge and follow the law, calling women fat pigs or otherwise insulting their lives based on their looks, etc. etc., etc. And I don't have tolerance for that either. I also don't have tolerance for the things Clinton did which have been mentioned over and over so I won't go into that again. Both candidates were terrible IMO. I voted for the platform that is closest to mine. That is all I could do.
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Post by compeateropeator on Nov 12, 2016 17:47:02 GMT
Why not just leave, why the need to announce it? I agree in that I would probably just leave. However I certainly don't begrudge anyone to have their say before they left. How many times have you (General you) just wanted to say your peace before you left someplace, or say what you really wanted to in an exit interview? To me this is no different. So I think people should stay or go, announce or just quietly slip away...however feels right to them. Good luck to you wildcatmom if you are still reading.
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Post by bazinga on Nov 12, 2016 17:51:25 GMT
You personally know who she voted for? I don't. I'm pretty sure she's allowed to keep that information to herself and is under no obligation to disclose it here or anywhere. Something about it being her right..... ETA - Sorry, It attributed the quote to the wrong person the first time. If she didn't vote for him, what's she upset about? I didn't vote for him, but I get really upset about how some people on this board are treating other people on this board. I don't like seeing people being mean period.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Nov 12, 2016 17:57:01 GMT
God I wish the old board's archives were still up so we could take a walk down memory lane after Obama's first victory. It's an effing miracle the earth didn't implode in the past 8 years, given the histrionics and doomsday attitude of the conservatives on the board. Now it's our turn. We're just as upset and pissed off as you were then. And if you think you (general conservative you) were sweetness and light and respectful and giving lip service to unity, you have a very selective memory. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I love you. ❤️
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Post by leftturnonly on Nov 12, 2016 17:58:36 GMT
Nope. No flaw. The right will take care of their children w/disabilities and disease.. That's part of their "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" mentality. The bootstraps in their mind includes the person's family and church. But the left knows that not everyone has a loving or supportive family to fall back on. And the left believes that you shouldn't have to go begging to a particular ideology for care. They believe that those w/o resources (personal or familial) should get help through the rest of us. The right say "go to a church". As if chemotheraphy is available at the closest 1st Baptist. The left say "we're in this together, those w/the most will help those w/the least." You do understand that death comes to conservative parents too. That's not a question. That's a statement of fact. I know you understand this. Children of even the most loving conservative parents are not shielded from the realities of life. Their parents sometimes die, or become addicted to something, or turn out to be lousy parents. And sometimes children do get cancer and require chemotherapy that their poor, broke, conservative parents don't know how they're gonna pay for without getting whatever help they can find. And get this.... children in conservative families sometimes get scared! They don't understand the results of this election any more than children from liberal families. There isn't room for any of that reality in your narrow scenario at all. Yet somehow there is abundant room for all the reality that happens to liberal families. Exactly who is dividing the country more here? People who while minding their own business pulled a lever, pushed a button, checked a box or punched a chad that you don't agree with, that's who. Obviously, that's whose to blame for this huge emotional meltdown. It can't possibly be any one that sings the bedraggled hit song "homophobic, islamophobic, misogynistic, racist, xenophobe..."that's become the greatest hit of the left this year, topping all previous chants by a long mile. Yeah. That makes all kinds of sense.
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Post by leftturnonly on Nov 12, 2016 18:08:28 GMT
Painting everyone with one huge brush stroke only makes the rhetoric and anger escalate. Ya think? I hope you realize that you just restated pretty many of the posts I've made this past month or two. There is no room to breathe. Wildcatmom began this thread to say "Goodbye" and not to just silently slip away. Instead of wishing her well, or just even saying "Goodbye" back, she was told that she needed to own her responsibility for Trump winning the office of president and that she is partially responsible for every broken dream, every disappointed hopeful, every sick and twisted thing that anybody of any age in this country of about 320 million people say or do that in any way, even falsely, that can somehow be linked to Donald Trump. And no one actually knows how or if she even voted!
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Post by mellyw on Nov 12, 2016 18:53:17 GMT
Well hot damn. Get really sick around election time, avoid the Internet for days because I wanted to blissfully stick my head in the sand for a couple days, and come back here to see some Pea memories are altered or not so long.
