ComplicatedLady
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Post by ComplicatedLady on Apr 6, 2019 19:00:18 GMT
Sorry it took me so long to get back with you. I’ve been having blood pressure issues. 🤪 Here is a snippet of what I have... No worries! I sent you a PM!
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julie5
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Post by julie5 on Apr 6, 2019 19:25:46 GMT
But here’s the thing: she hardly talks about memory keeping. It’s a chore for her. The llc is there but the business is in the garbage. Yesterday she posted 15 stories about her podcast. Clearly she’s more interested in being a guru whatever the duck that is. So a business page vs personal wouldn’t really have anything on it that the scrappers keep saying they want. She isn’t talking about that. I’m not going to snark on conference even though I feel lds is complete garbage because I notice every year, it draws her closer to her family and faith as they tune in. I remember her “conference rolls” she shared about one year and that seems to be a lasting impression on me so imagine her kids memory of it smelling and eating the rolls every year in conference weekend. There. I said something nice. Back to bitch mode.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 6, 2019 19:38:46 GMT
But here’s the thing: she hardly talks about memory keeping. It’s a chore for her. The llc is there but the business is in the garbage. Yesterday she posted 15 stories about her podcast. Clearly she’s more interested in being a guru whatever the duck that is. So a business page vs personal wouldn’t really have anything on it that the scrappers keep saying they want. She isn’t talking about that. I’m not going to snark on conference even though I feel lds is complete garbage because I notice every year, it draws her closer to her family and faith as they tune in. I remember her “conference rolls” she shared about one year and that seems to be a lasting impression on me so imagine her kids memory of it smelling and eating the rolls every year in conference weekend. There. I said something nice. Back to bitch mode. Now if she talked about that, that is memory keeping. It may not be in a layout but it is still a memory. An important one. But we don't even get that... Just crying and fluff. It was refreshing to see her assistant to the IG story about the update. Personable. Straight forward. Here us your info. No crying or other crap.
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Post by scrapperal on Apr 6, 2019 20:55:44 GMT
Well, my app comment stirred up some talk. Anyhoo, yes, iOS gets stuff first and quicker usually but Android is not an impossible platform to cater to as many other app developers are proving. Just going to point out A Color Story doing it right when it comes to finding a balance between making money off as many people as people and not spending too much on trying to make sure Android gets all the features iOS does (not the case but all the basics are covered and the interface is fire). I've spent way too much money with ACS whereas with Becky's app, nada, nothing, zilch. Do I need this? I want something simple to add text, icon, just little things to my photos. Thanks.
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nicolep
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Post by nicolep on Apr 6, 2019 21:14:15 GMT
Let's see how long my comment will stay on her IG post... She replied to mine. 🙄
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Post by Deleted on Apr 6, 2019 22:34:48 GMT
Notice she says nothing about god's revelation from 2015 which stated that children of same sex couples could not be baptized as children AND that same gender parents were apostates. That "revelation" was overruled a few days ago by another revelation from god saying "JK". That god, what a kidder.
I wonder how many families have been wrenched apart in torment over the past 3.5 years?!
Becky and her LDS elders. A non-stop source of amusement and nonsense.
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Post by scrappydo on Apr 7, 2019 0:20:29 GMT
I did spy a denial from here that she doesn't delete comments. It must be the commenter deleting their own comments.... uh. Yeah.
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nicolep
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Post by nicolep on Apr 7, 2019 0:33:03 GMT
I did spy a denial from here that she doesn't delete comments. It must be the commenter deleting their own comments.... uh. Yeah. Yeah, that was her response to my comment.
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Post by 950nancy on Apr 7, 2019 0:38:16 GMT
Notice she says nothing about god's revelation from 2015 which stated that children of same sex couples could not be baptized as children AND that same gender parents were apostates. That "revelation" was overruled a few days ago by another revelation from god saying "JK". That god, what a kidder. I wonder how many families have been wrenched apart in torment over the past 3.5 years?! Becky and her LDS elders. A non-stop source of amusement and nonsense. My mom used to say that God had a great sense of humor because he made me. Your comment made me laugh. Hadn't thought of that for years.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 7, 2019 1:40:55 GMT
Let's see how long my comment will stay on her IG post... She replied to mine. 🙄 Mine got a ton of replies lol
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caangel
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Post by caangel on Apr 7, 2019 2:07:24 GMT
Apparently we are all idiots to think that Becky Higgins ***LLC*** would be a business account! Boy do I feel foolish! 🙄
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Post by artisticscrapper on Apr 7, 2019 2:14:25 GMT
I tried to post a screen shot of Becky’s reply but my computer isn’t cooperating. Essentially she said that her IG account is not a business account. It’s for her to post things she’s inspired to share and to help others cultivate a good life. Oh, and to promote products. It was pretty snarky. I couldn’t read all the fangirl replies as I wasn’t wearing my boots.
