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Post by Deleted on Oct 25, 2019 6:53:46 GMT
Becky's book- Don't care she is writing a book. Don't wish her ill over the book. I hope it's a success so she will leave the scrapbook world, sell Project Life, Project Life gets revamped and a really crazy cool new artist from a diverse background becomes the lead designer. We should be encouraging her to write this book, lol. scrappintoee Vibrator scandal. It's not really a scandal. It's stupid hilarious. Becky posts an IG pic of a microphone on a pillow. It looked like she was posting a vibrator on a pillow. The girls over here had so much fun going on about that. It was hysterical. The girls made so many hits on it you can probably go to Google and type in Becky Higgin's vibrator and Google will find it in their algorithms. Now, essentially because Becky never thinks she has Becky Higgins and vibrator attached to her brand. Talk about cultivating your life.
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Post by paperaddict on Oct 25, 2019 8:49:24 GMT
amayalylac, I am sorry for all the abuse you and your loved ones have gone through at the hands of individuals in the Mormon church. My ex husband was sexually abused as a kid and the scars he carries to this day are horrific (physical and psychological). I hate when abuse are "excused" because the perpetrators are powerful people and instead, the victims are blamed. I understand how you feel about the Mormon religion because I feel that about the Catholic church and how so many priests "got away" (not punished) with sexually abusing young children with the help of the Catholic church.
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msliz
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Post by msliz on Oct 25, 2019 10:55:17 GMT
@amayalylac, I'm so sorry for all that you and your family have been put through. It's truly heartbreaking.
Sending you love and strength and peace.
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Post by refugeepea on Oct 25, 2019 17:59:56 GMT
refugeepea I truly do not want to start a flame war with you. I have a lot of rage right now for Mormon's. I am trying to work through it. I have lost four siblings. Two just in the past month. Three of my siblings I have lost due to Mormon abuse. One of my brother's that just passed took his life because of sexual abuse from the Mormon church. I was raised in a Mormon family. I am not Mormon. My whole life has been this culture. I was sexually molested by a man who was not Mormon but the church protected him because he was a financial supporter. My husband and his brother was kidnapped and raped by a Mormon. My brother's were molested one by an elder, one was a member. Now, they are both dead. I have been called worthless, even told as a child that God didn't want me because I was a dirty Gypsy. The Mormon religion, for the most part, has shown me only ugliness and abuse. My husband's stories are worse. We both had to be raised around this. We both even were forced to go to temple. Even though both of us have been told we are dirty and worthless to be loved by God. I do truly feel bad using the word freaky. You can't even imagine how bad I feel that I lashed out like that. It has been one of the lowest points in my life. I don't think you are freaky. Some of the things you wrote has freaked me out and has felt like an attack. Please remember that I have been attacked viciously by this religion since I was a small child. Between this board and things I have been witnessing in my real life all I have been seeing lately is ugliness and greed of the Mormon's. I had been gone from the board because of my brother's passings. I log in too see I got dragged into a flame war. I was angry about it. I just had to bury a brother because of Mormon's just to get dragged into a flame war about Mormon's. It was not fair. It is not right. I have a lot of rage right now. I was hurt that you were in a flame war with another member but you used a post that I wrote with what I felt was trying to correct me and to prove your point to the member you were in a flame war with. You had a problem with her. I don't understand what I did to get dragged into it. I am very hurt you used me to prove your point. I considered you a friend over here. I should not have taken out my rage and anger at you. I should have told you that what you did was hurtful. Yes, it was a bit mean girl. Honestly, you did really freak me out. I have had to see a lot of freakiness in this past month with Mormons in my real life. Yeah, trust me I am really freaked out by Mormon's right now! Halloween came early for me with lots of monsters and horror these past few weeks. Honestly, at this point I think many Mormon's are just murderer's. They all talk about how tragic the suicide rate is but they are not talking about that it's their religion causing it! I am really, really angry. My BFF Father told me that the only thing I have ever seen from the Mormon members is evil and cruelty. He said I have every right to think of all Mormon's as freaky. I do have good people in my life that are Mormon's. What I have seen those members are few and far between in the Mormon religion. I am truly sorry. I was going to send this as a PM but I wanted to publicly apologize to you. I will do another post about vibrator's and Becky's crazy book idea. I wanted to use this one for apologizing. I'll just say okay and move on.
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Post by crafty on Oct 26, 2019 0:12:29 GMT
All I know is that it must be exhausting to live with all the “intention” all the time. Every life choice being “intentional” is just so weird. None of my friends talk like that.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 26, 2019 0:16:26 GMT
All I know is that it must be exhausting to live with all the “intention” all the time. Every life choice being “intentional” is just so weird. None of my friends talk like that. I have one who uses that hash tag in almost every post along with 'the motherhood is real' and others. 🙄
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Post by refugeepea on Oct 26, 2019 2:31:08 GMT
All I know is that it must be exhausting to live with all the “intention” all the time. Every life choice being “intentional” is just so weird. None of my friends talk like that. I wonder if intention is the new cultivate?
