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Post by scissorsister7 on Oct 3, 2014 14:05:43 GMT
I work at home doing transcription for court reporters. I constantly have people asking me to tell my boss they want to do what I do. It usually goes like this, "Would you give my name and number (or resume) to your boss so I can do that kind of work too?" Um, hello?! First of all that would be giving my job away and I'm not going to do that. And secondly I don't even know if the person has any type of experience doing this kind of work. I usually just laugh and try to change the subject because I'm not interested in giving my job away. Do you have any suggestions for good responses to this question without coming across as being rude?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2014 14:08:51 GMT
Tell them that you'd love to, but the only opening they'd have would be yours - when you quit/retire. And your'e not ready to do that yet. (Said with a great big smile, of course.)
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Post by turangaleela on Oct 3, 2014 14:11:01 GMT
When I used to work from home (medical transcription) I got this sort of thing a lot, too. People acted like the job just fell on me, without any skill or investment of my own, and that they deserved something like it, too. Oh, and like it could be done with babies or small children without needing a babysitter. Drove me nuts.
I think I usually answered with something like "It took a while to get to this point", basically trying to say that you need to FIND a job like that, it takes some effort.
Grrrr, now I'm remembering how irritated it used to make me.
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Post by sisterbdsq on Oct 3, 2014 14:13:47 GMT
We're currently not looking for more people, sorry.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2014 14:17:43 GMT
Well we are almost always hiring so I give them the info. But it's amazing to me what people think I can do while I'm working at home. No I can't do laundry and cook, etc. I'm on the phone my whole shift and can't just walk away.
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Post by Country Ham on Oct 3, 2014 14:20:56 GMT
How is that any different that any other work place? It is difficult to find a good work at home job. What a better way to find one then with the help a friend already doing one. It's really no different then working outside the home and dropping off a resume for a friend, or putting in a good word etc. People treat their jobs like an exclusive club. How would it be giving your job away to give your friend the contact information for your employer? Either they need another at home transcription person or they don't. Or giving your boss her name/number. It's not your job to determine if she is qualified. Some offer on the job training as well.
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Post by scissorsister7 on Oct 3, 2014 14:31:35 GMT
How is that any different that any other work place? It is difficult to find a good work at home job. What a better way to find one then with the help a friend already doing one. It's really no different then working outside the home and dropping off a resume for a friend, or putting in a good word etc. People treat their jobs like an exclusive club. How would it be giving your job away to give your friend the contact information for your employer? Either they need another at home transcription person or they don't. Or giving your boss her name/number. It's not your job to determine if she is qualified. Some offer on the job training as well. I will say it is different because when I worked outside the home in a law office I NEVER once in fifteen years had anyone ask me if I could get them a job where I worked. I seem to get that question now every single time I get asked what I do. My job is not an exclusive club but I know the lady that owns the service I work for and I know that she is not hiring. I just don't understand why people seem to ask me about getting a job like mine all the time now when they never did before.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2014 14:32:36 GMT
If you have a job in a desirable place you are going to get it. I just direct people to our hiring site so they can see if there is a job opening. Then they can apply through the proper channels. Our hr isn't going to take a resume from me on behalf of someone else. I just explain that little fact to them and point them in the right direction to send in their application themselves.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2014 14:38:33 GMT
Working at home is desirable. Not sure why that is hard to understand. Although it isn't a cake walk like so many think. 
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Post by mtscrapper on Oct 3, 2014 14:39:44 GMT
I get it. I am a medical transcriptionist. It doesn't happen much anymore because I have been doing this a long time and my friends all know that it takes a lot of work.
The type of people that have asked me in the past about it think they can do this as a way to make a little extra money when their kids are sleeping. They don't understand that I had to have a lot of training and then pass tests before a company would even consider me. Sure, I could give them my company's information, but without the proper training, they would not get past the initial test. I got my job from my own work, not as a favor from any friend. I definitely asked questions along the way in my training and when I was ready about which companies to apply at, but I am not about to "put in a good word" without knowing if the person actually has experience in my area.