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Post by refugeepea on Apr 7, 2019 3:23:58 GMT
Brace yourselves. It's General Conference for the LDS Church this weekend. Brace yourselves. First and second sessions have ended. Share your love of the gospel on social media. I could say much more, but I've returned and reported with just this tidbit.
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cbscrapper
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Post by cbscrapper on Apr 7, 2019 4:38:12 GMT
I think BH is posting all the crying stories and pics because she thinks she’s a pretty crier. That last pic, her mascara is all done up, the liner on her upper lid is perfect, nothing to run down her lower lid. Her eyes are sparkling with tears.
Plus, she’s gone off the deep end.
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Post by scrapaddict702 on Apr 7, 2019 7:24:12 GMT
Apparently we are all idiots to think that Becky Higgins ***LLC*** would be a business account! Boy do I feel foolish! 🙄 Pshh, no! That's her name, guys. It's like the new junior...but instead of being a namesake and making each person easier to identify, LLC is just an add on meant to confuse and misinform. All the cool kids will be doing it soon!
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sneakylatina
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Post by sneakylatina on Apr 7, 2019 15:29:44 GMT
I think BH is posting all the crying stories and pics because she thinks she’s a pretty crier. That last pic, her mascara is all done up, the liner on her upper lid is perfect, nothing to run down her lower lid. Her eyes are sparkling with tears. Plus, she’s gone off the deep end. Totally agree. Disingenuous to say the least.
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craftymom101
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Post by craftymom101 on Apr 7, 2019 20:02:56 GMT
Becky posted a "what my page is/what my page isn't" FB post today. It's amazing to me that a grown woman who has successfully launched products and an app has zero ability to make course changes to better her business. She needs a PR specialist to come in and make serious changes to the way she communicates with her (shrinking) customer base.
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caangel
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Post by caangel on Apr 7, 2019 20:59:04 GMT
Becky posted a "what my page is/what my page isn't" FB post today. It's amazing to me that a grown woman who has successfully launched products and an app has zero ability to make course changes to better her business. She needs a PR specialist to come in and make serious changes to the way she communicates with her (shrinking) customer base. And apparently it was important enough to "work" on the Sabbath.
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julie5
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Post by julie5 on Apr 7, 2019 21:05:10 GMT
Becky posted a "what my page is/what my page isn't" FB post today. It's amazing to me that a grown woman who has successfully launched products and an app has zero ability to make course changes to better her business. She needs a PR specialist to come in and make serious changes to the way she communicates with her (shrinking) customer base. To me it just reaffirms that she still needs the validation or she’d quit trying to explain what she is/isn’t. I did a big old eye roll at a few of the comments to think of how you would speak to your mom/sister/whatever. If my loved one was acting like a moron on social media I would tell them. My 15 yo frequently cries because of things people say to her on video game chats. People who have never met her. I flat out say get a grip. It’s people you don’t actually know. Their opinion doesn’t count.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 8, 2019 0:17:32 GMT
Becky posted a "what my page is/what my page isn't" FB post today. It's amazing to me that a grown woman who has successfully launched products and an app has zero ability to make course changes to better her business. She needs a PR specialist to come in and make serious changes to the way she communicates with her (shrinking) customer base. And apparently it was important enough to "work" on the Sabbath. Do as I say, not as I do.
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Post by artisticscrapper on Apr 8, 2019 3:10:13 GMT
She posted her speech on IG as well. She must have been pretty butt hurt the other day with the comments about her randomness. A true professional would just say thank you for your suggestions and move on. But Becky has to whine about it, probably so she can get more love from her fangirls. She really seems to need that validation.
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Post by quinmm14 on Apr 8, 2019 3:24:00 GMT
Becky posted a "what my page is/what my page isn't" FB post today. It's amazing to me that a grown woman who has successfully launched products and an app has zero ability to make course changes to better her business. She needs a PR specialist to come in and make serious changes to the way she communicates with her (shrinking) customer base. And apparently it was important enough to "work" on the Sabbath. Hypocrisy, it's kinda a thing with her. I read that thinking she most definitely reads here, and most definitely can't help but respond in a snarky fashion. That post was nothing but full on snark.
