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Post by candleangie on Jul 28, 2017 3:48:33 GMT
Holy cow!! My hair was PENCIL straight until I had kids. In recent years it's gone from straight to waves to straight up frizz. I turned to google for answers and came across the curly girl handbook. BEFORE 3 WEEKS IN Insane! My hair is still really dry, so I'm working on that, but it's So. Much. Better! Has anyone else discovered curl they didn't know they had?
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Post by kate on Jul 28, 2017 3:56:48 GMT
I could have written your post myself, except for the curly girl part. It's SO MUCH FUN to have the curls I always wanted as a young person!
Off to google curly girl...
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Post by kels99 on Jul 28, 2017 4:21:12 GMT
Your hair looks great! Mine used to be nice and curly, but has turned into a frizzy mess also. Off to check out Curly Girls Method....
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Jul 28, 2017 5:37:48 GMT
Is this the washing hair in conditioner thing? I'm so envious of people who can do that, because conditioner brings me out in a rash. For 30 I was blaming everything else - shampoo, water, diet, return of childhood eczema but just on my scalp (yeah, I know). Then I ran out of conditioner and the rash went away. Bingo.
It looks so pretty on you. Love your curls!
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Post by welshjenni on Jul 28, 2017 10:27:34 GMT
I have always had curly hair, and for most of my life tried to make it straight - in my teens I ironed it! I always felt that my curls never looked defined, just a mess. I tried the Curly Girls method for a long time and was really pleased with the look (my mother on the other hand - who loves curls - kept telling me to put a comb through it). Now I love it when my hair has been blow dried straight at the hairdressers but leave it natural when I wash it myself - I have gone back to shampoo but for no particular reason - I may have run out of conditioner. I never brush it or comb it though and plop it when washed. I just finger comb it. Thanks for the reminder - I shall go back to conditioner-only. :-) Oh... the other Curly Girls recommendation is that you only have your hair cut by someone who specialises in cutting curly hair. They cut each curl individually apparently candleangie your hair looks great. My 20 year old son has really curly hair which he loves - as does all the girls he meets :-) although until a few years ago (pre girls) he always wore it really short. He just washes and leaves it
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Post by Peamac on Jul 28, 2017 11:28:29 GMT
Nice curls, candleangie! I first discovered the Curly Girls book at the library years ago and am so thankful! I wash my hair once a week (I like the waves/curls better when I sleep on it wet and let it dry overnight). If I need to, throughout the week I spritz my hair with a bit of water and comb through it with my fingers to bring the curl back. For a while I was co-washing (heard about it here, of course), but SIL gave me some really nice shampoo and conditioner for curly hair for my birthday. Plus the weather's been hot and sweaty lately. I do leave in some of the conditioner, though. Because of them, I get my hair dry cut in layers. My wonderful SIL works at a salon about two hours north of us. I get a haircut once or twice a year. I show up with freshly washed (air-dried) hair. She spritzes it with a little water and starts cutting. She cuts layers and then uses her thinning shears (I have very thick hair), usually needing to go through my hair twice to get it thinned down. There's always enough hair on the floor to make a wig for someone else by the time she's done. SIL tried straightening my hair once. It was a hot and humid day (for Colorado, that is- maybe 30% humidity), and once we left her nicely air conditioned salon, my hair started getting a little frizzy (not as much as it usually would, though). I figured if she couldn't get my hair to stay straight with all of her potions and tools, there was no way I would be able to either, so I never even bothered trying. I wasn't used to how it looked straight anyway, so no loss to me.
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Post by annaintx on Jul 28, 2017 13:22:09 GMT
I had stick straight hair my whole life until the past 3 years or so. I had to come to grips this last year that I have curly hair. Thanks for the book recommendation above--I'm going to go get it today at the library. My stylist does a GREAT curly haircut and she has helped me a lot to learn how to deal with my hair. I've heard a lot about the curly girl method, am looking forward to seeing if it helps me.
