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Post by anxiousmom on Dec 10, 2016 15:41:50 GMT
There was never a prohibition against saying "Merry Christmas". What there WAS ... an open spirit .. generosity ... an inclusion ... some "Christian charity" in saying "Happy Holidays!" I don't think harm was intended ... nobody was dissing "Christmas" or merriment. It was just a way of spreading holiday good will to those persons whose belief systems were unknown or, possibly, different. I'm not buying it for a minute. Getting rid of the word Christmas was deliberate and not for inclusion purposes. A lot of people are upset by this and you don't give a damn about their feeling do you? They aren't feeling included when you do that - do you even care? When you see Christmas stripped from everything it doesn't foster inclusive feelings. It feels like what it is, the stamping out of the word Christmas. It's now the elephant in the room. Nobody speaks of it but it is looming large and you can't miss it. This removal has been a concerted effort and some people are now taking a stand. And I'm glad they are. I guess this is one of those things that is totally subjective. A drive through my town gives me a different perspective than what you are saying-there are official city sanctioned decorations throughout that include Christmas trees and a manger scene, the stores that I shop in have an abundance of both secular and religious items for sale, the cashier at Publix yesterday wished me a Merry Christmas, my neighborhood is full of 'Jesus is the Reason for the Season' yard signs...and if the amount of Christmas music playing every where I go is any indication, my entire town IS Christmas town. I don't see a single thing anywhere that suggests that there has been a concerted effort (or otherwise) to remove Christmas.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Dec 10, 2016 15:42:07 GMT
Narrow-mindedness is ugly no matter what affiliation you claim.
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Post by monklady123 on Dec 10, 2016 15:44:32 GMT
There was never a prohibition against saying "Merry Christmas". What there WAS ... an open spirit .. generosity ... an inclusion ... some "Christian charity" in saying "Happy Holidays!" I don't think harm was intended ... nobody was dissing "Christmas" or merriment. It was just a way of spreading holiday good will to those persons whose belief systems were unknown or, possibly, different. I'm not buying it for a minute. Getting rid of the word Christmas was deliberate and not for inclusion purposes. A lot of people are upset by this and you don't give a damn about their feeling do you? They aren't feeling included when you do that - do you even care? When you see Christmas stripped from everything it doesn't foster inclusive feelings. It feels like what it is, the stamping out of the word Christmas. It's now the elephant in the room. Nobody speaks of it but it is looming large and you can't miss it. This removal has been a concerted effort and some people are now taking a stand. And I'm glad they are. I'm glad I don't live where you do. Must be exhausting to keep up the hyper-vigilance to attacks from all sides.
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Post by compeateropeator on Dec 10, 2016 15:45:50 GMT
The ironic (?) point of this whole thread is that the majority of the responses are that the words don't matter as much as the intent, and that people are open to a wide variety of wishes.
It only seems to be certain segments/groups that are crying foul if it isn't done ALL one way (both happy holidays or Merry Christmas). Again people going to the extreme instead of being able to coexist with and respect a huge variety of people.
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Post by AmeliaBloomer on Dec 10, 2016 15:45:54 GMT
There's a larger issue here.
For a couple decades, a theme of American conservatism has been the claim that liberalism embraces victimhood.
(So, the fight for civil/voting rights was legit, but continued attention to racism is derided as victim mentality. Or the fight for women's suffrage or equal access was dandy, but continued attention to feminist issues is derided as victim mentality.)
Seems to me that an increasing segment of conservatives are embracing majority victimization when they complain that the majority religion or the majority holiday or the majority race are not given their due. Same sex marriage threatens majority/traditional marriages. Much is made of false rape charges (when we know most rapes are real) as an example of discrimination against men.
But using the word "victimized" would be hypocritical and smack of the much maligned "identity politics," so they jump right to "persecuted."
It just smacks reeks of petulance. And like it or not, it IS identify politics, albeit a cringeworthy version Result: an incensed woman deserting her cart at the check-out line - or calling for the manager - because she feels marginalized because her holiday was not EXCLUSIVELY acknowledged.
Larger result: Donald Trump.
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Post by monklady123 on Dec 10, 2016 15:46:35 GMT
If you are a Christian and you are celebrating Christmas, there is no way someone can take that from you. What they say and how they greet you has nothing to do with the celebration of Christmas in my heart. What does bother me is that in the church calendar, the baby is born and then right after we start preparing for him to die! The celebration of his life is not long enough, in my opinion!! Some years I've felt that Lent started practically when we'd flipped the calendar to the new year! ack. However... the celebration of his life is all the rest of the year, in what the church calendar calls "ordinary time". That's when preaching in church should be focused on living a life in the way that Jesus taught.