Usually what happens when people ask what I do and how I got to where I am, most lose interest really fast and realize it isn't the dream job they thought it would be.
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Post by scissorsister7 on Oct 3, 2014 14:46:45 GMT
Working at home is desirable. Not sure why that is hard to understand. Although it isn't a cake walk like so many think.  Maybe I should put more emphasis on the fact that it isn't a cake walk. Like the fact that I had to work all day Monday and then through the night until Tuesday 3am to meet a federal court deadline. Then I had to get up at 6am to get my little one ready for school and then go to a special education meeting for her at 9am. It was not a cake walk at all to say the least. Or maybe I should let them know that the work is not consistent at all and for the whole month of June I made $34.  And I'm not complaining at all about my job. I feel very blessed to have the job I have and be able to do things like go to special ed. meetings and take my little one to her doctor and therapy appointments. I just find it very strange that people I don't really know well at all will ask me to get them a job without even knowing what my job entails.
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Post by iowgirl on Oct 3, 2014 14:49:07 GMT
I farm with my husband. So there are times of the year where I actually am not doing that much (if you don't count laundry, accounting, cooking, housekeeping, etc. LOL).
But the fact that I can work during busy times saves us at least $50K a year in hired wages, not to mention other expenses involved with hired labor. Plus I don't tear things up because I own the equipment! And I don't quit right in the middle of the busiest time of the year (I wish!)
But I get that a lot. "Oh I wish I could stay home like you...." I said I would give them a call when it was 12 degrees and we are castrating calves. Or when it is 102 and I am in the timber fixing fence.
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Post by BeckyTech on Oct 3, 2014 15:02:18 GMT
Tell them it requires the person have legal office experience. (I'd bet it probably does.) Or as a PP said, tell them they aren't hiring, and the boss doesn't take resumes to "keep on file."
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Post by eebud on Oct 3, 2014 15:29:55 GMT
I am asked frequently about what I do by people who would like to work from home. My company requires a degree to be hired to do what I do so not everyone is going to qualify. Then there is the issue that not everyone gets to work from home and in fact, they have a push to get people back in the office. None of my work team is local; therefore, so far, I have been able to continue to work from home. If I go into the office, I will still be working by myself and using instant message and the phone to work with my teammates. I usually tell people that want to work from home that they should try to find a job that can be done from any location. Work from the office for a while to prove their work and then talk with their management to see if they can try work from home.........maybe starting part time at home, part time in the office. There are positions that are specifically work from home like what Scrappower does but most of the work from home people I know used to work in the office and moved their job home.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2014 15:35:26 GMT
I am asked frequently about what I do by people who would like to work from home. My company requires a degree to be hired to do what I do so not everyone is going to qualify. Then there is the issue that not everyone gets to work from home and in fact, they have a push to get people back in the office. None of my work team is local; therefore, so far, I have been able to continue to work from home. If I go into the office, I will still be working by myself and using instant message and the phone to work with my teammates. I usually tell people that want to work from home that they should try to find a job that can be done from any location. Work from the office for a while to prove their work and then talk with their management to see if they can try work from home.........maybe starting part time at home, part time in the office. There are positions that are specifically work from home like what Scrappower does but most of the work from home people I know used to work in the office and moved their job home. Actually my job was all in house too not long ago. There still are a few. But now they are moving everyone at home. It is actually more expensive to do so but it gets more people to hire and expands the area of where people apple from. They are going to be moving more and more remotely too as time goes on. Including managers and supervisors. We still go in house from time to time. But not often. We actually have some in Tennessee and Virginia that are now completely at home. No facility at all.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2014 15:40:34 GMT
I think asking about doing your job because you work at home is like saying to someone who is a travel writer - oh! I want to work where you do because I love to travel. That's great and all, but do you know how to write? Because that's the actual job.
It's not an exclusive club, but some folks don't understand that working from home is just a *way* of working; you still have to have actual skills and qualify for a job.
