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Post by craftmepink on Aug 22, 2014 0:37:58 GMT
Hi Everyone,
Could use some advice. I am being laid off in 4 weeks (I found out 3 weeks ago). My coworker and I are being laid off. It did not have anything to do with job performance. Our positions were being eliminated due to a merger. Other people in the company are being laid off as well, but they work in different departments. My coworker was able to find a job last week and has left the company.
However, I still have to report to work for another 4 weeks and everyone at work knows I am being laid off. To say the least, this is devastating to me. I feel like bursting into tears everytime I go to work. At work, I can hardly work because I am worried about not having a job soon. I have been looking for other jobs and networking with everyone I know. But emotionally, I am a mess.
So, how did you all get your focus back after being laid off? And how did you all handle going to work everyday knowing that soon you will be laid off?
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Post by freecharlie on Aug 22, 2014 0:43:21 GMT
They closed the program I taught in last year. All of the teachers, paras, and office staff were laid off. We vented to each other and plotted the demise of the two incompetent fools (who of course kept their jobs), but honestly we were there for the students so we gave everything we had for them, but not for the admin who got what we had to do for our job and nothing more.
Since we were all laid off, I doubt it was nearly as hard as your situation, but I think you do the best you can because someone that works with you just might be the contact you need to get a new job.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 22, 2014 0:44:41 GMT
Hugs....My DH had to do that....my only advice is you never know what contacts you have now that will help you in your search. The stronger they see you, the better. Still do your best and go out on top. You never know if they will need you back or like I said, someone will contact you later.
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scrappinmama
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Post by scrappinmama on Aug 22, 2014 0:46:31 GMT
I haven't been in your situation before. But I did want to say that I am so sorry. It's devastating when a layoff happens. I know you must be so worried. I would get the resume ready and start focusing on that. Just do your time, go in every day, and hold your tears until you get home. I know it must be so hard. I hope you find a job soon.
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Post by doxielady on Aug 22, 2014 0:53:12 GMT
I'm so sorry about the layoff. That has to be hard.
As others have said - you never know who is watching and might be a good contact. As a manager, I had to let someone go, but I was SO impressed with how she handled it, kept herself together and strong that I made sure that she was taken care of in another department. She showed such great character that I wanted to be sure that someone else was able to use her talents.
Do your best each day -and continue to do good work. And then break down at home if you need to.
I hope it pays off for you and you can find another position soon.
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Post by MZF on Aug 22, 2014 0:59:01 GMT
I have no advice, but wish you the best finding another job.
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Post by annabella on Aug 22, 2014 1:14:23 GMT
Stay positive, you're lucky you got this notice, your co-workers don't think less of you, be sure to network with them. People don't realize they might know the perfect contact for you until you ask.
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Post by eastcoastpea on Aug 22, 2014 1:40:00 GMT
No tips here. Just well wishes and positive vibes being sent your way.
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Post by mztfied on Aug 22, 2014 2:30:11 GMT
No advice but just big Pea-hugs. Hope you find a new job that turns out to be a better situation.
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Post by onlywork2scrap on Aug 22, 2014 2:41:35 GMT
I lost my job last Friday due to the company closing. I have worked there 12 years. This was all due to a war going on between partners in a buyout. I learned years ago that you are probably not going to retire from the company you think you will retire from. I was prepared for this to happen, but some I worked with were not. I feel so bad for them. Don't burn a bridge, handle the situation with finesse and impress others with how well you do your job. I'm so sorry you are going thru this. I wish you the best.
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Post by Kate * on Aug 22, 2014 4:06:14 GMT
Use this to your advantage. Use every minute you can to look for a new job. It's really a positive sign that things will work out, because in all honesty, who gets notices anymore if they're going to be laid off? Just the fact that you are still working, getting paid for these last few weeks without your employer thinking you might go 'postal' on them or some other craziness says a lot for you, and that you are a good employee. Hold your chin up, be grateful for this job and the time to look for other opportunities. You can cry on the last day, but not until then!
Been there, done that...about 20 years ago. It worked out!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 22, 2014 17:09:26 GMT
Kate --- actually there is a federal law called WARN that requires employers of a certain size laying off more than a certain % of employees to warn them at least a certain [HASH] of days in advance. I don't know all the specifics because my employer is smaller than that.
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Post by sisterbdsq on Aug 22, 2014 17:16:30 GMT
Are you getting a severance package? When I got laid off I got severance and unemployment. I made more money being off than working, plus no commuting expenses. You didn't do anything wrong. Don't beat yourself up. Do your job to the best of your ability and show grace in your last weeks there. FOUR weeks is a HUGE amount of time to job hunt, also. Are they offering out placement assistance? Spit shine your resume and start networking!
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Post by mikklynn on Aug 22, 2014 17:32:58 GMT
I'm so sorry! The only time I was laid off, they basically escorted us out the door immediately. It was not a total shock, as we were aware of the company problems.
Hang tough and I hope you find a great job soon.
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Post by goodwitch on Aug 22, 2014 18:24:56 GMT
My son went through this situation about a year ago. At first, he was angry (of course.) but I talked to him about restraint and not burning bridges. After the lay-off his bosses came to him and told him that they were impressed with his professionalism during the lay-offs and offered him a better position than he had previously had. I hope the same will happen for you.
