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Post by Freefallfast on Aug 17, 2017 17:25:29 GMT
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Mentally ill
Slight dementia getting worse
She took a fall
Broke 2 ribs.
Day 3 in hospital
Waiting for a bed in transitional care place
Outwardly I am cool as a cucumber
Inwardly I am DONE!
My sister coming on mom duty in a couple hours.
Then I am NAPPING!!!
Positive thoughts appreciated for all of us.
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Post by gar on Aug 17, 2017 17:26:52 GMT
Glad you'll be getting a break. It's hard isn't it....
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Post by papersilly on Aug 17, 2017 17:28:39 GMT
hope you get some much needed rest. an aging or ill parent can be very stressful on so many levels.
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Post by hop2 on Aug 17, 2017 17:33:05 GMT
Hugs
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Post by anniefb on Aug 17, 2017 17:34:12 GMT
So sorry to hear about your mom. Sending hugs.
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Post by scrappert on Aug 17, 2017 17:34:22 GMT
Hoping you will get the rest you need.
Sending Hugs!!
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Post by mikklynn on Aug 17, 2017 17:34:54 GMT
I'm sorry. I hope you get a break soon.
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Post by destined2bmom on Aug 17, 2017 17:39:13 GMT
I am so sorry to hear about your mom. You definitely need a break. I am so happy that your sister is helping you.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Aug 17, 2017 17:40:42 GMT
I'm sorry. Been there, done that and it's not fun. I hope your mom is feeling better soon! Hugs to you all.
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Post by bc2ca on Aug 17, 2017 17:46:33 GMT
 It is exhausting. I'm glad your sister will be able to spell you off. |
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Post by leannec on Aug 17, 2017 18:04:36 GMT
Positive thoughts coming your way  |
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Post by brynn on Aug 17, 2017 18:14:21 GMT
I'm sorry. Been there, done that and it's not fun. I hope your mom is feeling better soon! Hugs to you all. My words and experience exactly. Watching a parent age is heartbreaking. |
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Post by Mystie on Aug 17, 2017 18:15:51 GMT
I'm sorry. The most stressful times of my life have been when my father was ill and hospitalized. It's overwhelming. I am so glad you're getting a break, and I hope things will fall into place easily for your mom's healing and future care.
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Post by marysue63 on Aug 17, 2017 18:24:45 GMT
I just went through this last month. Thank goodness I have 4 sisters and they call came to help. Once she was out of the hospital and recovered we moved her to assisted living. Best thing ever!
Good luck!
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Post by maurchclt on Aug 17, 2017 18:36:21 GMT
Hugs, I get it, really. Hope you get the rest you need and you mom gets the help she needs.
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Post by mimima on Aug 17, 2017 18:37:37 GMT
Huge hugs.
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Post by lucyg on Aug 17, 2017 18:38:28 GMT
aww, I am sorry. Hang in there.
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Post by deekaye on Aug 17, 2017 18:41:06 GMT
Taking care of yourself is one of the most important things to do when dealing with ill parents. BTDT! Hang in there.
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Post by originalvanillabean on Aug 17, 2017 18:43:42 GMT
Hugs to you!
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Post by colleen on Aug 17, 2017 19:13:12 GMT
Been there, done that -- you have my sincere sympathy. Remember to take care of yourself. Hugs.
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Post by quinlove on Aug 17, 2017 19:53:38 GMT
Sending hugs, love and prayers.
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Post by stargazer on Aug 17, 2017 20:17:33 GMT
Prayers, good thoughts & sympathy for all of you.
Coming from a place of experience; my mum (85) was in hospital for 5 weeks June-July, home (with us) for 3 & she's now been back in (2 different hospitals) for a further 2 weeks so far. She has severe postural hypotension so she falls often because her blood pressure drops so much. This panics health professionals although she doesn't normally hurt herself. We've been dealing with it for years now.
She is stuck in a cycle of not being able to be discharged because they don't know what to do about something they can't cure.
It is completely exhausting just dealing with the worry, responsibility & advocating for them (including fighting for a bed in a rehab unit) so I really understand how you feel.
I also have my dad (89) at home so I'm trying to care for him & manage his worry.
Glad you are sharing the load with your sister. Keep us up to date.
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Post by River on Aug 17, 2017 20:17:57 GMT
I remember how trying those time were. So glad you are getting a break soon and can get in a nap. Positive thoughts and prayers for your mom (and you).
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Post by disneypal on Aug 17, 2017 20:45:35 GMT
I know you are exhausted, mentally, emotionally and physically. It is hard being a care-giver. I'm sorry you are going through this.
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Post by lisae on Aug 17, 2017 21:00:22 GMT
I'm sorry. Handling parent health issues is really hard. {{hugs}}
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Post by Freefallfast on Aug 17, 2017 22:34:06 GMT
I'm home and showered and had some supper and frozen yogurt.
Your kind thoughts have been very helpful.
My sister is not good at the caretaking part but is amazing at the insurance and financial part.
So I always worry when we switch roles even for a little while.
I have also been trying to work in the mornings from 530 to 930. I'm usually there by 530 in normal circumstances so the early doesn't bother me.
However..... in taking care of myself I do believe I will take tomorrow off from work!!
So now it's off to bed to read and get some serious sleep!! Maybe a good cry for stress relief then bounce back tomorrow!
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Post by AllieC on Aug 17, 2017 23:07:12 GMT
I'm so sorry, this is so stressful for you and your family. Take care of yourself x
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Post by peabay on Aug 17, 2017 23:25:18 GMT
Sending my best. You must be totally exhausted.
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Post by PLurker on Aug 17, 2017 23:27:59 GMT
hugs and wished rest for you
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Post by flanz on Aug 17, 2017 23:29:14 GMT
I'm home and showered and had some supper and frozen yogurt. Your kind thoughts have been very helpful. My sister is not good at the caretaking part but is amazing at the insurance and financial part. So I always worry when we switch roles even for a little while. I have also been trying to work in the mornings from 530 to 930. I'm usually there by 530 in normal circumstances so the early doesn't bother me. However..... in taking care of myself I do believe I will take tomorrow off from work!! So now it's off to bed to read and get some serious sleep!! Maybe a good cry for stress relief then bounce back tomorrow! Sorry about your difficult circumstances but glad to hear you are taking care of yourself. |
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