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Post by scrapsotime on Oct 3, 2014 15:41:01 GMT
I'm an independent contractor. Once I explain how that works people usually aren't so interested anymore.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Oct 3, 2014 16:08:12 GMT
I can relate. I used to get that a LOT when I owned my LSS. Many people seemed to think all I did was sit around and make scrapbook pages all day, when in fact I was working my butt off 70 hours a week running a retail BUSINESS. Anyone who hasn't ever worked in retail management (or retail in general) didn't understand what the "job" entailed, and once I explained everything I needed to do every week--and for considerably less than minimum wage, it didn't seem quite so fun anymore. Now that I work from home, I almost never see anyone so almost no one asks. And on the rare occasion when they do ask, I just tell them I'm a designer. Most people don't believe they have the skills to do what I do (and they're probably right).
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Post by compwalla on Oct 3, 2014 16:25:46 GMT
I think there are a lot of misconceptions about working at home. Just because I work from my house doesn't mean, for example, that I didn't need daycare. There is no way I could work and take care of a baby or toddler at the same time so before my youngest started school he did go to daycare every day. That is probably the biggest misconception I ran up against - that WFH meant no daycare expenses. Not for this kind of job.
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Post by eebud on Oct 3, 2014 16:48:46 GMT
I am asked frequently about what I do by people who would like to work from home. My company requires a degree to be hired to do what I do so not everyone is going to qualify. Then there is the issue that not everyone gets to work from home and in fact, they have a push to get people back in the office. None of my work team is local; therefore, so far, I have been able to continue to work from home. If I go into the office, I will still be working by myself and using instant message and the phone to work with my teammates. I usually tell people that want to work from home that they should try to find a job that can be done from any location. Work from the office for a while to prove their work and then talk with their management to see if they can try work from home.........maybe starting part time at home, part time in the office. There are positions that are specifically work from home like what Scrappower does but most of the work from home people I know used to work in the office and moved their job home. Actually my job was all in house too not long ago. There still are a few. But now they are moving everyone at home. It is actually more expensive to do so but it gets more people to hire and expands the area of where people apple from. They are going to be moving more and more remotely too as time goes on. Including managers and supervisors. We still go in house from time to time. But not often. We actually have some in Tennessee and Virginia that are now completely at home. No facility at all. That makes sense that at one time this was all in house. There are some jobs that can move to homes much easier than others. I always tell people that if my job can be done from India, China, Mexico, etc. then surely it can be done from my home. LOL I am curious.........for future inquires..........does your company hire work from home people in only specific states? I believe you are in Florida and you mentioned Tennessee and Virginia. Are they sticking to these states for now?
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Post by eebud on Oct 3, 2014 16:53:12 GMT
I think there are a lot of misconceptions about working at home. Just because I work from my house doesn't mean, for example, that I didn't need daycare. There is no way I could work and take care of a baby or toddler at the same time so before my youngest started school he did go to daycare every day. That is probably the biggest misconception I ran up against - that WFH meant no daycare expenses. Not for this kind of job. I have only had dogs at home since I have been work from home and heck, even they can be a bit demanding. LOL I definitely could not do this with children here. I have, on very rare occasion, helped out and kept grandkids for a short time like a doctor appointment, but even those have to be planned ahead so I make sure I don't have meetings or anything else at that time because I know I will get little to no work done. Once DSS got in a bind and needed all day care for a young grandchild that is wonderful but is a bit of a handful. He requires all of my attention. I had to say no. I had a deadline to meet that day and there was no way I could work and have DGS here all day too. I did help him seek out other care for the day but I couldn't do it. Luckily, DSS did understand. He felt bad even asking and he wouldn't have asked if he had not been in a bind.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2014 16:58:44 GMT
Actually my job was all in house too not long ago. There still are a few. But now they are moving everyone at home. It is actually more expensive to do so but it gets more people to hire and expands the area of where people apple from. They are going to be moving more and more remotely too as time goes on. Including managers and supervisors. We still go in house from time to time. But not often. We actually have some in Tennessee and Virginia that are now completely at home. No facility at all. That makes sense that at one time this was all in house. There are some jobs that can move to homes much easier than others. I always tell people that if my job can be done from India, China, Mexico, etc. then surely it can be done from my home. LOL I am curious.........for future inquires..........does your company hire work from home people in only specific states? I believe you are in Florida and you mentioned Tennessee and Virginia. Are they sticking to these states for now? Yes only those states. And actually it is specific areas. Roanoke, Virginia, Nashville, Tennessee and then only the 727 and 813 area codes in Florida. We do have warehouses and other places in other states but those are the only WAH for now.