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Post by compwalla on Jul 28, 2017 13:50:46 GMT
Welcome to the party I've been dancing at since birth. The basic rules for curls are easy but different products work for different people so you have to try several and see what works best for you. Basic rules are : never brush or comb hair when dry, always apply product when hair is really wet, form your curl families, then don't touch hair too much after styling.
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Post by candleangie on Jul 28, 2017 13:52:57 GMT
I definitely haven't ditched my shampoo yet. But I use it twice a week at the roots and then rinse it through. The rest of the week I cowash when it needs it. RedSquirrelUK. Have you tried swapping brands? There are only a couple I can use without breaking out. They have to be silicone free and I have to wash my body after I condition to keep it off of my skin
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Post by Judie in Oz on Jul 28, 2017 14:19:07 GMT
Another curly girl checking in. I've been curly since puberty. Tried to straighten my hair in my teens and wrecked it. Have been treating it kindly for a long time now. I use some of the Jessicurl range - the Cleansing Cream (it lathers a bit) and Too Shea conditioner. I use Tigi Catwalk Curlesque Curls Rock and a styling gel that's Australian. I pineapple my hair at night and I can get nearly a week out of a wash. I only need to get my hair cut twice a year now. The guy who does my hair is a trained DevaCurl artist, and only cuts dry. My hair is so much healthier doing it this way. I hope others try it too.
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Post by birukitty on Jul 28, 2017 17:43:31 GMT
If you are talking about "Curly Girl: The Handbook" by Lorraine Massey I love that book! Their is an original that was published in 2001 and a follow up edition that was published in 2010. I like them both. I read the original when my hair first started going wavy/curly which was when I started menopause. Before that my hair was stick straight. My sister's hair was stick straight until she hit puberty and then it got really curly. They are both great books that really teach you how to treat curly hair, take care of it and embrace it. After reading it and learning how much damage heat can do to curly hair I threw out my hair dryer (literally) and have air dried my hair ever since. Nowadays I have to color my hair to cover my grays so that does enough damage. I wash my hair every 6-7 days and I've been using a line called Curly Hair Solutions for shampoo, conditioner and styling solution. Your hair looks wonderful Candleangie! Isn't it so much fun? As the book mentions angels and mermaids all have curly hair so why would we waste the time straightening ours instead of letting ours flow free? There is a great website at www.naturallycurly.com with tons of info if you haven't found it yet, but tread in lightly. It can be almost overwhelming.
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Post by MichyM on Jul 28, 2017 18:06:51 GMT
I second the suggestion for naturallycurly.com. I've been curly since birth.
I don't go there any more, but when I was making the switch from relaxed hair to letting my curls go full on about 6 years ago, it was a HUGE help!
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Jul 28, 2017 19:02:28 GMT
I definitely haven't ditched my shampoo yet. But I use it twice a week at the roots and then rinse it through. The rest of the week I cowash when it needs it. RedSquirrelUK . Have you tried swapping brands? There are only a couple I can use without breaking out. They have to be silicone free and I have to wash my body after I condition to keep it off of my skin Whatever you're doing is working for you - it's so pretty! Yes, I had 30 years of partly used bottles of conditioner - and shampoo, because I didn't know what was causing it. I was giving them away to friends and family, leaving them behind in hotels and self catering apartments, using it to shave my legs - whatever I could do to get rid of the dratted stuff. Sometimes I would be able to get away with about half a bottle before the reaction came back, and that was why I didn't click that it was the conditioner at first. Silicone is fine. Well, I mean it doesn't bother my skin - it doesn't do the environment much good! It's not the scent, or the colour either. There's just something fundamental about what constitutes conditioner that my scalp objects to very strenuously. But I really don't mind, because my hair is in better condition without it than it ever was when I was attempting to use it. My hairdresser was amazed that I don't use it. I don't get tangles, or split ends, and it's shiny and non-greasy. And it saves me money. It's funny, isn't it? We're all conditioned (pun fully intended - sorry!) to buy shampoo and conditioner, but do most of us really need both? Curly girls are successfully using only conditioner, and I'm comfortably using only shampoo. Is this really just yet another marketing scam?