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Post by kiera on Oct 26, 2019 6:45:26 GMT
Cultivate your intentions, you guys!!!!!
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Post by sleepingbooty on Oct 26, 2019 18:36:16 GMT
Has Becky jumped on the "authentic self" bandwagon yet?
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Post by scrapaddict702 on Oct 26, 2019 22:12:35 GMT
All I know is that it must be exhausting to live with all the “intention” all the time. Every life choice being “intentional” is just so weird. None of my friends talk like that. I wonder if intention is the new cultivate? Seems like she's trying to jump on the Ali bandwagon, too. Intentional seems to be the thing I've noticed Ali running with.
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Post by needtime2scrap on Oct 27, 2019 15:53:06 GMT
Ali definitely has more substance than Becky. Becky can barely string together a coherent sentence/paragraph to actually say something (hello emails and newsletters that go around and around and say nothing?) Whereas Ali is authentic and straight forward.
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Post by hop2 on Oct 27, 2019 15:56:28 GMT
I wonder if intention is the new cultivate? Seems like she's trying to jump on the Ali bandwagon, too. Intentional seems to be the thing I've noticed Ali running with. She has a long way to go if she’s trying to emulate Ali. Ali has separate business social media accounts Ali demonstrates the use of products Ali has a team that also demonstrates the use of products Ali has NEW PHYSICAL PRODUCTS to buy so you can spend your money if you do choose Ali isn't perfect but she is at least trying to provide products & inspiration for people.
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Post by vexedangel on Oct 27, 2019 16:14:11 GMT
I agree, Ali has more substance and depth than BH. Becky annoyed me away years ago. Ali I can't follow constantly, because I don't have the time to use all the stuff, but she delivers content and that's nice.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 27, 2019 16:22:46 GMT
^^^ yes. Ali adjusts to the current scrapbook climate too. Whereas BH just does her own thing without looking at long term stability. She flues by the seat of her pants and expects everyone to join in on the ride. She is quite manic and it has only gotten worse.
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Post by scrappintoee on Oct 27, 2019 20:32:13 GMT
Serrriously, make it STOP !!!! WHYYY does every. little. thing. require some pseudo- deep, MEANINGFUL intention ! ! It's a house and some lamps by your bed !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
( from "higgins home" Instagram the other day:) INTENTIONAL HOME // I just got off the phone with a writer from @washingtonpost. She reached out to interview me and asked some questions about our experience in designing and building a custom home. She asked questions like, why did we decide to build custom? What were some of the things we wish we would’ve done differently? What took the longest? Things like that. Pretty basic questions ... and I think I answered some of them in a way that she probably wasn’t expecting. I was myself and shared what I truly felt and that’s what she got. 😉 (my comment: I wonder if this reporter wondered WHY WHY WHY the word INTENTION needed to be used SO MUCH !?? Perhaps BH needs a thesaurus!!!)
One thing I shared was how important it was for us to be incredibly intentional with the entire project, from the very beginning — and not just until the day we moved in, but the intention that carries with us still. Intention is everything. (THREE TIMES in ONE paragraph !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) .Case in point: Beginning with the end in mind, this wasn’t a project to take on because we were looking for a way to fill our time. David and I have very full lives. Our careers and hobbies are so different from one another.
Designing and building a home has been a very long-time dream, not just to have what what we wanted in a home in a physical sense, but also to have this shared experience because this really is a TOGETHER hobby for us. The intention of having a positive and exciting and fun experience in designing + building a home together, has been critical ... because there were plenty of hiccups and frustrations along the way. That is 100% to be expected in building a custom home. But because of the framework and because of the way that we began with the end in mind, we were still able to feel joy and gratitude during the process because of our mindset. Who knows how much of our interview will actually end up in the article published but I will keep you posted when that becomes available to the public. 😉 By the way, one very intentional decision we made was no tabletop lamps on our nightstands in the master bedroom. They have always just felt like a nuisance and the switches always break and we’ve knocked them over a time or two. 🙈 So that’s why we decided on hanging pendants instead. (umm....we've had lamps by our bed for manyyy years, from Target, so nothing fancy----and NEVER had a switch "always break"....whaaat? Come to think of it, we've never had ANY lamp switch break.)
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Post by scrappintoee on Oct 27, 2019 20:42:43 GMT
Did y'all see this one?
from becky higgins llc "your documentary guru" Instagram Oct. 26, 2019
Today is National Make a Difference Day (what a great thing!) and it’s also Neighborhood Pride Day for our home town of Peoria, AZ. Our family joined with others and spent some time moving dirt + rock to clean up someone’s yard. Then we helped unload someone’s belongings from a moving truck into a storage unit. Good times. Obviously rendering service shouldn’t be reserved for only special days or organized projects. We can make a difference — in even the smallest ways — every single day. And those small efforts DO make a difference. It ALL matters. Every effort, big + small. And it’s how we should exist. 💛 #BHCultivateAGoodLife momto3ducks said: How wonderful! I thought most Pride activities were in June, but it's great to see it extend all the way into October. At any rate, it's awesome to see you reaching out to the LGBTQ community with acts of service. I'm sure it was greatly appreciated.