Old board archives needed indeed.
Doesn't get more personal than being told I'm unpatriotic, should find another country to live in, while my DH was in a fucking war zone, all because I didn't support the Iraq War. Sure, I have no proof, but plenty of us remember.
People being told they only support Hillary Clinton in 2008 because she's a woman, support Barack Obama because he's black like them. And those are the nicer things.
I'm sorry Wildcatmom has decided to leave, because outside politics, I really liked her. But she sure as shit gave as good as she got on the old board when I first started posting there, when conservatives did rule that board. And heaven help you if you were a Liberal in the military or with a military spouse. The nastiness thrown your way was damn near epic.
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Post by gypsymama on Nov 12, 2016 19:06:20 GMT
as a liberal, a texan and a former military wife... yea...she gave it a LOT! if you didn't see it, you were in agreement with her and it was no big deal. those of us who were made to feel like we were traitors and unpatriotic and and and...
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Post by refugeepea on Nov 12, 2016 19:08:37 GMT
as a liberal, a texan and a former military wife... yea...she gave it a LOT! if you didn't see it, you were in agreement with her and it was no big deal. those of us who were made to feel like we were traitors and unpatriotic and and and... or we have bad memories. I can think of a handful of peas by name on both sides that are/were plain nasty.. I honestly don't remember her post history.
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Post by Anon again on Nov 12, 2016 19:22:54 GMT
Here's the flaw in that philosophy. The right also have children with learning difficulties. With physical challenges. With horrific stories of abuse. And some of them are even dirt poor. What do you suppose conservative people do when their children turn out to be children and not impossibly perfect beings? Discard them? Nope. No flaw. The right will take care of their children w/disabilities and disease.. That's part of their "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" mentality. The bootstraps in their mind includes the person's family and church. But the left knows that not everyone has a loving or supportive family to fall back on. And the left believes that you shouldn't have to go begging to a particular ideology for care. They believe that those w/o resources (personal or familial) should get help through the rest of us. The right say "go to a church". As if chemotheraphy is available at the closest 1st Baptist. The left say "we're in this together, those w/the most will help those w/the least." Yungmom here. I was here in the somewhat early days of two peas. I didn't join refugees for quite awile. I think I closed my account. Last spring I really needed answers about bedbugs, but wasn't willing to post with my name while we were in the middle of it. That's why the odd name now. Anyway, what you are saying here is part of the problem. I keep hearing the left describe and compare the left and right, but in the description the right always comes out behind. The last few days I keep hearing these explanations, but it always puts the right in a lesser light. The right over the years has done the same thing to the left. I'm in the middle so maybe that helps me see both sides or maybe it just makes me doubly blind. So I'm going to do to both sides what I am telling both sides not to do to each other. Probably hypocritical of me. And all the while it feels odd, because I plan on leaving,not even reading afterwards. I just see this lack of understanding on both sides happening all over the Internet and hope that my last post might do some good. The right is not ignorant and unresponsive to those who need help and have no one. The right feels you ought to do what you can and the rest of us should come in, and by own choice and responsibility, help those who can't help themselves. The left is not out to make everyone feel lazy and force people to help others. The left feels you ought to do what you can and the rest of us should choose to have a government that helps those who can't help themselves. It's really the same general fix. The only key difference is who both sides feel should be responsible for its administration. There are pros and cons to both sides, including people not getting the help they need under both administrations so neither side is perfect. Maybe instead of both sides explaining what they think the other side is saying we should have someone on both sides working together to explain both sides. Just the facts, not why either side is better - at least until people can see each side. Then the pros and cons could be discussed after the basic ideas are understood. ------- There have been so many times I have been tempted to log in over different things. I stopped posting some time ago for a number of reasons. I find when I don't post then I don't read as much and sometimes my heart just hurts over things said here. How I wish for a more gentle board that has intelligent conversation on a variety of topics. It would be nice to skip past political posts, but you can't always tell from the title. Besides I don't want to skip past them. I want to learn from them as I have learned so much over the years. But I cannot deal with it any longer either - not just the political ones, but so many other topics. Why put this out there instead of slipping away quietly? It's not for attention. I have been off and on involved with peas for more than 16 years (I'm really not sure when I started, just know it was before my youngest was born.) And I can't promise I won't be back and I've learned why sometimes it is good to say goodbye. The time spent here has shown me and probably wildcatmom that people will often be asked about. By posting here she can let others know, by her own words, why she left, not leaving others to speculate. I like when my son tells me he is leaving instead of quietly slipping out the door. My husband. I've never lived in a house where that wasn't something you do. Wildcat mom has been a fixture here for at least as long as I have. There are probably other reaons she chose to tell she was leaving as well. Last time I slipped out. This time, I'll say goodbye with her. Maybe this time I'm really closing the door.
