Friends dog passed away, what to say?

Short and simple...if you do want to say more something on the lines We are sorry for your loss, your (name) gave so much love and you gave it back, Priceless, hugs....

Be as compassionate as for any family member. One of my friends was unable to work after the loss of her chicken. Family is family.

I thought it was law to send the rainbow bridge poem

"I'm so sorry for your loss".

I always send a card and I say mostly what I would say to anyone who has suffered a human loss...they are on my mind and I'm sending love and hugs. I add that the owner and pup were so very lucky to have one another and that I hope their memories bring them comfort in the coming days. Just mailed one of these off 2 days ago. Always so very sad.

You're a good friend.

When our sweet 14 year old lab died, someone gave us a prayer flag (http://www.prayersonthewind.com/). I love the thought behind it:

Tibetans believe the prayers of these flags become a permanent part of the universe as the images fade from exposure to the elements and the wind blows through them. Just as life moves on and is replaced by new life, our own healing can begin, our hearts can mend and find room to love another four legged friend. When we send our feelings on the wind we trust nature to turn our memories from sadness to gratitude for having loved and been loved so unconditionally.

We put it up outside our kitchen window and by the time the flag had faded/was time to come down, we had reached that "still sad, but happy with memories" place.

If your friend doesn't have a place to hang a flag up, then saying you are sorry works just as well - just acknowledging the loss is comforting.

We always send flowers. 😢

yup.  four legs or two, fur or feathers, scales or fins, a family member is a family member. 


It's really nice of you to want to recognize her loss and to help her to feel better; a lot of people just can't understand how the loss of a pet can be so devastating. 

I think it's really sweet that you're being so considerate. I think any words of condolences and compassion are very appreciated, it really is the thought that counts.

All the thoughts mentioned above are perfect.  Just that you're thinking of her during this awful time is priceless and will be appreciated.

I know.

The words and thoughts above have even helped me.  I lost my beloved Black Lab, Miller, on Halloween night.  My husband and I are completely devastated and heartbroken.  Our neighbors and best friends are helping us get thru this hour-by-hour.  Even my Yellow Lab, LB, is sooo sad; they were 9 months apart and best friends.  We're trying to control our tears so as to not upset him more than he is.  

You're a good friend and any words or deeds will be remembered forever and deeply appreciated.