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Post by GiantsFan on Jan 29, 2018 4:43:13 GMT
Really, I'm seriously asking. Because I enjoy making cards. I like stamping. I like die cutting. I like buying the products and tools. I like trying new techniques. But when it comes to sending cards - um, not so much. And I know this sounds weird, but when I make a card I like thinking of the person who will be receiving it. So even though I have lots, maybe 45-50 pre-made cards, I tend to make a new card when I need one. I think I have a bright idea on how to get rid of them. My MIL lives at an assisted living facility. They have a FREE table in the rec room that residents can put unwanted items or you can take something. My idea? Put my cards on the FREE table for whoever wants them. I bought some clear seal-able card envelopes and white envelopes. I spent the afternoon going through all my cards, tossing ones that were amateur-ish, fixing adhesive that was not holding, if it was a dark card base I put white cardstock on the inside for a note (personally, I would just use a white pen). I put a card with an envelope and sealed them in a clear card envelope. I put a label marking if they were blank inside or whatever sentiment was on it. I plan on taking them this week. Some are birthday, a few are hello and thanks, but a lot are generic that can be used for any occasion. And actually I have quite a few that would work for Valentine's Day. So what do you think - Stupid idea or good way to get rid of cards? I have no desire to sell them. My feeling is if I make it job, then it won't be as fun. Be honest. I trust your opinions. UPDATE DH went to MIL and I had 12 cards to drop off but there was a function in the Rec Room - so no drop off. But my sister comes over that night to pick up a "thinking of you" sympathy card. She takes 10-12 cards. We go back to MIL's a few days later and the Rec Room door is shut and locked - so no drop off. My niece calls and needs "a few cards". She and her 4 year old stop by and they take about 20. My little niece is now sending cards to people she knows. Her mom is limiting her to sending two per day. LOL! Even though it's not what I intended, I'm glad the cards are being used. And thank you all for responding to my original question. I will keep for future and pass on the list from freeatlast to my IRL card-making friends.
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Post by mom on Jan 29, 2018 4:50:03 GMT
I think its a great idea! Go for it!
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Post by mygigiscraps on Jan 29, 2018 4:56:51 GMT
What a wonderful thing to do. I think it's lovely.
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Post by garcia5050 on Jan 29, 2018 6:23:14 GMT
That is a great idea. I especially like the idea of letting the user know if it's blank inside (or the sentiment). I also don't mail my cards. I say I will, but never do. I seem to use them solely for in-person gift-giving.
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Post by freeatlast on Jan 29, 2018 9:51:39 GMT
What a great idea!!! I bet the residents will put them to good use.
You do exactly what I do when packaging cards for donation right down to the plastic sleeve and the inclusion of the inside sentiment on a small piece of paper.
I also could have written your first paragraph word for word. Joy comes in the making for me, too. I donated over 1,000 cards last year and hope to donate 1,200 this year. If you need donation sites, let me know. I can point you in the right direction.
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Post by scrapnnana on Jan 29, 2018 10:11:22 GMT
I think that is a great idea for those who enjoy making cards but don't mail them!
As for your original question, I do actually mail at least some of the cards that I make. I like to keep one sample, but I make a bunch so that I can grab and mail one when I don't have time to make a card.
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Post by paperaddict on Jan 29, 2018 11:16:35 GMT
That's a great idea. I buy tons of stuff with intentions to make cards for specific family members and friends, but it usually it does not happen. I get too busy and end up not making the cards in time for the occasion. I do make cards that I have made with nobody in mind or trying a new technique out...those actually get used up when I need a last minute card. I am a perfectionist with sending out cards to my loved ones...which I am trying overcome because most of my family and friends have loved receiving them and think they are wonderful, when I do send them out.
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Post by GiantsFan on Jan 29, 2018 16:17:44 GMT
Thanks guys. I'll leave maybe 10 or so there today and see if they're gone later this week. I actually counted them up and I have 63! Yikes. Plus a bunch "in process". freeatlast - Yes, please point me in the right direction. Either by PM or in a post. I have a couple of IRL friends who probably have the same problem. paperaddict - I'm a recovering perfectionist, too. scrapnnana - I take a photo of my cards. Maybe not each card, but my favorites of each design.
