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Post by mom on Nov 10, 2018 5:50:14 GMT
The dream where my mom told me to get something checked out? I thought it was for me. But apparently it wasn't. It was for my dad. About the same time I had my dream, my dad found a lump in his arm pit. He showed the doctor but the doctor wrote it off as a side effect of some medicine he was taking. Turns out, it was Breast Cancer. In my dad. Who knew guys could actually get cancer? Especially guys who have no history of breast cancer. (ok, I knew guys could get breast cancer, but I never met a guy with it. Turns out, like 2500 guys a year get it. Who knew? Not me). Anyway, its stage 3 and has spread to his lymph nodes. So, mystery solved. My mom (in my dream) wasn't trying to save me. She was trying to save my dad. Moral of the story -if your guy has a lump, get it checked out. And don't assume its just related to medicine. Because it might not be.
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Post by ~Susan~ on Nov 10, 2018 5:56:33 GMT
My DH had a good friend that had male breast cancer. His was much further along than your dad's. I have also seen men at my cancer clinic. One was fairly young. I would guess late 20s to early 30s.
I'm so sorry you having to deal with this (((hugs)))
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Post by mom on Nov 10, 2018 6:02:07 GMT
My DH had a good friend that had male breast cancer. His was much further along than your dad's. I have also seen men at my cancer clinic. One was fairly young. I would guess late 20s to early 30s. I'm so sorry you having to deal with this (((hugs))) DH and I were talking. We never really knew it was a real possibility that guys get it. I guess I read online (here, probably) about guys getting it but never knew anyone. Guess I am a sort of shock that it really happens. |
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Post by malibou on Nov 10, 2018 6:17:43 GMT
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad's diagnosis. I wish him an excellent medical team and peace to all of you as you navigate this altered life course.
Cancer fucking sucks.
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Post by MaryMary on Nov 10, 2018 6:18:39 GMT
My grandpa had breast cancer. Best wishes to your dad.
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Post by mom on Nov 10, 2018 6:24:13 GMT
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad's diagnosis. I wish him an excellent medical team and peace to all of you as you navigate this altered life course. Cancer fucking sucks.We are just starting this battle and I agree - cancer sucks. |
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Post by Lexica on Nov 10, 2018 6:59:52 GMT
I’m sorry. It still gives me goosebumps to think about your dream. Did you have any that were about your dad close to that one? I am glad they caught it and I hope his treatment is as easy as possible on him and that he is better before you know it.
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Post by KelleeM on Nov 10, 2018 9:48:57 GMT
I hope he has a successful treatment and full recovery.
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Post by christine58 on Nov 10, 2018 10:36:11 GMT
My DH had a good friend that had male breast cancer. His was much further along than your dad's. I have also seen men at my cancer clinic. One was fairly young. I would guess late 20s to early 30s. I'm so sorry you having to deal with this (((hugs))) DH and I were talking. We never really knew it was a real possibility that guys get it. I guess I read online (here, probably) about guys getting it but never knew anyone. Guess I am a sort of shock that it really happens. A dear friend's dad and sister both had Breast Cancer before she was diagnosed. They went through some testing also...she unfortunately died but her dad and sister are fine after treatment. |
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Post by sunshine on Nov 10, 2018 12:33:17 GMT
I'm so sorry. Best wishes for a successful treatment.
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Post by mikklynn on Nov 10, 2018 13:21:39 GMT
I'm sorry about your dad. I wish him good health in the future!
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Nov 10, 2018 14:06:25 GMT
May his treatment go well.
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Post by librarylady on Nov 10, 2018 14:09:11 GMT
I hope it turns out well for your father.
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Post by destined2bmom on Nov 10, 2018 14:30:19 GMT
I am so sorry that your dad has breast cancer. But wow, talk about eternal love; it is amazing that your mom warned you to save him.
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Post by mom22grlz on Nov 10, 2018 15:09:27 GMT
I missed your first post, but that gave me chills! I’m so sorry your father has cancer. Cancer sucks. Prayers 🙏
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Post by marimoose on Nov 10, 2018 15:09:41 GMT
First - I wish your Dad well and the treatment takes care of everything. Thank goodness he got checked out. One of the male characters on the show A Million Little Things is dealing with breast cancer and I like how it is raising awareness of breast cancer in men.
My brother thought he might have had breast cancer many years ago and went to the doctor for a lump. After checking him out it was determined that no, he did not have breast cancer BUT it turns out he had testicular cancer. What were the odds of that? His being proactive about one lump ended up saving his life anyhow.
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Post by hutchfan on Nov 10, 2018 15:11:05 GMT
I am so sorry to hear about your dad's diagnosis, I will be praying.
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Post by cadoodlebug on Nov 10, 2018 15:32:55 GMT
Wishing your dad well fighting this insidious disease. Hugs to you.
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Post by kate on Nov 10, 2018 16:55:40 GMT
I'm so sorry. I have heard of male breast cancer - a colleague's dad had it.
I hope his treatment is smooth and successful.
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Post by PrettyInPeank on Nov 10, 2018 17:08:58 GMT
Wishing your dad the best as he kicks cancer's butt. Hugs!
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Post by melissa on Nov 10, 2018 17:45:32 GMT
Wow! So glad he persisted!
Male breast cancer, as you already know, is quite uncommon. There just are not enough data points but there are some that believe that hereditary genetic mutations may be higher in that population. Something worth discussing as it would have implications for you and other family members. Highly recommended if there is a history of breast cancer or even certain other cancers on his side of the family.
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Post by miominmio on Nov 10, 2018 18:19:55 GMT
Wishing your dad all the best. Cancer is a terrible disease.
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Post by quinlove on Nov 10, 2018 18:48:14 GMT
One of the male characters on A Million Little Things has/ had breast cancer. I thought it was a great idea to bring this to everyone’s attention in this way. Wishing your dad the very best.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Nov 10, 2018 18:48:32 GMT
Prayers for you and your dad.
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Post by AngieandSnoopy on Nov 11, 2018 0:52:05 GMT
I very slightly knew of a married couple where BOTH had breast cancer. He got it first. Their youngest son worked as a summer intern where I was working at the time.
I hope your dad has a good recovery.
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Post by ModChick on Nov 11, 2018 1:22:22 GMT
Oh my gosh, I remember that dream post. Prayers said for your dad and a thank you to your angel of a mom for sending you a message. I hope your dad makes a swift recovery.
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Post by alexa11 on Nov 11, 2018 1:30:42 GMT
I wish your dad well as he goes through this. Sending prayers for you and your family.
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Post by mom on Nov 11, 2018 1:34:30 GMT
Wow! So glad he persisted! Male breast cancer, as you already know, is quite uncommon. There just are not enough data points but there are some that believe that hereditary genetic mutations may be higher in that population. Something worth discussing as it would have implications for you and other family members. Highly recommended if there is a history of breast cancer or even certain other cancers on his side of the family. When my dad was telling his doctor about his family history (2 brothers had prostate cancer before age 50) - the doctor was surprised no one had encouraged my dad to get genetic testing done. Anyway, he is going to get genetic testing and me + my siblings will as well. |
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Post by anniefb on Nov 11, 2018 1:35:40 GMT
So sorry your dad is dealing with cancer. Sending prayers to you all.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Nov 11, 2018 1:37:41 GMT
I’m glad it was caught and hope that your dad has a good outcome. How freaky though!
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