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Post by disneypal on Jul 12, 2019 22:18:29 GMT
Like dude if your ‘deal’ is such a private deal go to a private place to dis use it. Fuck off you don’t get to tell me what to do. Who the hell died and left you boss of me? For real - I have been in similar situations and I wish I had the nerve to say things like this - say what I really want to say but since there are so many crazies out there, you never know what they will do back to you. What a jerk!
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Post by lesserknownpea on Jul 14, 2019 8:04:28 GMT
“You’re just loud, you’re not interesting.”
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Post by scrapmaven on Jul 14, 2019 18:19:56 GMT
Ya. I would have told him to take his conversation elsewhere. What an asshole.
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Post by monklady123 on Jul 14, 2019 18:23:24 GMT
So I’m doing my work in a local coffee shop. A shop open to the public. I’m here minding my own business doing my work. 2 guys came in and sat behind me, talking loudly about their business. I continue to do my work. Mind my own business. There was a semi loud sound outside the shop so I turned around to look out the window to see if it was an accident. It wasn’t. Don’t know what it was but I’m not the only person who looked. The guy behind me starts yelling at me: “I thought you had headphones in. Go put head phones in & stop listening to private conversations blah blah blah. ( mind you he’s right behind me talking so loud that I’d still hear him if I did have my head phones in ) I wasn’t really listening btw just loud background noise. Like dude if your ‘deal’ is such a private deal go to a private place to dis use it. Fuck off you don’t get to tell me what to do. Who the hell died and left you boss of me? Some people have such weird expectations of other people. What an asshole I did not respond. I just gave him my best ( worst ) mom look & went back to my work. That would have encouraged me to pointedly take OFF my headphones as I continued with my work.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Jul 14, 2019 18:39:28 GMT
I had a similar thing happen a few weeks ago. A couple of ladies came into the coffee shop where I was working on vacation planning. They sat behind me and proceeded to discuss the affair one of them was having. They were sooo loud about it that everyone could hear. When the door to the coffee shop opened a gust of wind blew my napkin to the floor next to them. I turned and reached down to retrieve it and one of the ladies said, WTF, are you listening to us? Feeling a bit spicey, I replied super quietly, Everyone is listening to you because you are loud as fuck and by the way, I know your husband. The look on her face as she stammered and called me all sorts of things, very loudly, was awesome! She even included a rant about how could I know her husband because I was way too old to be his type. The shop owner came over and asked them to leave, and she really lost it. As she passed me she yelled, I hope you enjoy his needle dick. I just laughed, and said, That explains what he said about you. I have no idea who this woman's husband is, I just felt like fucking with the obnoxious bitch and she played right into it. The whole coffee shop erupted in laughter as she stormed out and I explained that I had no clue who she or her husband were. I am over people who think they are the only person that matters. You, ma’am, are a fucking hero. This is God’s work right here.
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Post by maryland on Jul 15, 2019 0:24:56 GMT
I would have been hard pressed not to tell him to mind his own business and fuck off. I almost hate going out to eat anymore it seems like there's always an asshole or more at a table who have to talk above everyone else. No one cares how their loud conversations are interrupting others around them. It's become such a me society! I took my GD to the Calgary Stampede and we were waiting in line for a ride had been for about 5 minutes, I was just standing with her until she got on and this guy about 25 cuts in front of us and my GD who is 9 points it out to me. I said just try to ignore him but then he waves to his group of 4 friends and GF to join him. She does but the others are like it's ok we'll stay here. I said excuse me but you cut in front of us and that's not cool and now you're trying to get your group to cut in front of a 9 yr old that's an asshole move! The GF is staring daggers at me LOL. He says it's not a big deal I said really wow aren't you a prize cutting in front of a bunch kids. Wait your turn like everybody else is. He says fine I'll go back with his friends in a indignant tone like he's doing me a fucking favor and then says sorry and I think you owe me an apology. I owe you an apology for what calling out your asshole behavior in front of your GF and friendsyeah not going to happen I said. He mumbles under his breath how rude I was yeah oookay! That would have made me really mad! We are trying to teach our kids to follow the rules and be good people, and then they see someone do that. I am old enough now that I call people on behavior like that if it involves me. It drives my teen daughters crazy, they would rather people walk all over them then "cause a scene".
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Post by canadianscrappergirl on Jul 15, 2019 0:34:27 GMT
I would have been hard pressed not to tell him to mind his own business and fuck off. I almost hate going out to eat anymore it seems like there's always an asshole or more at a table who have to talk above everyone else. No one cares how their loud conversations are interrupting others around them. It's become such a me society! I took my GD to the Calgary Stampede and we were waiting in line for a ride had been for about 5 minutes, I was just standing with her until she got on and this guy about 25 cuts in front of us and my GD who is 9 points it out to me. I said just try to ignore him but then he waves to his group of 4 friends and GF to join him. She does but the others are like it's ok we'll stay here. I said excuse me but you cut in front of us and that's not cool and now you're trying to get your group to cut in front of a 9 yr old that's an asshole move! The GF is staring daggers at me LOL. He says it's not a big deal I said really wow aren't you a prize cutting in front of a bunch kids. Wait your turn like everybody else is. He says fine I'll go back with his friends in a indignant tone like he's doing me a fucking favor and then says sorry and I think you owe me an apology. I owe you an apology for what calling out your asshole behavior in front of your GF and friendsyeah not going to happen I said. He mumbles under his breath how rude I was yeah oookay! That would have made me really mad! We are trying to teach our kids to follow the rules and be good people, and then they see someone do that. I am old enough now that I call people on behavior like that if it involves me. It drives my teen daughters crazy, they would rather people walk all over them then "cause a scene". OMG that's my kids and husband!! Me I call a douche bag a douche when I encounter one LOL, my kids and husband get taken advantage of all the time too.
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Post by alexa11 on Jul 15, 2019 0:38:37 GMT
That is just crazy! Some people are just rude AND stupid.
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Post by maryland on Jul 15, 2019 2:20:15 GMT
That would have made me really mad! We are trying to teach our kids to follow the rules and be good people, and then they see someone do that. I am old enough now that I call people on behavior like that if it involves me. It drives my teen daughters crazy, they would rather people walk all over them then "cause a scene". OMG that's my kids and husband!! Me I call a douche bag a douche when I encounter one LOL, my kids and husband get taken advantage of all the time too. I'm glad I'm not alone! we were pulling into a rest stop today and a car wasn't even paying attention and kept backing towards us. I kept telling him to blow the horn before they hit us. He likes to yell at other drivers, but does nothing to alert them to their bad behavior. Now of course they call me out on anything that I do that they don't like! haha!
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Post by grate on Jul 15, 2019 3:04:47 GMT
people!
I live near the ocean and a lot of the houses around me are rented in the summer or the owners are summer people. vacationers undoubtedly start their exercise early in the am. We like to sleep with the windows open when it is not too hot, to have the breeze and hear the waves. We have had to stop because of the people exercising with friends.
One time two friends walked each day of the week and were up the street walking towards us by roughly 545, we started hearing them from many doors down. So by Thursday I had enough and once I heard them I went downstairs in my pjs and waited at the end of my driveway. I told them that there were people who worked and that they have woken us each morning by talking so loud and could they please speak softer. They said "we do not, how do you know it is us?" I said because one of you lost their job and the other is getting a divorce, their faces dropped and they just started walking again, I did not hear them the rest of the week.
I know that people have the right to chat while exercising but a little common courtesy would be nice.
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