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Post by AmeliaBloomer on Nov 12, 2016 19:30:32 GMT
Question: Few of us would tolerate any posts offered here that came after these words:
1. "Women always think/say/believe/do..." or 2. "A woman personally attacked me; therefore, all women..."
Right?
So why are some of you otherwise smart, logical people so willing to accept these faulty rhetorical frameworks when instead discussing liberals and conservatives, whether Peas or Americans?
It's illogical and adolescent and drives me absolutely bonkers. And some (SOME, ya' hear?) of its most frequent practitioners are demonstrating its pitfalls right here on this thread - with seemingly no sense of irony or self-reflection.
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OP, I'm sorry you are leaving and there's certainly nothing wrong in posting it. As a member of the liberal "herd" here, though, I'll admit I took a little umbrage, especially as the accusation was "ugliness." As I hope I indicated above, I resist being herded. I'm confident I'm not the only one, no matter what stripe. Good luck.
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Post by YooHoot on Nov 12, 2016 19:36:54 GMT
You know what.....I hate hair flips. It's like I'm taking my toy and going home. I'm a Republican but this board opened my eyes to so many personal opinions and stories that over the years my views on things have changed. I'm sad we have a Trump instead of Hillary. Not as sad as dems are I'm sure but I feel like rights we have fought for are going to be altered in ways that will change us and not in a good way. It's what it is, but that doesn't mean we can't discuss it, argue it and move on. It's been 4 days.
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Post by gottapeanow on Nov 12, 2016 19:47:40 GMT
Anon again, beautifully stated. Truly.
And I remember you from the old boards and am happy to "see" you here.
Lisa
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Post by gale w on Nov 12, 2016 19:47:52 GMT
Well there are people who have just recently left and didn't hairflip. I don't know how many or all of their names but maybe someone will notice soon.
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Post by snowsilver on Nov 12, 2016 19:55:39 GMT
I have been here almost since the beginning and I'm seriously considering leaving as well. The meanness has reached a level that I personally don't want to deal with. The "Do you really feel this way?" thread is one that I will remember forever. In fact, if I were sure I was staying I would simply save it. I just would. It would remind me of the people (some of whom I always considered level headed and kind Peas even if they were on the other side) who were more than willing to say that I am racist, uneducated, xenophobic--and you know the drill! Simply because I see things differently than they. That is what this country is supposed to be about! Seeing things differently but working together. Not downright viciousness of an unparalleled nature. I will never, never, never look at some of you the same again.
As I said, I was here almost from Day One. And I well remember the last two elections. And what some of you are saying is flat wrong! Yes, there was upset that Obama won. But it was not directed in PERSONAL ways at our liberal friends. In fact (although you may never have known it) there were private threads where conservatives were asking each other to be kind and let the liberals enjoy their day)!
Some of you have shown a meanness that is beyond my comprehension to the conservatives on this board as well as to your fellow citizens. I understand the dismay and disbelief at the results of the election. I do. But I don't understand taking it out on your fellow Peas.
THank you to the few liberals on this thread who showed some concern and sadness about Margaret's leaving. It was noted.
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Pearl Clutcher
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Post by gottapeanow on Nov 12, 2016 19:58:40 GMT
I agree, snowsilver, with every single word of your post. Lisa
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Post by melanell on Nov 12, 2016 20:00:25 GMT
I am very sorry that anyone felt that they had to leave.
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