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Post by anniefb on Jan 29, 2018 18:39:29 GMT
Sounds like a great idea - I say go for it.
I don't make a huge number but end up sending most of them. I make sets to give to people and probably end up sending about 70-80% of what's in my stash.
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Post by marg on Jan 29, 2018 18:50:34 GMT
I love your idea of giving away your cards - it's so kind, I'm sure they'll be gone in a heartbeat.
I send every card that I make. I make them with specific people in mind, plus I make a big batch at Christmas. I'm the only one in my family (including nieces and nephews there are about 20 of us) that does send a card. I don't mind that I don't get cards for my birthday, it's just important to me that my loved ones get a card from me.
In my husband's family everyone sends birthday and Christmas cards, although I'm the only one that makes them herself. It's nice that everyone thinks cards are important.
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Post by Restless Spirit on Jan 29, 2018 19:26:39 GMT
I love your idea! I make a lot and mail few.
I'd love to know of other donation places. I truly love making cards and get so much pleasure in the process. I'd make more if I knew of someplace to send them.
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Post by joblackford on Jan 29, 2018 21:17:10 GMT
I was making far more than I could send out (yes, I do send out some of the cards I make) so I gave some sets away as gifts, put some on a free table at work, and then I started a business selling them (because some friends said they would really like to buy them and I wanted to do it legit). Having to do it for a business can take away some of the fun - especially when you're just getting into the groove for Valentines and realize you should've had those cards listed 6 weeks ago if you actually want to make any sales this year. >.< I'm still trying to find a balance between wanting to have fun and getting caught up with having a "successful" shop.
I discovered the donation idea after I'd already committed to my business, but I think I will try to make some for donations just to keep things fun and feeling positive. I like to use up all of my supplies by using Kristie Marcotte's 6x6 paper pad tutorial, which means that near the end of the session some of the cards are really not so good. I'm trying to figure out the accounting if I sell the best cards and donate the more "eclectic" ones. But I'd like to know more about donation opportunities too. I've only done the Caring Hearts drive so far.
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Post by leeny on Jan 29, 2018 22:00:32 GMT
That is such a great idea! I don't have many people left in my family to mail cars and I've been wondering what to do with what I want to make.
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Post by don on Jan 29, 2018 22:36:07 GMT
I have a bunch of cards too. I keep some for occasional personal use. I have a mailing list of over 250 peeps from a bunch of forums and swaps I've been involved with over the past 17 years. I like sending them out 2 or 3 a month. They can just be just non-purpose cards that I say Happy b'day inside. That makes it a b'day card. Some come back, then I go online to try and find them and get a new addy for them. Mostly I feel the cards are appreciated by other crafters, and nobody complains. Another idea is to take them to a senior center and let them sell them in their store. You won't get any $ for them, but the Senior Center will, to help fund it.
