PrettyInPeank
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Post by PrettyInPeank on Aug 7, 2018 2:55:06 GMT
...a sales pitch!
We moved back to a town we used to live in. We were at Costco a few weeks ago, and ran into an old coworker of my husband's. They exchanged numbers and talked about going to the gym together. Except there have been 0 gym plans and only been texts about oils.
My poor naive husband. 😂 I have years of MLM dodging skills from my military wife days, and he just walked RIGHT into this one.
A week ago he said "Rob" was still asking if he'd be interested. I said say no, tell him I only buy a few essential oils, and I buy them online. He tells me I already said sure, I'd be up to listening. 🤦♀️
I thought maybe avoiding worked and it was over. Until he gets a phone call tonight (guess where this is going). Hmmm, who is calling I wondered. He hangs up and said it's Rob, asking if I'm interested in oils. I go into a spiel about how to get politely stop this. He responds, "well too late, he's coming at 7:30." I said I bet he comes with a backpack. I tried to give some advice, he brushed it off as silly.
Oh lawd. He just showed up. With his wife. And a backpack...that was attached to an unidentified man's back. Sorry hon, you're on your own. 😂 I'm taking bets. Think he'll buy something? Think he'll try to call me down as an attempted escape? Think he'll say, "damn you were right?" Lol
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Post by lucyg on Aug 7, 2018 2:59:07 GMT
OMG. No, just NO! There's plenty of things I love to buy from my friends, but essential oils ... NO!
You did the right thing. He's on his own. You tried to warn him.
OR you're a lousy, unsupportive wife. I'm not sure which. LOL
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Post by mrssmith on Aug 7, 2018 2:59:58 GMT
I hope you don’t end up with $1,000 worth of oils!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 7, 2018 3:00:27 GMT
 Hope they leave him alone after all of that!
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Post by destined2bmom on Aug 7, 2018 3:02:31 GMT
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Post by **GypsyGirl** on Aug 7, 2018 3:03:16 GMT
Oh my! My husband did that about 20 years ago, only it was Amway. Like you, I had run the gauntlet of many MLM pitches over the years via the women's club scene. It's really hard to convince them we are right. This is one of those things that they just have to suffer through. You DH isn't super gullible is he? I hope not or you're going to have to find room for a bunch of oils!  I'd be torn between feigning the worst migraine ever, or going down to protect the family coffers from him being sucked into an order. Do keep us posted! This could be the most fun we've had on a Monday night in a long while! |
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PrettyInPeank
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Post by PrettyInPeank on Aug 7, 2018 3:04:06 GMT
LMAO Lucy, you know I'm bad when I ditch his ass like that. It's 3 on 1. Lol!!
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ComplicatedLady
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Post by ComplicatedLady on Aug 7, 2018 3:07:16 GMT
Oh man—if he’s that much of a sucker then he may end up buying a bunch of stuff from them.
Then he’ll say he bought it for you.
I’m not very good at saying no to mlm pushers. I usually go to “parties” and buy something to be nice.
Never in my home though and I can’t imagine a home visit one on one without a “party” attached.
Luckily, my dh is very good at saying no to people without them thinking he’s a jerk. It’s seriously a skill I envy.
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ComplicatedLady
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Post by ComplicatedLady on Aug 7, 2018 3:08:43 GMT
OH and I just thought of something!!
What if they talk him into signing up to SELL them?!?
Oh man, you have got to update this thread.
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Post by fredfreddy44 on Aug 7, 2018 3:10:26 GMT
Please be my guest, hide away. My dh agreed a million years ago to have one of those carpet shampoo guys come by and clean a room. I said "you know he will talk your ear off to get you to buy the cleaner right?" He said "yes I know." I left. I can't even stand listening to that stuff. We got a clean room and no carpet cleaner but dh lost 2 hours of his life. So not worth it.
Another time one of dd's Job's daughters friends was selling Cutco and need "to practice her spiel". I told him he was on his own also. He did buy a $50 cheese knife but we still have it 8 years later and love it so I can't argue.
MLM make me run away screaming.
