boymom
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Jun 27, 2014 3:39:09 GMT
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Post by boymom on Dec 5, 2017 22:23:51 GMT
You know that book “If you give a mouse a cookie..’? My crafty life goes like this - you can scrapbook when you unpack your craft room, but I can unpack my craft room as soon as I purge, then I can purge when I sit down and really prioritize my crafting, like do I really need 5 jars of gesso? Hmmm... yes, I’m an over thinker! Help!!! I just want to make a scrapbook layout but you can barely walk into my room. Had new cabinets installed in there in Sept and then My dad unexpectedly passed away. I just haven’t felt motivated to get to work on the room once again, but i know actual crafting would be therapeutic for me. Would love advice! ❤️
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Post by don on Dec 5, 2017 22:51:27 GMT
You could just do it tomorrow. It's just too much to think about today. I went to a msliz class.
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scrapnnana
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Post by scrapnnana on Dec 5, 2017 23:35:31 GMT
I suggest a slightly different approach. Tell yourself that you will work on your scrap room for at least 15 to 20 minutes. Set a timer. At the end of the time, decide whether or not you have room enough to work. If you do, start scrapping. If not, gather some things and take them to another room, then start scrapping there. If you feel like cleaning/decluttering longer, do it. At any rate, reward yourself by scrapping after a little cleaning. To do the entire job is just too overwhelming. Besides, you just lost your dad. You need to make progress on the room, but you also need the therapy of scrapbooking. If you do just 15 to 20 minutes a day of cleaning in there, then in a week or two you will see some improvement. Sometimes that is what you need to keep at a task.
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msliz
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Post by msliz on Dec 6, 2017 0:57:40 GMT
You could just do it tomorrow. It's just too much to think about today. I went to a msliz class. You love to tease me, Don, but I think you're making a really good point, believe it or not. Procrastination, at its core, is just prioritizing. And sometimes we need to prioritize our emotional health over all else. We grieve on our own timelines and in our own ways. I agree with Don in saying that it's okay to push off the whole organization project. I would concentrate on clearing a tiny spot where you can do something. Maybe don't aim for a layout yet; you'd have to find everything and then you'll get mad at yourself because of the mess. Just something small, like a coloring page or a tag. The idea is spend some time in your room doing something that makes you feel good. The cleaning will come little by little on its own. Eventually you'll get curious about what's in that box? or where's my thing-a-ma-hoozer? and the stuff will find its way to a new home in your cabinets little by little. But my advice is don't make cleaning your room into another chore. Just enjoy your room. It'll come together when you're ready.
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Post by don on Dec 6, 2017 1:27:41 GMT
Procrastination also gives you time to make a plan of attack any project.
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Post by artisticscrapper on Dec 6, 2017 2:04:33 GMT
I’m not familiar with ‘if you give a mouse a cookie’ but I do know the one about how a long journey begins with a step. I like Scrapnnana’s idea of setting a timer. Breaking big projects into smaller sub projects helps make it more manageable plus you feel you’ve accomplished something.
BTW why would someone give a mouse a cookie? Youd never get that creature out of your house. Ewwwwww.
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CeeScraps
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Jun 26, 2014 12:56:40 GMT
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Post by CeeScraps on Dec 6, 2017 2:34:36 GMT
I’m not familiar with ‘if you give a mouse a cookie’ but I do know the one about how a long journey begins with a step. I like Scrapnnana’s idea of setting a timer. Breaking big projects into smaller sub projects helps make it more manageable plus you feel you’ve accomplished something. BTW why would someone give a mouse a cookie? Youd never get that creature out of your house. Ewwwwww. When you have a chance read the book! It's really cute and can easily be someone's day whether they are a child or an adult! Quite often my days run like that story!
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Post by grammadee on Dec 6, 2017 3:55:33 GMT
So sorry to hear about your dad, boymom. A loss like that can certainly shut down the creativity. I would suggest one of my favorite attacks: Grab, Glue and Go. Grab something off the top of the biggest pile, or the top of a drawer, or if you haven't unpacked yet, then grab something out of one of your boxes. Now grab 3 other things that go with it. (maybe a sheet of cardstock, some letter stickers, and some Nuvo drops?) Don't over think it. Just grab. Now figure out something you can do with those items you grabbed. It could be a page, a card, a mini book, a journal page, a tag. Again: no overthinking! Cut if necessary. Glue them together in any way that pleases you. And Go! As in, MOVE ON to the next project. Newton had something about momentum: once you start moving in a direction, it is easier to keep moving that way. Last fall when I came home early from my cruise to attend my brother's funeral, the first thing I scrapped was the church notice from the funeral. It was on top of my counter and I wanted to journal about him, so I just went with it. The journaling felt good, and I still love that page. Maybe instead of organizing before you scrap, you can scrap before you organize. Don't let yourself put anything away until you have used it once?