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Post by sleepingbooty on Oct 27, 2019 20:54:05 GMT
Did y'all see this one?
from becky higgins llc "your documentary guru" Instagram Oct. 26, 2019Today is National Make a Difference Day (what a great thing!) and it’s also Neighborhood Pride Day for our home town of Peoria, AZ. Our family joined with others and spent some time moving dirt + rock to clean up someone’s yard. Then we helped unload someone’s belongings from a moving truck into a storage unit. Good times. momto3ducks said: How wonderful! I thought most Pride activities were in June, but it's great to see it extend all the way into October. At any rate, it's awesome to see you reaching out to the LGBTQ community with acts of service. I'm sure it was greatly appreciated. I *so* hope momto3ducks is a Pea or BH thread lurker. If so, it's shade so cool it burns. I tip my hat to thee.
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Post by kiera on Oct 27, 2019 21:35:14 GMT
Wtf are they doing to those lamps that they're constantly breaking and falling over? Is it somehow related to the "microphone" photo because if so, I don't need the details....
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Post by andreasmom on Oct 28, 2019 0:44:25 GMT
Did y'all see this one?
from becky higgins llc "your documentary guru" Instagram Oct. 26, 2019
Today is National Make a Difference Day (what a great thing!) and it’s also Neighborhood Pride Day for our home town of Peoria, AZ. Our family joined with others and spent some time moving dirt + rock to clean up someone’s yard. Then we helped unload someone’s belongings from a moving truck into a storage unit. Good times. Obviously rendering service shouldn’t be reserved for only special days or organized projects. We can make a difference — in even the smallest ways — every single day. And those small efforts DO make a difference. It ALL matters. Every effort, big + small. And it’s how we should exist. 💛 #BHCultivateAGoodLife momto3ducks said: How wonderful! I thought most Pride activities were in June, but it's great to see it extend all the way into October. At any rate, it's awesome to see you reaching out to the LGBTQ community with acts of service. I'm sure it was greatly appreciated. Has to be a Pea. Pretty please.
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Post by scrappydo on Oct 28, 2019 2:18:06 GMT
Wtf are they doing to those lamps that they're constantly breaking and falling over? Is it somehow related to the "microphone" photo because if so, I don't need the details.... It shouldn't tickle my fancy to see a search of "becky higgins vibrator" brings up this thread as the top result ....but it does!
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Post by 950nancy on Oct 28, 2019 4:14:29 GMT
Wtf are they doing to those lamps that they're constantly breaking and falling over? Is it somehow related to the "microphone" photo because if so, I don't need the details.... It shouldn't tickle my fancy to see a search of "becky higgins vibrator" brings up this thread as the top result ....but it does! The top result? There are more?
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Post by pancakes on Oct 28, 2019 12:42:10 GMT
How was BH an editor...ever? As a former editor, I find this incredibly hard to believe, given her rambling (and beyond) posts.
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nicolep
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Post by nicolep on Oct 28, 2019 13:19:04 GMT
How was BH an editor...ever? As a former editor, I find this incredibly hard to believe, given her rambling (and beyond) posts. It was way before she went off the deep end. I actually really liked her work back in the day...her sketches, layouts, design etc. Can't tell you how many times I used her sketches when I was a 12x12 scrapper. I think it's really just been the last 2 years (at most) that she's fallen off her rocker.
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momto3ducks
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Post by momto3ducks on Oct 28, 2019 13:34:54 GMT
Tis I that threw the shade. I was a pea, and have as of late been a pea refugee lurker. When BH was posting about PRIDE I simply could not resist.
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Post by nicolep on Oct 28, 2019 13:36:42 GMT
Tis I that threw the shade. I was a pea, and have as of late been a pea refugee lurker. When BH was posting about PRIDE I simply could not resist. WELCOME!!
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Post by paperamy on Oct 28, 2019 13:37:41 GMT
Tis I that threw the shade. I was a pea, and have as of late been a pea refugee lurker. When BH was posting about PRIDE I simply could not resist. You are my hero for the day.
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Post by julie5 on Oct 28, 2019 13:37:47 GMT
Tis I that threw the shade. I was a pea, and have as of late been a pea refugee lurker. When BH was posting about PRIDE I simply could not resist. I nominate you for president. Of all things.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 28, 2019 13:41:18 GMT
Tis I that threw the shade. I was a pea, and have as of late been a pea refugee lurker. When BH was posting about PRIDE I simply could not resist. I think she deleted it.
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Post by kiera on Oct 28, 2019 14:13:57 GMT
Tis I that threw the shade. I was a pea, and have as of late been a pea refugee lurker. When BH was posting about PRIDE I simply could not resist.
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Post by hop2 on Oct 28, 2019 14:30:04 GMT
Tis I that threw the shade. I was a pea, and have as of late been a pea refugee lurker. When BH was posting about PRIDE I simply could not resist. I think she deleted it. Of course she deleted it.
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