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Post by JustKim on Aug 7, 2018 3:16:48 GMT
Keep hiding. I hid a few weeks ago from the neighbor. She was over with one of her long stories about nothing and brought her vacuum over to be assembled. I stayed in the bathroom for the whole time. She finally asked where I was and my dh said "the bathroom", she then said "wow, she is in there for a long time". Vacuum was assembled and she left. (I will do thing again, I am sure!!!)
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Post by 950nancy on Aug 7, 2018 3:26:46 GMT
Are they still there? You'd think that they would get the hint. Almost everyone I know who does MLM selling puts their sales in front of our friendship. If your product was really that great, I would be asking you to buy it.
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PrettyInPeank
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Post by PrettyInPeank on Aug 7, 2018 3:45:14 GMT
The way my house is set up, the upstairs has a hall that overlooks the downstairs. I was still putting the kids to bed, but had to walk past. I said hello, then my husband says, oh honey, they are just going to come back Sunday after church to explain, since it's better to have us both here to understand everything (wtf!). That's okay right?"
Ugggh. Karma.
I of course was too chicken to say no, so I said yeah..ok. Get this, my husband doesn't even know what they're selling. He knows it's oils, and only thinks it's doTerra. 😂
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Post by Crack-a-lackin on Aug 7, 2018 3:50:58 GMT
I think you need to be there for the pitch, otherwise your dh will end up being their newest sales rep! At least mine would. Good luck to you both!
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Post by moodyblue on Aug 7, 2018 4:03:27 GMT
The way my house is set up, the upstairs has a hall that overlooks the downstairs. I was still putting the kids to bed, but had to walk past. I said hello, then my husband says, oh honey, they are just going to come back Sunday after church to explain, since it's better to have us both here to understand everything (wtf!). That's okay right?" Ugggh. Karma. I of course was too chicken to say no, so I said yeah..ok. Get this, my husband doesn't even know what they're selling. He knows it's oils, and only thinks it's doTerra. 😂 That sounds more like a pitch to get you to sign up as a rep than to just buy the product. Ugh!!! I'd be working on a way to get yourselves out of this - like maybe texting them to say you're not interested after all or have to cancel (without rescheduling!). Otherwise you'll be stuck in an awkward situation that's just going to drag this out longer. |
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Post by sunnyd on Aug 7, 2018 4:05:55 GMT
Oh my hell! You have to text them & tell them you are not interested. Your dh obviously can't handle this. Don't let them back in your house!!
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Post by papersilly on Aug 7, 2018 4:07:24 GMT
Run Forrest, run! Every man for himself!
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Post by **GypsyGirl** on Aug 7, 2018 4:11:08 GMT
The way my house is set up, the upstairs has a hall that overlooks the downstairs. I was still putting the kids to bed, but had to walk past. I said hello, then my husband says, oh honey, they are just going to come back Sunday after church to explain, since it's better to have us both here to understand everything (wtf!). That's okay right?" Ugggh. Karma. I of course was too chicken to say no, so I said yeah..ok. Get this, my husband doesn't even know what they're selling. He knows it's oils, and only thinks it's doTerra. 😂 Hey, it's only Monday night. You wait a day or two, then call and cancel out the Sunday appointment saying something has come up (insert calamity of your choice). At least that's what would be happening here. Sundays are sacred around here as to family time. There is no way I'd be letting MLM sales people in my home on a Sunday! You are going to have to nip this pretty soon, otherwise your Dh is going to need an intervention! |
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Post by AmeliaBloomer on Aug 7, 2018 4:14:02 GMT
I was all hepped up, hoping this was going to be like that thread where a Pea lounged on the couch and posted snarky updates while her husband cooked Thanksgiving dinner, but alas, they just pulled you off the damn couch, tied an apron on you, and handed you a turkey baster.
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Post by stacmac on Aug 7, 2018 4:15:50 GMT
I'd just call them some time this week and cancel. Done. I hate mlm and have no problems shutting this stuff down. Don't get me wrong, I'm not rude about it, but I'm firm. My DH would be the same as yours, he just wants to make everyone happy 😁 are you sure he doesn't actually want to sell it?!
