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Post by austnscrapaddict on Mar 26, 2018 12:15:15 GMT
Hey Pea friends,I can always count on you for help and advice.... So, here goes.
I'm considering selling my 1900 Sq foot home and moving into a small cabin/tiny home on my sons land. Has anyone here downsized and done this? I don't know where to start eliminating stuff, I'm not attached to my "stuff" but just don't know how to prioritize what to keep and eliminate. Do I store stuff? or just sell it? I'm especially interested/worried about craft supplies. I mostly sew and quilt these days, but do make cards sometimes too. How did you deal with that?
The backstory if you're interested.... I'm 55, was laid off from my corporate job a few months ago,I'm not driven to find another corporate drive. I am doing ok, but wish to become totally debt free and see what it might be like to live on a low income with less stress. ( I know those two don't always go hand in hand) I'm single and have dated a very simple guy for the last couple of years, we aren't ready to move in together yet, but he has taught me what simple living is all about.
Thoughts? experiences? Please help me think thru this.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 26, 2018 12:25:24 GMT
If you love to craft, then I would include a room that you can do that in.
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Post by eversograceful1 on Mar 26, 2018 12:30:02 GMT
I don’t have experience but it sounds kind of exciting. You could even do those prefab pods.
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Post by Saff on Mar 26, 2018 12:32:41 GMT
I had a craft room in my previous house. When we downsized a couple of years ago I had to forgo a room for my supplies. I regret that every single day.
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Post by mom on Mar 26, 2018 12:45:19 GMT
My parents did this when they retired. It was good and bad.
The good was that they (initially) got rid of a ton of crap. No house payment. Less maintenance.
The bad was eventually they got tired of having to be so picky with what they had. It was hard having people over (where they lived it could get cold, so entertaining outside was hard). It was hard grocery shopping - mom couldn't stock up on good deals because she
Having adequate and well thought out storage can make or break a tiny house.
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Post by smartypants71 on Mar 26, 2018 12:45:27 GMT
I'm not sure I could do it, but we just happened to drive by a tiny home in my neighborhood yesterday. It was so cute! I just googled it and it won a major architecture award for the design in 2017: Tiny House in Houston
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Post by wellway on Mar 26, 2018 12:54:19 GMT
Sounds like craft is your joy so I would def include a space to craft in.
Instead of looking through everything you own and deciding what to keep and what to get rid of, perhaps turn the process on it's head. What do you need to function/enjoy life in the new space eg Bedroom, after a bed, how many pillows, sheets, duvets etc do you need? If that is less than you currently own, pick your favourites and lose the rest.
Same with your kitchen supplies, what will you need in terms of plates, cups, glasses etc. Is it important to you to have a Christmas set? etc.
These are only thoughts, no experience but the idea of paring down is appealing.
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Post by mygigiscraps on Mar 26, 2018 13:01:12 GMT
A really well made one is still fairly expensive.
Have you considered a used RV, just to see if you like tiny living? I've seen some absolutely amazing remodels, and you can get a really large one fairly inexpensively. It might be worth looking into before you make a big leap, especially if being debt-free is a goal.t Just go to Youtube and check out the RV remodel videos, especially the farmhouse ones. Lots of people are doing it, and you don't need a ton of experience. Paint, peel and stick tiles, and vinyl flooring will go a long way.
Anyway, it might be worth considering so that you can pay off your debt faster. If you still want a tiny home after that, you'd be able to afford a much nicer one with no other bills to think about.
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Post by grammadee on Mar 26, 2018 13:04:39 GMT
Have never done this, but as a single person, it should be comparable to downsizing to an apartment.
Some things to consider:
If you are constructing this home, you will need title to the land it is on if the home will be in your name. Needed for mortgage, but also in consideration of if your son decides to move. Our 4 adult kids have moved houses several times and communities a total of 8 times.
If this is rural land, you will need to include construction costs for water, sewer, electricity and maybe road access for your home.
If you won't be leaving the house to work every day, what will you be doing? If crafting is still part of your life, this seems to be something you need to plan for?
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Post by hannahruth on Mar 26, 2018 13:25:34 GMT
No matter what sized house/apartment/tiny house I live in it will have to have a craft room for me to enjoy the things I like to do. Sewing, quilting, scrapping, card making or sometimes just surfing the net. My space is very important to me for my own down time.
The rest of the stuff is just that, stuff I could be without and I'm sure I would still survive. The more room you have I find the more stuff that fills it.
Is the tiny home you are thinking about moveable or a permanent dwelling? I'm sure there would legalities to look at with building on your son's land.
I would also also be concerned about the size as I am finding personally that as I am getting older it is getting harder to bend into deep cupboards, climb stairs and do all those things that I used to do without even thinking about.
My thoughts are that if you think you can enjoy this life then do it!
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Post by austnscrapaddict on Mar 26, 2018 13:27:47 GMT
A really well made one is still fairly expensive. Have you considered a used RV, just to see if you like tiny living? I've seen some absolutely amazing remodels, and you can get a really large one fairly inexpensively. It might be worth looking into before you make a big leap, especially if being debt-free is a goal.t Just go to Youtube and check out the RV remodel videos, especially the farmhouse ones. Lots of people are doing it, and you don't need a ton of experience. Paint, peel and stick tiles, and vinyl flooring will go a long way. Anyway, it might be worth considering so that you can pay off your debt faster. If you still want a tiny home after that, you'd be able to afford a much nicer one with no other bills to think about. I have considered an RV, however, I want some of my own furniture and an RV doesn't allow for that, mainly my antique bed. Good suggestion though. Financially, whatever route I go will be paid off, I have more equity in my house than this will cost and have no other debt other than my car which will be paid off also.
