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Post by thundergal on Oct 12, 2017 19:13:12 GMT
I am so very sorry. Your heart is clearly broken. I hope you find peace soon. I'm glad you reached out here today. I'm sending more love and hugs and hope you are able to continue expressing your feelings through such a devastating time. Ugh...just the biggest of hugs coming to you.
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Post by lucyg on Oct 12, 2017 19:16:38 GMT
I'm so sorry. It's going to be a long haul. Hugs to you and both of those babies.  |
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Post by Linda on Oct 12, 2017 19:20:16 GMT
((((Hugs)))) and prayers
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Post by valleyview on Oct 12, 2017 19:27:48 GMT
I'm so sorry. Grieving is so much more personal than we can prepare for, and yours is compounded by your pregnancy and your relationship with your mother. You cannot change what you had, but allow yourself to find comfort in the good parts.
Don't try to push through it quickly, and ask for space when you need it. Hugs.
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Post by purplebee on Oct 12, 2017 19:47:04 GMT
It is so difficult to lose someone close to you, and made worse by pregnancy hormones. Hugs and hopes that your days will get better, especially when you have your new little one in your arms.
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Post by pudgygroundhog on Oct 12, 2017 20:32:51 GMT
Sending love and hugs your way. Sorry today has been rough for you.
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Post by malibou on Oct 12, 2017 20:48:31 GMT
I'm so sorry you are struggling. But know that you've hit upon a nasty trifecta of stressors, one of which has altered your hormones.
Keep an eye open for a moment when you can sit quietly and reflect. Allow yourself to explore the relationship, separating out truths from falsehoods. You will likely see that you were a good daughter whose mother loved you.
Peace to you while you deal with the tough days ahead.
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Post by elaine on Oct 12, 2017 21:17:30 GMT
I’m so sorry. Close relationships are never perfect- one thing that does come through in your post is that despite any challenges she loved you and you her. That is important and special. There will be hard days - and given where your hormones are and will be for a while to come, they might feel overwhelming at times.
Please be sure to tell Your OB/GYN and talk with your husband to keep an eye on you for post-partum depression. And don’t hesitate to ask for psychological help if and when you need it.
And you *always* have us here to listen to anything you need to say.
(((Hugs)))
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Post by oh yvonne on Oct 12, 2017 21:20:03 GMT
<hugs> I can't imagine how hard and heartbreaking this must be, especially while expecting a baby. We are here for you.
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Post by jenjie on Oct 12, 2017 21:23:51 GMT
Ahhhh I’m so sorry. 😢
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Post by piebaker on Oct 12, 2017 22:37:30 GMT
I am so sorry. Take it one moment, one day at a time. She thought of you and your son each day. Treasure that memory.
Hugs
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Post by mollycoddle on Oct 12, 2017 22:46:10 GMT
I had a complicated relationship with my mom too. I understand how hard it is. Hugs to you.
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Post by Merge on Oct 12, 2017 22:47:26 GMT
I totally understand - complicated relationship and all. Be gentle with yourself and give yourself time to grieve. ((Hugs))
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Post by scrappinmama on Oct 12, 2017 23:43:07 GMT
I'm so sorry. Everyone grieves in their own way. Even when there are deep wounds caused by a parent, there is still heartache when they pass away.
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Post by katlady on Oct 12, 2017 23:45:56 GMT
Sending you hugs! I am sorry for your loss.
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Post by peasquared on Oct 12, 2017 23:51:29 GMT
I wish we had the magic words to make the heartbreak go away, but I'm sending love and warm hugs!
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Post by jennrs on Oct 13, 2017 0:23:14 GMT
I'm so sorry about the loss of your mom and your relationship. It sounds like she loved you though. Her thoughts of you and your son in the morning made me tear up. Best wishes and prayers for you.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2017 0:31:50 GMT
I'm sorry today has been extra hard on you. Sending (((hugs)))) from across the pond.
Each one of us do what is best at the time and I'm sure there lots of things we would all do differently with the benefit of hindsight. Try not to be too hard on yourself.
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Post by mikklynn on Oct 13, 2017 14:47:18 GMT
I'm sorry. Cleaning out her home had to be very difficult.
Please, remember you did the best you could. Your mom did the best she could. It's enough.
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Post by gloryjoy on Oct 13, 2017 15:07:51 GMT
I am so sorry.
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Post by scrapcat on Oct 13, 2017 15:29:39 GMT
What you are going thru sounds extremely difficult. Please take care of yourself! ++++vibes
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Post by scrappert on Oct 13, 2017 15:34:54 GMT
Sending hugs and support to you.
Grief is difficult and each one of us goes through it differently.
Be very kind to yourself.
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Post by anonrefugee on Oct 13, 2017 15:37:13 GMT
I am so sorry. Take it one moment, one day at a time. She thought of you and your son each day. Treasure that memory. Hugs This. Hugs to you. |
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