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Post by quinmm14 on Apr 8, 2019 3:26:55 GMT
Becky posted a "what my page is/what my page isn't" FB post today. It's amazing to me that a grown woman who has successfully launched products and an app has zero ability to make course changes to better her business. She needs a PR specialist to come in and make serious changes to the way she communicates with her (shrinking) customer base. To me it just reaffirms that she still needs the validation or she’d quit trying to explain what she is/isn’t. I did a big old eye roll at a few of the comments to think of how you would speak to your mom/sister/whatever. If my loved one was acting like a moron on social media I would tell them. My 15 yo frequently cries because of things people say to her on video game chats. People who have never met her. I flat out say get a grip. It’s people you don’t actually know. Their opinion doesn’t count. Yeah, I'd tell my mom, sister, daughter or whoever not everybody likes you and that's okay. Some people just won't. But I'd also tell them you don't have to do the tit for tat and respond to everything that annoys you. Move on and don't dwell on it.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 8, 2019 5:12:26 GMT
She posted her speech on IG as well. She must have been pretty butt hurt the other day with the comments about her randomness. A true professional would just say thank you for your suggestions and move on. But Becky has to whine about it, probably so she can get more love from her fangirls. She really seems to need that validation. Every time I think we're progressing as a society - that we're more thoughtful, more reasoned, etc, I read vapid comments on IG about peoples' (like Becky's) vapid posts. The mutual massaging of each others' inane "you're good, I'm good, we're all good, good is good" posts and comments are just OTT. I feel like in this community we lift each other up, we're kind to each other, we encourage each other. But it feels different because none of us is drama queening and begging for validation and affirmation on a daily basis. None of us is being the gracious dispenser of light and wisdom. None of us are trying to out butt-kiss each other to get attention from the lead life cultivator. It's never the inane person that bothers me, it's the many followers who fall all over themselves to be their bestest supporters.
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Post by crafty on Apr 8, 2019 9:50:21 GMT
Remember that Toni came here defending the kindness of Kari and Wendy but never said a word about Becky. As a virtual stranger watching her by what she puts out there, she acts so superior and I remind myself that someone close to her pretty much confirmed that by lack of a comment defending her as a nice person.
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Post by miss2peas on Apr 8, 2019 16:53:54 GMT
I just looked at her insta post about what her account is and isn’t and it really has me thinking. She has all these fan girls that kiss her butt at every opportunity and we know it a lot because she is constantly reaching for it but is what she doing now going to keep the company afloat. I just can’t see brining in the type of the money she is accustomed to. Classes, podcast, notebooks, a subscription possibly on the app, and the high cost printing she offers, are they really going to generate a lot of income? I can see a lot of people just using the app that can be free and calling it a day.
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Post by mrsshampoo on Apr 8, 2019 17:06:53 GMT
There is obviously a business need for two separate accounts. There are people following her for her cultivating a good life crap, and that is fine. But, then there are the scrapbookers. Just create two separate accounts...it isn’t that hard and might just save a little of the PL business that she built. She can even have one of her girls run the PL only account. Why is she so freakin’ stubborn?
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julie5
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Post by julie5 on Apr 8, 2019 18:42:14 GMT
There is obviously a business need for two separate accounts. There are people following her for her cultivating a good life crap, and that is fine. But, then there are the scrapbookers. Just create two separate accounts...it isn’t that hard and might just save a little of the PL business that she built. She can even have one of her girls run the PL only account. Why is she so freakin’ stubborn? I think if you don’t follow her for the reasons she wants you to follow her, then she doesn’t want your follow at all. I mean that’s how I take it by her saying her account is a catch all and staying that way.
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Post by scrapsnneedles on Apr 8, 2019 19:05:04 GMT
I’ve been thinking of sending an email to the company itself about my concerns. I thought about commenting on the posts themselves, but Becky is going to be the one who sees that and get very defensive about whatever it is that I say. But if I email customer service, then Wendy will get the email. And she seems a lot more reasonable. Maybe she would pass it on. Or really I just someone else in that company to know that Be My is super out of touch. But seriously, Becky felt the need to write that long post because two or three people expressed concern on the previous post. She needs a thicker skin.
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Post by joblackford on Apr 8, 2019 19:33:12 GMT
There is obviously a business need for two separate accounts. There are people following her for her cultivating a good life crap, and that is fine. But, then there are the scrapbookers. Just create two separate accounts...it isn’t that hard and might just save a little of the PL business that she built. She can even have one of her girls run the PL only account. Why is she so freakin’ stubborn? I think if you don’t follow her for the reasons she wants you to follow her, then she doesn’t want your follow at all. I mean that’s how I take it by her saying her account is a catch all and staying that way. I didn't read the post but that sounds like her! She likes to keep things simple, and thinking/filtering your thoughts into business vs personal (or cultivating BS vs memory keeping) does take a little bit of time and thought. Especially when you feel like everything you say and do is SO important to your fans. She just can't, or won't, edit herself. But just like keeping the app so simple it doesn't work, this is a really dumb choice, IMO. Someone really should make a PL account for the business - and ideally it should not be her, since she clearly doesn't care.
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