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Post by PrettyInPeank on Aug 7, 2018 4:54:25 GMT
I'd just call them some time this week and cancel. Done. I hate mlm and have no problems shutting this stuff down. Don't get me wrong, I'm not rude about it, but I'm firm. My DH would be the same as yours, he just wants to make everyone happy 😁 are you sure he doesn't actually want to sell it?! Oh hell no, never. He sold knives in high school and knows that circus. He's definitely not a sucker, but just tries to be nice. And he wouldn't mind buying a bottle to support a friend. Buuut I told him, with this level of insistence, they aren't trying to sell you a bottle, babe. Which is even more obvious that they brought their (assumed) upline to throw us the pitch. He thinks he's giving them a chance to practice, and maybe help by buying a bottle. I told him he's wasting their time! |
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Post by StephDRebel on Aug 7, 2018 5:47:39 GMT
I can't even.
they brought a stranger into your home? Tell them to piss off immediately. cripes.
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Aug 7, 2018 7:57:38 GMT
"Yes, New-Friend, you can come over on Sunday after church. Just so we're clear on this, I have sold MLMs before and I'm not going to do it again, and there is also nothing we need. However you're more than welcome to practise on us. We have an appointment that we're leaving for at 12. Is that enough time for you?" You are ready to go out when they arrive and at 12 you leave with them. That's cards-on-the-table honesty from you, then you can assess how honest they are in return. Right?
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Post by tuesdaysgone on Aug 7, 2018 9:50:32 GMT
I shouldn't be laughing at your predicament, but this is a fine kettle of fish you find yourself in. Since I hate uncomfortable situations and confrontation of any kind, I'd take the easy way out and text them to firmly cancel any further informational meetings. Good luck and of course you'll be back with a (good) update!
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Post by monklady123 on Aug 7, 2018 11:58:27 GMT
Definitely cancel it this week. And be firm, don't just say "something has come up and we can't have you over on Sunday"... that leaves the door opened for them to respond with "okay, how does Tuesday at 5:00 work? or Wednesday at 6:00? or Thursday at 5:00 or 6:00? etc... Nope, you need to say "thank you, but we are not interested in buying or selling essential oils so please cancel Sunday's visit".
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Post by Deleted on Aug 7, 2018 12:08:40 GMT
If you don't cancel, at least move the pitch session OUT of your home. Meet them for coffee at a busy place where you'd feel bad holding a table for more than 20 mins or so.
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Post by peabay on Aug 7, 2018 13:01:13 GMT
Cancel without a fake excuse: "I'm going to have to cancel this weekend. I'm afraid we'd be leading you on to believe we would purchase or join your downline. We're just not interested. If you'd ever like to get together socially, without discussion of business opportunities, we'd love to." Boom. Done.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 7, 2018 13:09:16 GMT
Want to see how one MLM (diet shakes/pills) coaches their pushers? "Them: “I have lots of kids. Can you just message me?” Me: “Actually, no. We have an awesome coach based system that is personalized to meet your specific goals and budget! How about in the evening when the kids are in bed?" thesupersimplesystem.com/verbiage/ |
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Post by workingclassdog on Aug 7, 2018 13:49:39 GMT
Oh yeah I would be in the phone and saying thanks but no thanks....DH fell into the same trap but it was with a couple of religious people.. DH ordered some free video off the TV.. he said it had to do with family and thought it would be nice... I about fell over.. I immediately told him what that was and I'M NOT going to be the bad guy.. of course what happens two weeks later every single night??? Knock knock on the door... I refused to answer... no way was I getting involved... that lasted about a month before the reps got a clue...
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Post by **GypsyGirl** on Aug 7, 2018 14:09:40 GMT
Cancel without a fake excuse: "I'm going to have to cancel this weekend. I'm afraid we'd be leading you on to believe we would purchase or join your downline. We're just not interested. If you'd ever like to get together socially, without discussion of business opportunities, we'd love to." Boom. Done.  Much better answer than mine last night, which I will blame on wine. |
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Hope they leave him alone after all of that! 
Much better answer than mine last night, which I will blame on wine.