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Post by freeatlast on Jan 29, 2018 23:37:12 GMT
I've pm'd this info to GiantsFan but since others are asking about it, I'll post it here, too. Here are some of the places I donate cards: Cards for a Cause - A different cause every month, they have ranged from hospice to pet rescues to Meals on Wheels. The organization may ask for specific types of cards like thank you cards for the pet rescue to send to their donors or general cheer/thinking of you for Meals on Wheels recipients. You can see some of the previous months here. Any amount of cards can be sent and there is no commitment. www.splitcoaststampers.com/forums/cards-cause-f215/Ronald McDonald House - You can participate in 3 ways here - as a hostess (for the Ronald McDonald House in your area), a monthly donor (minimum of 10 cards a month) or a donor who will provide cards as he or she can. The hostess will typically specify the types of cards they are looking for. If nothing is specified, kids birthday cards and thank you cards are always needed. www.splitcoaststampers.com/forums/cards-new-open-swaps-f426/open-recruiting-2017-2018-ronald-mcdonald-house-month-swap-t617797.htmlCards From the Heart Card Drive - This one is for Valentine's cards for kids in hospitals. It's just about over for this year. (Cards have to reach the organizer by Jan. 31). There are some fairly strict requirements for this one - nothing sparkly, glittery, anything that can be pulled off, etc. due to health hazards to fragile children. The organizer spells out the details in her blog. winterwonderlandcrafter.blogspot.com/2018/01/2018-cards-from-heart-card-drive.html Caring Hearts Card Drive - If you like to make Christmas cards, this one's for you. The recipients are residents of nursing homes. They will begin accepting cards in October. lingshappyplace.blogspot.com/p/2017-caring-hearts-card-drive.html I'm adding one more: Royal Family Camp Card Drive - This is a week long camp for abused children. As I understand it, the camp counselors and other staff members give each kid a card every day of the camp. They hold a birthday party for all attendees (since some of them have never had a celebration) so birthday cards are always welcome. They also need a lot of encouragement cards (you are awesome, great job, you are a star, I'm proud of you, etc.). This camp typically runs sometime in June and the organizer has asked for cards by late May. I'm trying to reach her to confirm that she is once again collecting cards and the dates she needs them. www.scrapbook.com/forums/showtopic.php?tid/1665527/I'm always looking for other donation opportunities so if anyone knows of others, please let me know.
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Post by kikitwo on Jan 31, 2018 4:01:45 GMT
I send birthday and anniversary cards to all the members of my Sunday School class and some to family and friends. I send get well sympathy, thank you, etc as needed. My granddaughter gets a lot of special cards. Personal Christmas cards and 2peas swap. That keeps me busy
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Post by Deleted on Jan 31, 2018 9:39:34 GMT
I think your idea is so lovely and wonderful. DO IT GIRL! You will make the residents soooo happy. I use to live near a elderly high rise. I would take my cards to them so they could use them as prizes for Bingo. They would fight over them and my purses I would donate. I loved it. I do like to make cards. I make a lot of card fronts now. Some I hang as wall art, others I use in my journals, sometimes I turn it into a card and give it away.
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Post by LisaDV on Jan 31, 2018 14:26:20 GMT
I love this idea. freeatlast, thanks for the list. I have tons of premade cards from my previous SU! Days, but tend to make new for new needs.
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Post by camcas on Feb 7, 2018 10:20:48 GMT
I take mine to the local vet who sell them and use the funds to raise money for animal rescue. They told me the other day they have raised $1400 and still going over the past 3 yrs! I had the idea when I saw a note in the vets about one of their students raising money for elephant rescue inThailand and they were planning to raise the $ then visit the facility I think $1400 is nearly 1/2 the cost of one elephant rescue! Luckily I am not solely responsible for the well-being all the rescue elephants in Thailand at this rate!
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Post by nicolep on Feb 7, 2018 18:56:10 GMT
I am just now seeing this post but I love how it turned out for you!
To answer your original question, I DO send out my cards and really enjoy it!
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Post by gale w on Feb 7, 2018 20:38:09 GMT
I did this and took about 25 cards w/ envelopes to the nursing home where my MIL was. I had cleared it with the staff before I brought them and specified that I wanted residents to be able to pick out cards to send to loved ones. MIL told me they never ever put the cards out for the residents and we suspect the employees took all of them. So now I'm looking for a new place to send cards.
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Post by GiantsFan on Feb 7, 2018 21:15:11 GMT
I did this and took about 25 cards w/ envelopes to the nursing home where my MIL was. I had cleared it with the staff before I brought them and specified that I wanted residents to be able to pick out cards to send to loved ones. MIL told me they never ever put the cards out for the residents and we suspect the employees took all of them. So now I'm looking for a new place to send cards. That's terrible. I'd be asking who ever you gave them to about it.
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Post by freeatlast on Feb 7, 2018 21:54:09 GMT
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Post by gale w on Feb 7, 2018 22:15:33 GMT
I did this and took about 25 cards w/ envelopes to the nursing home where my MIL was. I had cleared it with the staff before I brought them and specified that I wanted residents to be able to pick out cards to send to loved ones. MIL told me they never ever put the cards out for the residents and we suspect the employees took all of them. So now I'm looking for a new place to send cards. That's terrible. I'd be asking who ever you gave them to about it. At the time they just told me to put them in the community room so I didn't hand them to anyone. My MIL was terrified of the nurses getting mad at her (they didn't but she always thought they would) so she asked me not to say anything. One time they left her sitting on the toilet for over an hour and she was sure it was because she had done something to make them mad. We reported it and she is in a different facility now.
