Tearisci
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Post by Tearisci on Feb 21, 2019 14:46:07 GMT
Hi Ladies-
I'm really struggling and need some of that good pea support. I start radiation for breast cancer today which is scary but I'm also going through a divorce that has turned very nasty and i'm starting on a new antidepressant because I've had some "scares" due to stress over the last few weeks.
I just feel like this is just too much for one person to go through at once, not to mention one who is sick and has been fighting cancer for 6 months.
If you have a good though to spare today, please send it my way. I could really use it.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 21, 2019 14:48:26 GMT
 sending you so many good thoughts. |
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ashley
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Post by ashley on Feb 21, 2019 14:48:59 GMT
That IS too much for any one person to deal with... but the good news is that you ARE doing it, and doing an amazing job, and you’re not alone because you’re a Pea.  |
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Post by malibou on Feb 21, 2019 14:50:14 GMT
I've got you tucked up in my safest warmest thoughts while you start your radiation today.
So very sorry your marriage is falling apart just as you could have used a partner that took the whole in sickness and in health seriously.
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Post by jenjie on Feb 21, 2019 14:50:25 GMT
That’s a lot. Of course you’re feeling overwhelmed. Praying for you. Hugs
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Post by quinlove on Feb 21, 2019 14:51:40 GMT
That IS too much for any one person to deal with... but the good news is that you ARE doing it, and doing an amazing job, and you’re not alone because you’re a Pea.  Excellent post. You are NOT alone. Someone (everyone) is always here to give you support and love. |
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Post by crazy4scraps on Feb 21, 2019 14:52:15 GMT
Sending all kinds of hugs your way today. You can do this even though it’s hard. Hang in there!
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Post by Blind Squirrel on Feb 21, 2019 14:54:18 GMT
Sending warm thoughts and prayers your way.
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Post by originalvanillabean on Feb 21, 2019 14:54:38 GMT
(((HUGS)))
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scrappert
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Post by scrappert on Feb 21, 2019 14:57:15 GMT
Many prayers to you. I can't imagine the stress and anxiety that you have at this time. Each of those situations are hard on their own, and you have to deal with both at the same time.
Just know the soon to be X is an ass. I think we can all agree with that. Don't let him dictate how you handle things!
Hang in there, there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
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Post by compeateropeator on Feb 21, 2019 14:57:19 GMT
I am so sorry things are tough. That is a lot to have on your plate, especially when you need to stay positive as you continue your treatment.
It is a good thing that the human spirit can be pretty resilient. Hopefully you will soon be looking at all of these difficulties and sadness from your rear view mirror as you move forward to health and happiness.
Sending you big hugs and positive thoughts. Be gentle with yourself.
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Post by Monica* on Feb 21, 2019 14:58:14 GMT
Thinking of you sweet girl. I will include you in my nightly prayers. Find ways to distract. Stay busy. Lean on your faith. Do some retail therapy! You are loved.
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Post by KelleeM on Feb 21, 2019 15:10:14 GMT
Gentle hugs. I’ve been through the cancer battle but not in your current situation. If you need to “talk” please message me. I’ll gladly give you my phone number. ♥️
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Post by trollie on Feb 21, 2019 15:17:58 GMT
Sending you hugs and good thoughts. Sorry your ex is being a giant dick. You are strong.
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Post by canadianscrappergirl on Feb 21, 2019 15:18:23 GMT
I'm so sorry that's a lot to go thru! Sending good thoughts and vibes your way!
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used2scrap
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Post by used2scrap on Feb 21, 2019 15:20:21 GMT
I’m sorry you are going through so much at one time. Be extra gentle with yourself!
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Post by Deleted on Feb 21, 2019 15:20:46 GMT
sending positive thoughts and healing light your way.
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Post by alexa11 on Feb 21, 2019 15:20:52 GMT
I'm so sorry. |
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Post by gar on Feb 21, 2019 15:22:00 GMT
That IS too much for any one person to deal with... but the good news is that you ARE doing it, and doing an amazing job, and you’re not alone because you’re a Pea. Wise words. Do you have anyone irl to offload to? I hope you have a friend or relative or work colleague who will be a shoulder for you too. |
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Post by Crack-a-lackin on Feb 21, 2019 15:25:38 GMT
That is a lot for one person to handle! I believe you can do it though. One day at a time, one problem at a time. Sending you hugs and good thoughts. The peas are always here for you, no matter what.
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Post by KikiPea on Feb 21, 2019 15:27:33 GMT
You've got 'em!
Prayers for peace, strength and complete healing.
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Post by **GypsyGirl** on Feb 21, 2019 15:27:33 GMT
Hugs to you as you walk this rocky section of the road that is life. You are stronger than you give yourself credit for. Keep reaching out to us because we are here for you.
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Tearisci
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Post by Tearisci on Feb 21, 2019 15:27:54 GMT
That IS too much for any one person to deal with... but the good news is that you ARE doing it, and doing an amazing job, and you’re not alone because you’re a Pea. Wise words. Do you have anyone irl to offload to? I hope you have a friend or relative or work colleague who will be a shoulder for you too. I do have a super supportive family but I feel like they're tired of this battle too. It's just been hell and they've been by my side. I am trying to give them a break for a bit and I know the peas have been through everything and are always so supportive so today you get my vents. Thank you for all of your kind messages. I will carry them with me today. |
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Post by refupea on Feb 21, 2019 15:30:28 GMT
Good for you for reaching out to us here! I am sorry you have so much to deal with right now. First thing and most importantly is YOU! You go show that radiation who is boss!!!!
I hate hearing that this is happening on top of a divorce that is turning nasty. Please try your best to not let him get to you. WAY easier said than done, but don't give him that power! YOU are what matters! Your health is depending on your strength and peace right now.
I am happy to chat if you ever need or want to. Feel free to message me anytime.
I will be praying for you and wishing you my absolute best today!!!!
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Post by jenb72 on Feb 21, 2019 15:30:43 GMT
Lots of hugs and good thoughts. I'm sure it doesn't feel like it but you can get through this. I'm sorry you're dealing with so much at one time when you should just be focused on healing.
Jen
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Post by peano on Feb 21, 2019 15:31:36 GMT
Wow, you do have a lot on your plate right now. Sending some positive healing thoughts your way.
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PrettyInPeank
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Post by PrettyInPeank on Feb 21, 2019 15:33:37 GMT
I wish I could give you a huge hug. I'm so sorry you're dealing with all of this. Best best of luck at your appointment today.
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tincin
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Post by tincin on Feb 21, 2019 15:34:55 GMT
Sending positive thoughts and good vibrations your way. Which means The Beach Boys will be in my head all day now. 😀. Good luck.
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Post by NanaKate on Feb 21, 2019 15:36:33 GMT
I’m so sorry. Wishing you all the best in the days ahead!
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Post by mikklynn on Feb 21, 2019 15:38:24 GMT
Sending a ton of love your way, Tearisci . You are so right, it's too much for one person. But, you CAN do this. You are wise enough to have sought professional help. That says a lot about you! If you have friends or family who have offered help, please take it. Let someone drive you or bring you a coffee. Whatever - people want to help. |
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