MaryMary
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Post by MaryMary on Jul 20, 2019 0:16:12 GMT
I asked for a divorce in October and then skipped my monthly cycles until February. Now I haven’t had a period since then (Feb) and my PCP said that the stress might have sent me into menopause. Which sounded great to me. But I saw my OB/GYN and she thinks I am not ovulating due to stress but I’m still building up a uterine lining and so when I finally do start it’s going to be the period from hell and could last a month. Goodie.
Additional info: I’m 44, my mom went through menopause in her 50s.
Anyone have experience with this?
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Jul 20, 2019 0:19:21 GMT
I’m sorry—that sucks!
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Post by J u l e e on Jul 20, 2019 0:26:54 GMT
Yes! Because I generally shed weight during times of stress, my period just stops. Only once has it been for as long a time as you're experiencing now. When it did start again it was heavy, bit not a month's worth.
Hugs, Mary. Stress sucks so bad. I'm so sorry you're going through this.
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Post by katybee on Jul 20, 2019 0:28:09 GMT
I’ve skipped the odd period here and there due to stress, but never more than one in a row. I recently went 5 months! But I AM perimenopausal, so that made sense. Unfortunately, I got it again last month, and it was a doozie!
Have you lost weight? My SIL skips periods when she loses too much weight (I wouldn’t know what that’s like).
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Post by scrapngranny on Jul 20, 2019 1:17:59 GMT
Can they give you something to force a period? I never stopped having periods because of stress (those cute babies turn into teenagers), but as I got older my periods got really heavy before they stopped.
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Post by refugeepea on Jul 20, 2019 1:19:32 GMT
I would get an IUD before the period from hell begins. I've had one for over 10 years and my periods are non existent.
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Post by rickmer on Jul 20, 2019 1:22:58 GMT
hmmm. unfortunately not. i have been under immense stress for a year and half. i am 48 but that lovely gift of woman-dom shows up every month, without fail.  but separate from that, i am sorry you are going thru a hard time. (((hugs)))
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Jul 20, 2019 1:26:07 GMT
Longest for me was 16 months. I ended up having a D&C because of it.
Longest period (super heavy too) lasted 2 months solid.
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Post by MaryMary on Jul 20, 2019 1:36:01 GMT
I’ve lost a little bit of weight since October, but at the most only a pound or two. My weight has stayed pretty steady. And I’m not underweight, I probably could stand to lose 10 more pounds, to be honest.
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Post by MaryMary on Jul 20, 2019 1:44:07 GMT
And she’s giving me some progesterone to take. She said if I am in menopause, nothing will happen and if I am not, I will start bleeding.
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Post by MaryMary on Jul 20, 2019 3:24:47 GMT
Longest for me was 16 months. I ended up having a D&C because of it. Longest period (super heavy too) lasted 2 months solid. Oh yikes. That sounds ghastly.
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Post by SallyPA on Jul 20, 2019 5:06:15 GMT
Did you have any bloodwork done?
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Post by dewryce on Jul 20, 2019 5:17:04 GMT
And she’s giving me some progesterone to take. She said if I am in menopause, nothing will happen and if I am not, I will start bleeding. Not to argue with your doctor, but progesterone hasn’t always started my periods and I’m still not in menopause. I have used it in my 30s into my mid 40s and it seems random when it helps and when it doesn’t. I’ve gone over a year without my cycle before, medical issues rather than stress related. The term crime scene periods is quite apt when it finally comes. Some things that help me: always carrying supplies and an extra pair of undies in my car, cheap mattress pad under my sheets over my expensive mattress pad in the region of my hooha at all times (they move over the sheets) and always radiant overnight pads with flex foam and a heavy tampon. I vow that one day I will have nice sheets again.
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Post by bothmykidsrbrats on Jul 20, 2019 5:24:17 GMT
My mom went into stress induced early menopause at 41, when she got divorced because my dad was having an affair with her BFF, and she had to face she got married 3 months out of HS, and had never worked outside of her home, in her life.
{{HUGS}}
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Post by happyOCgirl on Jul 20, 2019 5:52:02 GMT
I hope this will make you laugh Mary Mary... I left my abusive husband and didn't have a period for a few months. Stress - I could barely speak in a complete sentence for the first few weeks. When I finally figured out how long it had been since my last period, I freaked out because...what if I'm pregnant?! I had some Dollar store pregnancy tests and took one. Gah - I was pregnant! I took another one and same results. I sat in a corner and cried. I would be tied to my ex forever.
