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Post by darkangel090260 on Nov 28, 2016 14:00:10 GMT
I swear for some reason in the last few month it like my dh has lost his mind. He can not do simple thing without me telling him how to do it. Sent him to the store couple of weeks ago. Gave him a shopping list with 4 things on it as he walked out the door had to go over the steps to take a cab home. Even today had to send him down to get money orders to pay rent had to tell him how much our lot number and what ells to pick up ..
I swear he is going to drive me to the nut house. All children better stay asleep till he gets home the first one to mess up my clean kitchen is getting hurt.
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Post by gailoh on Nov 28, 2016 14:03:52 GMT
Just wondering, has he had a check up lately? Not trying to be mean here if you have been noticing a change is all...
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Post by marimoose on Nov 28, 2016 14:12:09 GMT
I would be a little worried and would probabbly be urging him to go in to get a check up. Something like this happened with my cousin and it wasn't good, not trying to be a downer this morning. You live with him so you know what is normal. Hope everything is fine and btw, I feel the same way about my kitchen too.
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Post by freebird on Nov 28, 2016 15:01:03 GMT
I agree, a sudden change in memory issues is something to get checked out. He's a guy so he's probably not going to tell you when he feels like something isn't right. I know it drives you crazy but maybe a loving conversation instead about his memory issues is in order. With my husband I'd have to have a knock down drag out and make the appointment and tell him he WAS GOING or I was divorcing him to get him there. LOL
Good luck, keep us updated.
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Post by smalltowngirlie on Nov 28, 2016 15:05:33 GMT
IF this is different than his norm, I am also suggesting a check up. My vent, server is down and I need to approve time sheets, that is after staff submit them. Going to be a good day.  |
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Post by Shel on Nov 28, 2016 15:26:43 GMT
Here's mine: we have a reunion coming up and my sister told me last night that the day one of our outings is scheduled for won't work. I look at the schedule and suggest a couple of alternates. She tells me why neither will work. But she offers no solutions. Hello? You have the same schedule in front of you that I do!!
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Post by mikklynn on Nov 28, 2016 15:27:40 GMT
My vent - my grandchildren were here for Thanksgiving all weekend. We had the BEST time. But, now my house is trashed and I have laundry piled high. I'd rather be home tackling the house than here at work.
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Post by darkangel090260 on Nov 28, 2016 17:29:41 GMT
its normal when he does not like doing something. Food shopping is one of them. He does it hopping i will get pissed and do it myself.
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Post by mlana on Nov 29, 2016 3:42:09 GMT
its normal when he does not like doing something. Food shopping is one of them. He does it hopping i will get pissed and do it myself. This is what my DH did for years. He'd halfass the things I asked him to do if he didn't want to do them, and then tell me he'd done the best he could when i was upset with what he'd come back with. Over 27+ years of marriage, I got used to him halfassing chores he didn't want to do. I didn't notice when it went from just things he didn't want to do to everything he was told. I didn't realize his blood pressure had gotten so high it was interfering with his memory and his stroke took me completely by surprise. Selective memory, like selective hearing, is something we come to expect after so many years of marriage. I really understand. Just make sure you don't make the same mistake i did. Marcy |
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Post by perumbula on Nov 29, 2016 3:48:18 GMT
its normal when he does not like doing something. Food shopping is one of them. He does it hopping i will get pissed and do it myself. Ah the good old Plausible Incompetence tactic. The favorite of children and husbands everywhere. Might be a good idea to call him on it and tell him that practice makes perfect so the more he screws up the more you'll ask him to do the hated task. |
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Post by jemmls4 on Nov 29, 2016 3:51:42 GMT
My mother lives 100 miles away alone. She is a poorly regulated diabetic (she refuses to learn the relationship between food and insulin). She's in the hospital; her glucose was 39. And her CHF is acting up. She's not supposed to talk but she won't shut up. Grrr. Oh and she was talking Timmy DD yesterday...what was she eating you ask? Had a coke because she was feeling "down" and ice cream.
She also refuses to move closer to me or my brother but if we don't drop what we're doing and rush over we are a disappointment. My brother is an airline pilot and working now. He has to fly out of the country tomorrow. I have my own serious health issues that are acting up.
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