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Jul 28, 2017 19:03:49 GMT
I second the suggestion for naturallycurly.com. I've been curly since birth. I don't go there any more, but when I was making the switch from relaxed hair to letting my curls go full on about 6 years ago, it was a HUGE help! Lauren, your hair is just gorgeous. You have no idea how envious I am of your perfect curls.
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Post by LuvAgoodPaddle on Jul 28, 2017 19:12:18 GMT
I've always had super straight hair that would barely even hold any curls from the curling iron. But this past year it started getting a bit curly and now I actually have some curls/waves. I LOVE it! I just turned 46, so it's more than likely hormones, LOL!
I've been trying a few different air dry products to help tame the little bit of frizz and I also started using a microfiber towel when I'm out of the shower. So far the two products I've really liked are the new Loreal Air Dry It Spray (I did not like the cream) and Verb Sea Spray. I got the Verb in a sample size in my monthly Sephora bag and I definitely plan to buy the bigger size. I feel like it holds the curls with less frizz than the Loreal, but the Loreal is a cheaper option for everyday use.
Now I'm off to check out the book and websites!
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Post by turangaleela on Jul 28, 2017 23:53:52 GMT
Another curly girl checking in. I've been curly since puberty. Tried to straighten my hair in my teens and wrecked it. Have been treating it kindly for a long time now. I use some of the Jessicurl range - the Cleansing Cream (it lathers a bit) and Too Shea conditioner. I use Tigi Catwalk Curlesque Curls Rock and a styling gel that's Australian. I pineapple my hair at night and I can get nearly a week out of a wash. I only need to get my hair cut twice a year now. The guy who does my hair is a trained DevaCurl artist, and only cuts dry. My hair is so much healthier doing it this way. I hope others try it too. My hair went curly in puberty, too, and so did my oldest son's. It's been 30 years and I'd have no idea what to do if it goes back once I'm through menopause.
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Post by beaglemom on Jul 29, 2017 1:17:12 GMT
Yes! It has made a huge difference for dd and me! There is an amazing facebook Group that has all kinds of amazing info and cheat sheets for products! Total game changer!!!
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Post by candleangie on Jul 29, 2017 14:46:08 GMT
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Post by candleangie on Jul 29, 2017 19:30:08 GMT
Oh my gosh.. THANK YOU beaglemom. That Facebook group totally solved every problem I was having!!
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Post by maurchclt on Jul 29, 2017 21:42:59 GMT
Another curly/ wavy girl here. Had curls as a kid, spent my teens trying to fit in and get it straight. Then I cut it and kept it super short for the next 40 years. It was only after I retired, that I let it grow longer discovered there was curl found the book, the website and a wavy FB site. The rest is history. I love my curls. Only co-wash, use lots of different products and am having fun with my hair!
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Post by chirpingcricket on Sept 4, 2017 13:35:40 GMT
I definitely haven't ditched my shampoo yet. But I use it twice a week at the roots and then rinse it through. The rest of the week I cowash when it needs it. RedSquirrelUK . Have you tried swapping brands? There are only a couple I can use without breaking out. They have to be silicone free and I have to wash my body after I condition to keep it off of my skin Bringing this thread back up top to say thank you to the Refupeas. I had never heard of Curly Girl until candleangie started this thread. I did some research -- didn't buy the book -- I started the regimen on August 5, and the top of my head began curling beautifully just immediately. The rest of it? Not so much. I didn't want to give up, though, because my hair feels so good and soft. I use a little shampoo a couple of times a week, and I love Suave Professionals Rosemary & Mint conditioner. (Smells as good as it feels!) Yesterday, for the first time, the back of my head curled up into big, luscious corkscrew curls. I'm so happy! I have curly hair, and I don't have to torture it with chemicals and hot curling devices! Y'all *rock*. Thank you!!!
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