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Post by utmr on Aug 22, 2014 18:33:23 GMT
I was in a similar spot a few years ago. I was one of the lucky ones - I was released in the first wave. Many others had to work 2 weeks - 6 months before they were released. If they had walked away they would have lost their severance.
All you can do is keep your head up, keep showing up and use every possible minute to look for something else. It sucks to have to show up, essentially the dead man walking, but it gives you time to make a plan.
Keep your head up, be professional, be dignified and hopefully this will lead to something better.
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Post by PepsiGal on Aug 22, 2014 18:52:16 GMT
PepsiCo did that exact layoff to myself and my co-worker two years ago. It was devastating! I reported to work and did my job everyday but the last one. I got everything caught up and even taught other co-workers on parts of my job. Yes, I wanted to cry and punch people out especially my boss, who I thought was my friend and could have warned me (but he couldn't due to his position). None of it made sense at the time. Now two years later, I am fine with it but still won't drink a Pepsi product. My boss also got laid off six months after me - he and I text back and forth now. In fact, the entire department was eliminated this past January. I was lucky that I could retire but I did look for employment for six months but there was nothing out there for a "seasoned" employee (over 60 years of age). Good luck and hang in there - it will get better. Just don't let them see you cry - stay positive.
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Post by SweetieBsMom on Aug 22, 2014 18:52:43 GMT
I'm sorry you're dealing with this. Are you actively looking for a new job? My company lays off people every damn month (well below the % requried for WARN, we don't want to make the papers). We have been since November of 2009. It's exhausting. I'm waiting for my number to be called. However, I think (I hope) when my time is up, I'll be offered a retention bonus to stay until the transition is complete. I don't know that I will stay but I'd use the time to begin interviewing for other positions. It sucks. I agree with the advice to keep your head up and be professional. One of my best friends was laid off two weeks before Christmas last year. Totally out of the blue, no warning, basically told to pack her office. She was stunned for about a week and now will tell you it was the push she needed, it was the best thing that ever happened to her. She is actually the 3rd friend that this has happened too but the third friend that says it was the best thing to happen. You never know. Best of luck.
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Post by cmpeter on Aug 22, 2014 19:37:29 GMT
Ugh! I have been through that three times with my current employer in the 14 years I've been with them. Each time I started networking internally and externally right away. Here it's really important to work all internal angles before your termination date as many job postings give priority to displaced employees. It's really tough emotionally though. You just have to power through that. In my card each layoff has lead to a better opportunity. I hope you find that to be true too!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 22, 2014 20:29:54 GMT
Hi Everyone, Could use some advice. I am being laid off in 4 weeks (I found out 3 weeks ago). My coworker and I are being laid off. It did not have anything to do with job performance. Our positions were being eliminated due to a merger. Other people in the company are being laid off as well, but they work in different departments. My coworker was able to find a job last week and has left the company. However, I still have to report to work for another 4 weeks and everyone at work knows I am being laid off. To say the least, this is devastating to me. I feel like bursting into tears everytime I go to work. At work, I can hardly work because I am worried about not having a job soon. I have been looking for other jobs and networking with everyone I know. But emotionally, I am a mess. So, how did you all get your focus back after being laid off? And how did you all handle going to work everyday knowing that soon you will be laid off? I am so sorry you're going through this. I just do not understand employers who think this is a good thing? I worked in an office where we were told the physical office was being closed in December but the closure wasn't occurring until the end of April. *5* months of having to come into work every day. {{{{ hugs }}}}
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Post by craftmepink on Aug 22, 2014 22:23:02 GMT
Thanks everyone for the kind words! I really appreciate it and hearing everyone else's stories made me feel a lot better.
I have some interviews lined up next week so I feel much better.
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Post by heckofagal on Aug 23, 2014 1:22:43 GMT
Just wanted to say you are not alone. Currently my work thru date is Dec 5, but they can bring that date in sooner as long as they give me 30 days notice. (My dept is laid off along with a few other departments.) It's going to get ugly real soon as one coworker left last week and one of BFF's that I work with left today. That leaves me and one other person who is not quite up to par, and a contractor. Not sure how we will keep up with the work and some days I just don't care about it anymore. I just took my firstborn to college yesterday for her freshman year too so I have a lot going on right now.
Hoping we both find jobs that are even better! Hang in there!
P.S. this is my 3rd layoff. Not sure it gets any easier.
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Post by susans sister on Aug 23, 2014 1:28:53 GMT
Be sure to leave with dignity and class. You may need a reference from them some day.
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Post by txdancermom on Aug 23, 2014 1:46:11 GMT
Been there - twice.....it IS hard to go in and do your job and transition it to someone else. Your co-workers know and you feel funny just being there, and yes, I did break down a few times, but usually with a good friend who would pull me into her office and shut the door. While I was a conscientious worker, if there was something I needed to do for the job search, I did it, and I didn't go out of my way to do the little things that I might of had it still been my job.
but for me, after the layoffs good things came about - first time, I went back to school, got a paralegal certificate and went to work at a company for an attorney I knew from the prior job (that prior company had closed down), and the second time I got a wonderful job, that I started a week after the layoff.
I hope the best for you, it will be ok. Pat
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