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Post by Deleted on Dec 6, 2017 13:21:50 GMT
I suggest a slightly different approach. Tell yourself that you will work on your scrap room for at least 15 to 20 minutes. Set a timer. At the end of the time, decide whether or not you have room enough to work. If you do, start scrapping. If not, gather some things and take them to another room, then start scrapping there. If you feel like cleaning/decluttering longer, do it. At any rate, reward yourself by scrapping after a little cleaning. To do the entire job is just too overwhelming. Besides, you just lost your dad. You need to make progress on the room, but you also need the therapy of scrapbooking. If you do just 15 to 20 minutes a day of cleaning in there, then in a week or two you will see some improvement. Sometimes that is what you need to keep at a task. This approach usually helps me with all kinds of tasks that I don't want to do. Since you believe scraping would be therapeutic for you, and I can't scrap in chaos, that's where I would start. But I'm also a big believer in procrastination. If it's not essential and I dont want to do it?...... Let us know your progress and we will cheer you on and maybe you'll encourage someone else!
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boymom
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Post by boymom on Dec 6, 2017 15:05:49 GMT
Very good ideas here! I do esp like the idea of do some work then reward myself with some crafting time. I’ve realized I haven’t told some important stories and that life is short! I appreciate the suggestions and the encouragement. Thanks, all!
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amom23
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Post by amom23 on Dec 6, 2017 19:33:43 GMT
Can I come over and help? I seriously love organizing and swear I get high off of a good purge LOL! So I can unpack your room and you can scrapbook......deal?
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Post by thracian on Dec 6, 2017 20:52:25 GMT
I suggest a slightly different approach. Tell yourself that you will work on your scrap room for at least 15 to 20 minutes. Set a timer. At the end of the time, decide whether or not you have room enough to work. If you do, start scrapping. If not, gather some things and take them to another room, then start scrapping there. If you feel like cleaning/decluttering longer, do it. At any rate, reward yourself by scrapping after a little cleaning. To do the entire job is just too overwhelming. Besides, you just lost your dad. You need to make progress on the room, but you also need the therapy of scrapbooking. If you do just 15 to 20 minutes a day of cleaning in there, then in a week or two you will see some improvement. Sometimes that is what you need to keep at a task. Yes, THIS! Thinking of it as one big task will make it too overwhelming. Do it a little at a time. Each little bit really will add up.
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boymom
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Post by boymom on Dec 7, 2017 7:18:00 GMT
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Post by don on Dec 7, 2017 17:44:40 GMT
And me next amom23.
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Post by ljs1691 on Dec 7, 2017 20:32:37 GMT
First, I am so sorry about your loss. I have been without my dad for 17 years so I get were you are.
I also understand your unpacking dilemma. We moved into a house 3 weeks ago but my craft room was in storage since July while we were in a temporary apartment. My DH inadvertently launched one of my bookshelves off the ramp to the moving truck so I lost a great storage piece. I am having trouble getting motivated to figure out how to handle the missing bookshelf and the new space does not have a closet. I am thrilled the new space is way more square footage but it is making me a bit overwhelmed.
i decided to step away from the room until I get some other spaces in the house settled and then I will go back to it. I may attempt a little time each day as scrapnnana suggested just in case some crazy inspiration hits.
Wish I had some awesome words of wisdom. Just know you are not alone. Curious about your cabinets? Any pics?
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Post by 950nancy on Dec 8, 2017 1:52:08 GMT
So what did you get done today?
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Post by pennyscraps on Dec 9, 2017 2:49:45 GMT
Are you a list maker? Driven/motivated by accomplishing things? I have 3 ideas for you - maybe one of them will work. I just had to pack and unpack my own scrap room in March when my cabinets were installed.
1) Make a list (general or specific) of what needs to be done and assign yourself times/days to do those. Work your list. 2) Set a timer for 15-20 minutes each day (or longer if you can tolerate it) and work as hard as you an until the timer goes off. 3) Set a certain number of boxes you will unpack/conquer each day, then do it.
Two other thoughts: Get to where you scrap quickly, even if it's in the kitchen. It's important to tap into your creative motive. Purge as you unpack and place things. Just put the things to GO into the boxes you're emptying and deal with them later.
GOOD LUCK!!
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