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Post by giatocj on Aug 29, 2014 13:32:20 GMT
For some reason, this case is one that has always bothered me more than any other missing person/child abduction case...except maybe Etan Patz (although all of these situations are equally tragic, I know!).
I often wonder if the other boys that were with him that night have been able to lead normal lives, or if they suffer some sort of "survivor guilt".
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Post by akathy on Aug 29, 2014 14:27:45 GMT
This one always haunted me too. Maybe because it happened pretty close and I was raising kids at the time. I'm going to try to remember to watch it.
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Post by shevy on Aug 29, 2014 14:30:02 GMT
I was in college in the area and spent time searching after the abduction. There were some/are some local leads, but nothing ever panned out. Every 10/22, I can't help but think about him and his family and the friends that were with him.
Patty has become such a great support and advocate fir missing kids. There is the Jacob Wetterling Foundation who gives talks and trainings. She and John Walsh have worked together often.
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Post by Basket1lady on Aug 29, 2014 14:37:07 GMT
I was a senior in St. Joseph at the College of St. Benedict at the time. I remember it quite well and yes, it still haunts me. It's a tiny town in the middle of rural Minnesota, and a major freeway is about a mile from where it happened.
I lived alone and realized how easy it would be for me to be missing for days before I was missed. It changed how I leave a trail to this day, as I often travel alone and DH has been deployed numerous times over the years.
I just hope that some day the family can find some peace.
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Post by giatocj on Aug 29, 2014 14:43:00 GMT
I had heard at one point that they were digging up an area of property near the abduction site, but didn't find anything connecting the property owner to the crime...I was so hopeful they would. This poor family. The not knowing has just got to be the worst feeling possible
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Post by shevy on Aug 29, 2014 14:47:25 GMT
They suspected a man with a farm nearby and all these years later searched his property but nothing came from it. More recent a local blogger posted about a man who committed several cases of molestation and how his crimes were similar sround the same time. But he died in prison a month or so ago after denying anything.
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Post by ~KellyAnn~ on Aug 29, 2014 14:55:18 GMT
There are names you never forget. Situations you'll always remember.
Jacob Wetterling is one of them.
I can't imagine going through that, and pray the family will find answers.
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Post by shevy on Aug 29, 2014 15:10:41 GMT
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Post by mikklynn on Aug 29, 2014 15:12:51 GMT
It still haunts me, too. He was about the same age as my son was at that time. I pray for a resolution.
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Post by cindyupnorth on Aug 29, 2014 15:32:18 GMT
I am pretty sure the family has peace. They are very involved in missing children foundations and programs. Though I find it odd you never hear from the dad? Patty is very involved. They did interview one of the boys a few yrs ago. He seemed very normal, and I think it was when they were graduating HS? and looking back.
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Post by wrongwayfeldman on Aug 29, 2014 16:08:27 GMT
Seeing his name just now on the main page was a like a punch in my stomach. I thought I'd open this thread and there would be news. Like you, for some reason I've always thought of this little boy and his family. I remember when it happened, even though it wasn't near me and I had no connection, but I'll always remember his name. I always hold out hope that someday this family will find peace and some kind of answer. It must be so agonizing for them to have never known what happened to their precious child.
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Post by shevy on Aug 29, 2014 16:53:00 GMT
I am pretty sure the family has peace. They are very involved in missing children foundations and programs. Though I find it odd you never hear from the dad? Patty is very involved. They did interview one of the boys a few yrs ago. He seemed very normal, and I think it was when they were graduating HS? and looking back. I don't get the sense that the family is at peace at all. I've heard Patty talk at some trainings I've been at and she says they are coping with not ever knowing the truth as best they can. The family has had personal ups and downs about the abduction and doing the best they can. His friends have suffered enormous guilt and struggled with asking why he was taken and not them. Jerry has let Patty take the lead in communication and in the media, but does participate in interviews at times. He's continued his practice all these years.
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Post by giatocj on Aug 29, 2014 16:56:59 GMT
I love that they have a recording of his voice. My dad died in 1979 when I was only 19, and I would give anything to just hear his voice one more time. It's the little things like that that you sometimes don't realize will be so important when a loved one is gone.
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