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Post by Rainbow on Dec 10, 2016 15:48:10 GMT
I'm not buying it for a minute. Getting rid of the word Christmas was deliberate and not for inclusion purposes. A lot of people are upset by this and you don't give a damn about their feeling do you? They aren't feeling included when you do that - do you even care? When you see Christmas stripped from everything it doesn't foster inclusive feelings. It feels like what it is, the stamping out of the word Christmas. It's now the elephant in the room. Nobody speaks of it but it is looming large and you can't miss it. This removal has been a concerted effort and some people are now taking a stand. And I'm glad they are. I guess this is one of those things that is totally subjective. A drive through my town gives me a different perspective than what you are saying-there are official city sanctioned decorations throughout that include Christmas trees and a manger scene, the stores that I shop in have an abundance of both secular and religious items for sale, the cashier at Publix yesterday wished me a Merry Christmas, my neighborhood is full of 'Jesus is the Reason for the Season' yard signs...and if the amount of Christmas music playing every where I go is any indication, my entire town IS Christmas town. I don't see a single thing anywhere that suggests that there has been a concerted effort (or otherwise) to remove Christmas. My GOD! The manger nazis haven't gotten rid of that yet? (I'm sure they'll be along as soon as they find out.)
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Post by sueg on Dec 10, 2016 15:52:29 GMT
The ironic (?) point of this whole thread is that the majority of the responses are that the words don't matter as much as the intent, and that people are open to a wide variety of wishes. To me, the irony is that Holiday is derived from Holy Day, so wishing me a Happy Holiday is just fine.
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Post by freecharlie on Dec 10, 2016 15:54:22 GMT
Being inclusive doesn't exclude
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Post by Deleted on Dec 10, 2016 15:55:59 GMT
Why does it matter what a stranger in a store says to you? Does it make you feel like you're somehow 'winning' if they say merry christmas? It always sounds to me like "OUR HOLIDAY IS THE ONLY ONE THAT COUNTS! How DARE you pretend that any other Holiday exists?" Billions celebrate the coming of the Son and the light of the world. Billions celebrate the coming of the Sun and the light of the axial tilt on the world. Happy Holidays, everyone. Whatever you celebrate, celebrate in health and peace.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 10, 2016 15:59:44 GMT
Interesting how the people who bitch about their religion being trampled on, have no problem trampling on anyone else's.
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Post by anxiousmom on Dec 10, 2016 16:01:43 GMT
I guess this is one of those things that is totally subjective. A drive through my town gives me a different perspective than what you are saying-there are official city sanctioned decorations throughout that include Christmas trees and a manger scene, the stores that I shop in have an abundance of both secular and religious items for sale, the cashier at Publix yesterday wished me a Merry Christmas, my neighborhood is full of 'Jesus is the Reason for the Season' yard signs...and if the amount of Christmas music playing every where I go is any indication, my entire town IS Christmas town. I don't see a single thing anywhere that suggests that there has been a concerted effort (or otherwise) to remove Christmas. My GOD! The manger nazis haven't gotten rid of that yet? (I'm sure they'll be along as soon as they find out.)Nope. It has been out for as long as I have lived here, about 23 years. And that is my point. Christmas isn't being eradicated. It is still there, and I think that perception is 90% of this argument. We see what we want to see. Just because Starbucks has an inclusive cup doesn't mean that there is a war against the Christian faith, a good hard look around us shows us that Christmas IS here in our midst. If there really was an effort to get rid of Christmas, then (at least my little corner of the world) would look, feel and sound a lot different. (And, if you really want to engage in fruitful conversation, you may want to lose the 'nazi' part of your comment. It is an ugly comparison and tends to make people who otherwise may want to talk about this topic defensive from the get go.)
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Post by Loydene on Dec 10, 2016 16:07:39 GMT
There was never a prohibition against saying "Merry Christmas". What there WAS ... an open spirit .. generosity ... an inclusion ... some "Christian charity" in saying "Happy Holidays!" I don't think harm was intended ... nobody was dissing "Christmas" or merriment. It was just a way of spreading holiday good will to those persons whose belief systems were unknown or, possibly, different. I'm not buying it for a minute. Getting rid of the word Christmas was deliberate and not for inclusion purposes. A lot of people are upset by this and you don't give a damn about their feeling do you? They aren't feeling included when you do that - do you even care? When you see Christmas stripped from everything it doesn't foster inclusive feelings. It feels like what it is, the stamping out of the word Christmas. It's now the elephant in the room. Nobody speaks of it but it is looming large and you can't miss it. This removal has been a concerted effort and some people are now taking a stand. And I'm glad they are. If there was "deliberation", as you suggest, then it was probably done by "big commerce" -- so as not to offend (then potentially fail to suck the dollars out of their pockets) any of the adherents of any of the other belief systems that also have a celebration during this specific time frame. For me, it seems just flat out nicer to say "Happy Holidays" to those whose belief system I am unaware. For YOU ... express your warm feelings in any words you wish. My POINT is that no one was ever prohibited from saying Merry Christmas.
