Does dealing with the death of a brother get easier?

I'm sorry for your loss. Have you had any counselling to help with this? If not then I urge you to do so.
I lost my brother many years ago, he's been gone longer than he was alive and that's a hard thing to think about.
Hugs to you.

I'm so, so sorry for your loss. Such a tragic manner of death. I don't think we ever get over the death of a loved one, we just get used to them being gone. It only gets easier in that we continue with our lives and other things take our mind off of the one we lost, if only for a while. Nothing will ever fill the void they leave, but we do have to go on. We all deal with grief differently, so take as long as you need to deal with yours; also know that your brother would not want you to be suffering forever - I'm sure he would want you to be happy, with a special place in your heart for him that you visit periodically.

Do take gentle care of yourself.

Hmmm... I don't blame you for being pissed. I lost my brother 5 years ago, and am pissed as well.

This is a difficult subject. I did not want to just read and run.

Losing a sibling is not easy. The circumstances you describe are so sad. You have a right to your anger. If your beloved brother's death is causing you such distress daily then you might want to consider counseling. Easy? Not at all. But hopefully it may help. I hope you find some kind of relief for your grief. Take care of yourself.

I lost my brother almost nine years ago when he was 32, due to a car accident. Not only did I lose my brother, I lost one of my best friends. He and I were two years apart and had a lot in common, same friends, etc. For me, the feeling of loss hasn't gotten easier but moving forward with my life has. 

I miss him every day, and I know I always will, but his memory lives on in all the little things that remind me of him. 

I am so very sorry for your loss.

Yes and no.  My brother has been gone 22 years. But the circumstances are different, my brother had a kidney transplant, first one when he was 16 which failed within a month. He had the second transplant at 30, passed at 35 from related issues.  We had my brother 20 years longer than we would have without medical intervention, he was in the hospital ICU when he passed so we know that all that could have been done was done.  No one was to blame.  We just rejoice in the fact that we had him as long as we did, that he got to experience the love of a good woman, be a dad to her two children, buy a house ( which his wife/widow) still lives in with her husband.  The children he helped raise are now married with children. He helped them become the people they are today, the parents they are now.
Loosing a sibling is different than loosing a spouse or a parent.  Initially all the focus is on the spouse, the parents and if there are children, the children, and the sibling(s) suppress their grief supporting the focus, the spouse, parents, children.  Sometimes they never get to deal with the loss.  Some how their grief is viewed as less.  It's not less, it's different. So you need people that are specifically there for you. 
It does take time to move forward, to find the wonders they brought into your life.  To view all that they had in their lives.  At my brother's funeral we found he had taken up sky diving ( this was a post kidney transplant patient), rock climbing with a friend.  We found he had impacted so many lives.  He had the love of a good woman who was happy just walking through the mall with him and drinking a cup of coffee.  She went into the marriage knowing that his life could be cut short, that he had ongoing medical issues. And after he passed she said that even if she had know the would only have 5 years she would do it all again.  One of my nieces sons carries his name. 
So I try to see the wonders he had in his life, the joy he brought to others, the impact he had.
And yes I miss him, I miss my dad.

Mine has been gone 15 years this year. 

It got easier in some ways and in other ways it didn't. So many things we all missed out on because he was gone. But it softened with time - I think about him every day but I no longer mourn. It is different after these years. 

I cannot change what happened to us as a family. I can only move forward now. 

I'm so sorry you are hurting today. 

I think it would be harder to come to terms with a death that might have been preventable. I've lost two brothers to cancer - while I miss them both terribly, we knew their deaths were coming and had time to talk about it and prepare a little emotionally. In some ways it's harder now because their children are older and having children of their own, and I feel sad that they missed out on being grandparents. Both of them loved kids and would have been fabulous grandpas.

There's an ache that never completely heals, and I still catch myself thinking about buying presents and cards on their birthdays.

I hope you are able to find comfort in your memories of your brother.

A big "screw you" to the person who said that you should cure yourself! I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs today and ten years from now!

 Marianne said it much more eloquently than I ever could have.

I lost my brother almost 2 years ago. It's not any easier. I miss him terribly. I'm so sorry for you loss & I understand what you are going through. I wish it would get easier, but I just don't see it happening. I'm trying to live my life that he would be proud of. But it's hard. Keep going.

(((HUGS)))

My brother was killed in a workplace accident (BTW, I hate this word. It's not an accident that the crane he was strapped to stories up in the sky collapsed under him and made him fall to his death) in 2011. I miss him everyday. His court case was suppose to start on July 28th but has been delayed until the end of September. I am so mad that people have got away with killing my brother. I need this to go to court and I need justice for my brother. He did exist and it is someone's fault that he is dead.

I feel you OP.

I lost my brother 26 years ago. He was 17. I miss him a lot. It is the worst when I think of all the things he could have been and all the things he could have done. I think the pain doesn't go away it just changes.

I agree that you should find a therapist. The anger you are holding onto while understandable is bad for you. Your brother would want you to be happy and wouldn't want you to dwell on things you can't change.

Hugs, I am so sorry for your loss and the pain you are feeling.So much good advise was already given here, I really have nothing to add.