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Post by austnscrapaddict on Mar 26, 2018 13:30:41 GMT
Have never done this, but as a single person, it should be comparable to downsizing to an apartment. Some things to consider: If you are constructing this home, you will need title to the land it is on if the home will be in your name. Needed for mortgage, but also in consideration of if your son decides to move. Our 4 adult kids have moved houses several times and communities a total of 8 times. If this is rural land, you will need to include construction costs for water, sewer, electricity and maybe road access for your home. If you won't be leaving the house to work every day, what will you be doing? If crafting is still part of your life, this seems to be something you need to plan for? Thanks! The land belongs to my son and this will be his guest house if I decide to buy another house someday. I will be paying cash for this cabin with some of the equity from my home. My son is in the process of building a home on this land also (15 acres) and the sewer, water and electricity are already in place. I agree a craft space is close to a necessity.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 26, 2018 13:30:53 GMT
Will zoning allow a tiny house?
How will it affect your son's taxes? Insurance, mortgage? Are you going to cover those expenses?
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Post by **GypsyGirl** on Mar 26, 2018 13:46:38 GMT
Instead of looking through everything you own and deciding what to keep and what to get rid of, perhaps turn the process on it's head. What do you need to function/enjoy life in the new space eg Bedroom, after a bed, how many pillows, sheets, duvets etc do you need? If that is less than you currently own, pick your favourites and lose the rest. This is the best way for most to approach the situation. Start with what you absolutely need and want to live your life comfortably. Then working from there you shed the excess. Is the cabin already on your son's land? If so, you know what you have to work with. If not, once you have an idea of what your must haves are, then you can decide just how small you can go. You may find it necessary to rent a climate controlled storage unit to store your craft supplies and other items. It could also be the ideal time to go through and purge your craft stash of any old and outdated items you no longer need/use (something I'm in the process of myself). Some more questions to consider. If there isn't an existing cabin do you plan to build one on site, or will you have one constructed and trailered there? Those will be different costs and different permits. How much is it going to cost you up front in order to pay down your debt? Would it be less expensive to sell your home and rent a small apartment? Although I know cheap rent doesn't really exist where you live (my family lives there and deals with this), perhaps the difference would be enough from your mortgage to make a difference? So many things to consider, but it could also end up being a very exciting journey for you! Good luck with your decision!
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Post by freeatlast on Mar 26, 2018 13:52:27 GMT
Some things that would be deal breakers for me:
1) Is there room for a real bedroom on the first floor? There's no way I'm climbing up a ladder to a sleeping loft. Especially the older I get. 2) Is there room for a real bathroom with shower? No tiny RV bathrooms for me. 3) Is there room for a separate craft space? I'd want something where I can leave things out and shut the door. With good storage options. 4) Does the kitchen support my cooking needs? I wouldn't need a professional kitchen but I'd want to be able to cook my types of meals. This would involve more than a one-burner stove and a mini fridge. Plus the room for a few appliances. 5) Is there room for a washer and dryer?
I think it might be fun, though.
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Post by desertgirl on Mar 26, 2018 14:14:45 GMT
We own a 1200 sq. ft. cabin and an RV with 260 sq. ft.
The cabin downstairs has 800 sq. ft., so I can tell you that there is plenty of room for craft and sewing space. It has a galley kitchen, a bathroom with a shower, and a separate bedroom from the great room where we eat on the table at the end. It is spacious. We also put in a 2nd toilet in the Harry Potter-like closet under the stairs.
I rarely go upstairs, but when we have more overnight guests, it has a loft area with 2 enclosed bedrooms. I could easily make one of those into a craft room. But to picture you in just the bottom (if you do not want a 2-story), I would say you could have a craft area with no problem and people could still come over and not be disturbed about seating or viewing your crafting.
I do craft on the road in our RV, but the supplies are contained in a dedicated cupboard space. We are going to downsize our RV and the ones we've looked at would still have a cupboard for supplies, but not an area to sew.
It definitely is something doable with some modifications in your outlook on what was important to you in the larger house and what you can do to replicate that in your smaller home.
Best wishes!
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Post by gsquaredmom on Mar 26, 2018 14:20:35 GMT
Just going to toss this hat in the ring: how about an in law apartment attached to your sons house? Seems that might be more of an investment for the value of his property than a little house someone else might or might not want. Don’t really know much about it, though.
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Post by Mel on Mar 26, 2018 14:53:17 GMT
Having just moved into a much smaller house, I will say that the one thing I miss is being able to "host" get-togethers. There just isn't enough room. With your son living that close though, I would guess that hosting things like that at his house might be easier. I liked to have a friend over to make cards or scrapbook with me occasionally, and I can't do that in our current home.
We are building a big garage/shop this summer though and there will be a room just for me, so I'll be able to have a friend or two over once that's done.
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Post by GiantsFan on Mar 26, 2018 14:58:34 GMT
I don't have any experience with tiny homes (except living in our truck camper for 10 days). If you have an IKEA nearby go take a look at the "rooms" and see what your living space would look like. You can get a lot of stuff in a small space with good storage!
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Post by Deleted on Mar 26, 2018 15:10:34 GMT
Draw out what you want.
Think about adding a deep screened in wrap around porch.
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Post by lesley on Mar 26, 2018 15:33:59 GMT
Just how tiny is tiny? My two kids and I moved into my old childhood home which was about 800 sq ft before I got the loft converted to a bedroom for DS. Our previous house was more than double the size, so coming here was a bit of a shock. However, my mum and dad raised three children in this house (albeit at a time when people had far less stuff), and once the kids leave, there will be plenty of room just for me. At the moment, my bedroom is also my craft room which works well for me most of the time.
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