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Post by Rainbow on Dec 10, 2016 16:11:28 GMT
My GOD! The manger nazis haven't gotten rid of that yet? (I'm sure they'll be along as soon as they find out.) Nope. It has been out for as long as I have lived here, about 23 years. And that is my point. Christmas isn't being eradicated. It is still there, and I think that perception is 90% of this argument. We see what we want to see. Just because Starbucks has an inclusive cup doesn't mean that there is a war against the Christian faith, a good hard look around us shows us that Christmas IS here in our midst. If there really was an effort to get rid of Christmas, then (at least my little corner of the world) would look, feel and sound a lot different. (And, if you really want to engage in fruitful conversation, you may want to lose the 'nazi' part of your comment. It is an ugly comparison and tends to make people who otherwise may want to talk about this topic defensive from the get go.) Nazi is how they act, and I'm not joking. I hope (for the sake of your community) that they never find out where you live.
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Post by AmeliaBloomer on Dec 10, 2016 16:12:14 GMT
...a good hard look around us shows us that Christmas IS here in our midst. If there really was an effort to get rid of Christmas, then (at least my little corner of the world) would look, feel and sound a lot different. True that. Hell, it doesn't even have to be a hard look. A cursory look will yield lots and lots of Christmas in the air.
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Post by Rainbow on Dec 10, 2016 16:13:49 GMT
I'm not buying it for a minute. Getting rid of the word Christmas was deliberate and not for inclusion purposes. A lot of people are upset by this and you don't give a damn about their feeling do you? They aren't feeling included when you do that - do you even care? When you see Christmas stripped from everything it doesn't foster inclusive feelings. It feels like what it is, the stamping out of the word Christmas. It's now the elephant in the room. Nobody speaks of it but it is looming large and you can't miss it. This removal has been a concerted effort and some people are now taking a stand. And I'm glad they are. If there was "deliberation", as you suggest, then it was probably done by "big commerce" -- so as not to offend (then potentially fail to suck the dollars out of their pockets) any of the adherents of any of the other belief systems that also have a celebration during this specific time frame. For me, it seems just flat out nicer to say "Happy Holidays" to those whose belief system I am unaware. For YOU ... express your warm feelings in any words you wish. My POINT is that no one was ever prohibited from saying Merry Christmas. Offended?
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Post by Nink on Dec 10, 2016 16:19:33 GMT
If there was "deliberation", as you suggest, then it was probably done by "big commerce" -- so as not to offend (then potentially fail to suck the dollars out of their pockets) any of the adherents of any of the other belief systems that also have a celebration during this specific time frame. For me, it seems just flat out nicer to say "Happy Holidays" to those whose belief system I am unaware. For YOU ... express your warm feelings in any words you wish. My POINT is that no one was ever prohibited from saying Merry Christmas. Offended?
No, I'm not. We are all sitting here telling you ad nauseam that no, whatever greeting someone chooses does not offend us! YOU are the ONLY one CHOOSING to be offended. The irony here is hysterical.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Dec 10, 2016 16:20:13 GMT
link "10 Major Retail Stores Take A Stand And Say “Merry Christmas" Instead Of Happy Holidays This Year. Do You Support Them?" Yes, I do! yes, I do. He IS the reason Christmas is celebrated. If you don't want to celebrate it, don't, just go about your normal daily living... Take that same advice you dish out when it comes to LBGTQ marriages, women's rights, and freedom of religion. If you don't believe in any of it, don't, just go about your normal daily living...
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Post by Dalai Mama on Dec 10, 2016 16:20:23 GMT
It always kind of surprises me how uptight people become when others don't invoke the name of their Lord and Saviour in an effort to hock their wares. As if the story of Jesus losing his shit and flipping over tables was completely lost on them.
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Post by shescrafty on Dec 10, 2016 16:20:58 GMT
Entitlement truly shows when someone is being treated the same instead of their beliefs and feelings held above others.
If The depth of your religious celebration hinges on a 14 letter phrase or plastic glowing models in a public place, I have to wonder what your true devotion is placed.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Dec 10, 2016 16:23:51 GMT
Read the comments following the article. Some are, well, "interesting". I think I just got dumber by reading them. Wow is all I can say to describe them. Someone saying they would walk out without buying if the cashier didn't say Merry Christmas. Give me a break. How is that christian? ETA: someone also said if Hillary won (though of course they called her something else) that Christmas would have been history. Seriously? Isn't she Christian? Do these poeple have any idea how stupid they sound? link "10 Major Retail Stores Take A Stand And Say “Merry Christmas" Instead Of Happy Holidays This Year. Do You Support Them?" Yes, I do! Personally I say Happy Holidays. I would hope people would take it as the good meaning it has, just like when someone says Merry Christmas I take it that they are being kind and sending me good wishes. People just need something to be upset about. I did get a good laugh about them saying Bass Pro is gun friendly. Yeah, nothing puts the Christ in Christmas like weapons to kill. It's not Christian. It's a group of conservative Christians who think everyone else on the Earth are doing it wrong and they feel the need to put their judgy pants on and let everyone know. Their way is the ONLY way.