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Post by sincity2003 on Oct 3, 2014 17:02:50 GMT
Yes, all the time! Used to be a transcriptionist...I actually trained two close friends to do what I did..and we aren't that close anymore because of it. I know work at home for another company where I'm on salary, but I had to work in the office for nearly a year before I was cleared to come home to work. My current company is not hiring (heck, they lay off once a month it seems, I've made it through 13 rounds of layoffs now), so it's easier to say nope, can't help you.
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Post by perumbula on Oct 3, 2014 17:22:50 GMT
I haven't gotten it yet, mostly because my friends are all happy with what they do. I have considered giving up my WAH job to go in somewhere because my home job is almost exclusively swing shift hours. It is really hard to get my family to adjust to the idea that dinner time means mom's working. I'm sitting right there in the family room after all (I'm ok to work with standard family distractions. i don't need an office with a door that shuts.) It's been the hardest for my husband. For 20 years, dinner has been my job. Now I need him to step up and help out there nearly every day. We're trying to work out a system that works for both of us, but it's still rocky.
It doesn't help that this week between both my part time jobs, I'm going to have worked nearly 50 hours and my family still treats me like the SAHM with all the same responsibilities and expectations. sigh.
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Post by scissorsister7 on Oct 3, 2014 18:31:37 GMT
It's not an exclusive club, but some folks don't understand that working from home is just a *way* of working; you still have to have actual skills and qualify for a job. Yes that is true it is not an exclusive club. And I worked for plenty of years in an office with the long commute and daycare costs, etc. So I've done my time in that way too. I get a lot of comments like it must be nice to be able to get paid while you get all your housework done. Well, if I'm doing housework I'm not working so I'm not getting paid.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2014 18:39:16 GMT
I did transcription at home after many, many years in a law firm specializing in medical malpractice defense and after completing several classes specifically for medical transcription, anatomy, medical terminology, etc. Even then, I was lucky to get a well paying, consistent gig at home without first putting in time at a clinic or hospital setting.
I think "transcription" is one of the most misunderstood work at home fields that there is because people seem to simply think if they can type that they can transcribe. That doesn't even get into the unrealistic expectations that they will be able to put in a few hours during the day while their little darlings are napping or playing quietly . . .
It was a good deal for me because I had a daughter in high school and a husband who worked the overnight shift, so I was able to transcribe in the evening and overnight while he worked and she slept or did homework, etc., but then I had to play catch up on my sleep during the day - almost always to be interrupted with a call for some emergency transcription job that was needed right away. I actually had less time for social interaction and free time working at home than I ever had working full time outside of the house.
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Post by Country Ham on Oct 3, 2014 18:44:11 GMT
Yes but all the person did was ask for a job recommendation. Maybe they have a good idea of the work involved. Maybe they don't. They might know the exact amount of info you all did before you started your work at home careers. I still don't see the harm in passing on a name, or better giving your friend the contact info and letting them pursue it further.
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Post by cmpeter on Oct 3, 2014 19:12:40 GMT
My friends/family who work for Microsoft and Amazon get that all the time. Especially my SIL as she is in the HR department. They all work in the office though.
I WAH for a large financial services company and very rarely get asked about job opportunities. I think it's because folks know my job is really based out of NY and Microsoft and Amazon are local.
I don't begrudge anyone attempting to network or learn about various job opportunities...that could easily be anyone of us at some point.
I would just refer those that ask to the hr or corporate jobs page. Tell them you don't have any special pull or in when it comes to hiring.
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