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Post by GiantsFan on Feb 7, 2018 23:03:41 GMT
That's terrible. I'd be asking who ever you gave them to about it. At the time they just told me to put them in the community room so I didn't hand them to anyone. My MIL was terrified of the nurses getting mad at her (they didn't but she always thought they would) so she asked me not to say anything. One time they left her sitting on the toilet for over an hour and she was sure it was because she had done something to make them mad. We reported it and she is in a different facility now. Yikes. I'm sorry about that.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 8, 2018 7:30:31 GMT
Gale- That is horrible. I am sorry that happened to you. I am sorry for the residents to be robbed too. What they did to your MIL! I am so glad she didn't get hurt. I have heard some horror stories in my area of patients being left on the toilet for hours at a time. Nursing homes! Grrrrrr! Everyone keeps yelling at me to put my Mother in a nursing home. I won't do it. I get it I know she's mean, lol. That is not age it is just worse now. She lives around a lot of high rises and actually has a lot of people take care of her. I don't like nursing homes. I know I will get yelled at for all of this. Most nursing homes are not good places with a staff that is leaving every few days. There is no stability or excellent care for our loved ones.
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Post by gale w on Feb 8, 2018 9:03:37 GMT
Gale- That is horrible. I am sorry that happened to you. I am sorry for the residents to be robbed too. What they did to your MIL! I am so glad she didn't get hurt. I have heard some horror stories in my area of patients being left on the toilet for hours at a time. Nursing homes! Grrrrrr! Everyone keeps yelling at me to put my Mother in a nursing home. I won't do it. I get it I know she's mean, lol. That is not age it is just worse now. She lives around a lot of high rises and actually has a lot of people take care of her. I don't like nursing homes. I know I will get yelled at for all of this. Most nursing homes are not good places with a staff that is leaving every few days. There is no stability or excellent care for our loved ones. Believe me, none of us like them either. His mom will not stay with anyone-no amount of begging will change her mind. A couple of years ago she fell and has been in a wheelchair ever since. She walks a little with help but her house is not wheelchair or walker friendly at all, and she knows she can't stay alone. Her house is out in the country with no neighbors nearby so no one to check on her when family is busy or working. We've heard worse stories about in-home nurses than we have nursing homes around here so that's not an option either. Luckily the new place she's in, which is assisted living, is much much better. The old one just didn't have enough staff, for one thing.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 9, 2018 6:45:42 GMT
Gale- I know it is heartbreaking we have to put our elderly loved ones in a nursing home. One of my elderly friends just went to assisted living because he just couldn't care for himself any more, The poor in-home aides it was becoming to hard on them. Nobody else knew what to do. It didn't help that my Mom was taking advantage of him. We worry about our elderly loved ones getting scammed all the time. You wouldn't think their peers would do it. He loved his assisted living home. He had his own apartment and freedom to the extent his health allowed. He was surrounded by all his friends.
I told my DH our precious friend was going to see the angels in six months. Sadly, he did because he loved to be on the go. He loved to drive and travel. Plus, he was so sad when his wife passed away.
Assisted living is so much better. We have two great communities around here. I am so glad you were able to transfer your MIL in one.
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Post by grammadee on Feb 14, 2018 1:37:56 GMT
These all sound like lovely ideas. mamakoala just posted on another thread about her plans to sell her cards at work in exchange for a cash donation to charity.
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Post by mamakoala on Feb 14, 2018 3:11:32 GMT
Thanks for tagging me grammadee! I run a community acupuncture clinic, and we have such foot traffic I figured why not see if i can offer them to patients in return for a donation to charity. I make them mostly for pleasure and relaxation, not neccesarily always to send, so hopefully this will work. I just ordered some cello envelopes and a display stand.
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