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Post by craftykitten on Dec 10, 2016 16:24:47 GMT
No different for me to say does it kill you to accept my Happy Holidays? I don't think so. Merry Christmas isn't being stamped out. YOU can still have a Christmas tree, while I have a holiday tree. YOU can still send Christmas cards, while I send Happy Holiday cards. YOU can still say Mery Christmas while I say Happy Holidays. It's called freedom of choice. You forgot to add that I can have a gun and you can choose not to have one. Works for me! Well, no-one ever took a 'happy holidays' and killed a dozen children with it, so I don't think your argument totally holds up.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 10, 2016 16:25:58 GMT
PS - If anyone cares, mangers are fine on shared government property as long as they are not exclusive. The government may not privilege one belief system over others. So, you should be fine anxiousmom, as long as the manger is there w/other religious symbols and/or non-religious symbols. Two relevant U.S. Supreme Court decisions: Lynch v. Donnelly and City of Allegheny v. ACLU. Lynch included other symbols and the manger was fine. Allegheny was exclusionary and held to be government privileging of one belief system at the exclusion of others.
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Post by M~ on Dec 10, 2016 16:31:57 GMT
link "10 Major Retail Stores Take A Stand And Say “Merry Christmas" Instead Of Happy Holidays This Year. Do You Support Them?" Yes, I do! Insert big yawn and a huge eye roll. If you really want to feel persecuted, why don't you become a religious minority in an ISIS-controlled area instead of getting your panties in a twist over this perceived slight to Christianity, especially during a holiday that is focused NOT on religion.
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Post by maryland on Dec 10, 2016 16:36:09 GMT
I've seen Christmas stuff in stores since August. Christmas music is playing on the majority of my radio stations 24 hrs. a day since the second week in November. I have been seeing lots of Christmas ads on tv for a few weeks. I don't think anyone is trying to take Christmas away.
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Post by epeanymous on Dec 10, 2016 16:36:30 GMT
You brave, brave warriors.
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Post by ~Lauren~ on Dec 10, 2016 16:37:22 GMT
IMO, the "Merry Christmas" thing is fighting against a loss of tradition, not an attack on Christians.
I personally love tradition, even if the Christmas traditions aren't religiously mine. The idea of inclusiveness is great until it becomes a "you must do ____________" so no one is offended or feels excluded. I was one of like three Jewish families in our neighborhood and school growing up. I never felt "excluded" singing Christmas carols. I never felt "bad" because Hannukah was not celebrated as much or right along side Christmas. I just think people get their knickers in a knot about the whole "everyone's got to feel included". In my experience, there is never a situation where EVERYBODY feels good. I just can't fathom someone being annoyed because they hear the word's Merry Christmas from the cashier. Or Happy Holidays for that matter. But it should be a choice of the person giving the wishes rather than the expectation of political correctness.
So Merry Christmas to all the Peas. Christmas is a beautiful time of year. How do argue with "Peace on Earth, Good Will to Men"?
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Post by freecharlie on Dec 10, 2016 16:38:23 GMT
Nope. It has been out for as long as I have lived here, about 23 years. And that is my point. Christmas isn't being eradicated. It is still there, and I think that perception is 90% of this argument. We see what we want to see. Just because Starbucks has an inclusive cup doesn't mean that there is a war against the Christian faith, a good hard look around us shows us that Christmas IS here in our midst. If there really was an effort to get rid of Christmas, then (at least my little corner of the world) would look, feel and sound a lot different. (And, if you really want to engage in fruitful conversation, you may want to lose the 'nazi' part of your comment. It is an ugly comparison and tends to make people who otherwise may want to talk about this topic defensive from the get go.) Nazi is how they act, and I'm not joking. I hope (for the sake of your community) that they never find out where you live.you need an education on Nazis. Years ago, at least 15-20 there was an argument in my hometown over the nativity. Someone, somewhere was offended that it was on public ground (I believe it was either the police station or courthouse). The community and city response wasn't to remove the nativity, but to allow and incorporate decorations from other faiths and secular beliefs. The problem comes when the Christian belief is the ONLY one that is able to be represented.
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Post by ~Lauren~ on Dec 10, 2016 16:39:09 GMT
As do many who liken Trump to Hitler.
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Post by heather on Dec 10, 2016 16:40:27 GMT
You brave, brave warriors. Totally snorted.
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