After an hour or so, I thought what if I read the results wrong. I didn't have the box or directions anymore, just the tests. I was going off of my {foggy} memory of how many lines meant it was a positive test. I looked online and, sure enough, it was a negative result. It still was awhile before I got a period and that was due to taking progesterone (two doses).
Oof...that was not a fun time in my life. I honestly can laugh about it now but at the time not so much. So, stress and female parts are not the best of friends. Good luck...you are amazing!
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Post by MaryMary on Jul 20, 2019 6:04:05 GMT
Did you have any bloodwork done? My PCP did bloodwork and said everything looked normal.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Jul 20, 2019 6:24:18 GMT
Longest for me was 16 months. I ended up having a D&C because of it. Longest period (super heavy too) lasted 2 months solid. Oh yikes. That sounds ghastly. Best 16 months of my life. Followed by 2 months of sheer agony! I hated even going to work. Ever time I moved, I could feel it. Long story short, after years of irregular cycle, I had an emergency hysterectomy at a very young age. The good thing about it, I never went through menopause (actually I wouldn’t even be ready for it for another 10-15+ years!) and even with the hysterectomy never have had any symptoms nor did I have to go on any hormone therapy.
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Post by arrow on Jul 20, 2019 7:47:28 GMT
When I first found out about my now XH and OW I lost a heap of weight and my periods got very irregular. When he moved back home they started back up somewhat but I began to go three or four months between cycles. I put this down to perimenopause. Long story short, when I’d finally had enough two years ago and we split, my periods become sporadic and I would go months. I’m now feeling a lot more settled within myself ......... and they’ve returned, along with the migraines!!!!! I turn 55 this year, and this, whether it’s stress related or prrimenopause has been going on since 2012.
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Post by librarylady on Jul 20, 2019 16:34:04 GMT
I didn't stop because of stress, but.
*when I was a teenager, my brother scared me with a snake and I began to have a period, even though I was mid cycle.
*6 years after I did menopause, I was under a lot of stress and began to bleed. I think that lasted a few days.
I did menopause at age 40. Stopped having periods in the fall. When I saw gyn in April she did blood test to see if I as beginning menopause. Called me with the results to say, "You are not beginning, you are over it."
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Post by shamrock on Jul 20, 2019 19:43:19 GMT
I’m 44 and have started skipping months. I had a couple skips when I was 42-43 and under a lot of stress. Celebrated turning 44 by not having a period for over 3 months. My cycles are short. So 3 months was 4 normal cycles for me. Spoke to my dr after skipping 2 and she said if I didn’t have one by June 1, the 3rd month, she’d check my lining and give me meds to induce. May 29 I started. Haven’t had another since then. Have talked to my primary & my gyn, neither are concerned. I had a full workup with my gyn at 43 due to irregularity that we blamed on stress. I hate not knowing when, but at this point don’t see the need to take medicine to force by body to have a period.
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Post by SallyPA on Jul 21, 2019 5:00:58 GMT
Did you have any bloodwork done? My PCP did bloodwork and said everything looked normal. Did PCP do hormone levels? Or just routine wellness type labs? I’d recommend female hormones plus thyroid. That will tell you a lot.
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Post by josie29 on Jul 21, 2019 7:31:25 GMT
Yes, I did. When my 8 yo was suddenly diagnosed with a life-threatening illness in Feb 2012, my cycles stopped until about Oct. My doctor said that sometimes a shock or severe stress can affect your cycles. When they came back after my daughter had finished her treatment in September, my cycles were all over the place - sometimes 2 in 6 weeks and then nothing for 2 months & I experienced hot flushes. I was super-busy caring for my daughter who had been left with disabilities & we spent a huge amount of time seeing Specialists and visiting hospital and I was trying to get her well enough to return to school (she missed one year of schooling and was part-time for the next year) In the end, being fed up with never knowing when my cycle was coming & the hot flushes & super-heavy & crampy cycles, the doctor did blood tests and they seemed to indicate I had gone into early menopause. Nuts. The doctor gave me some HRT in the interim which dealt with the menopause symptoms but still allowed me to have a cycle if my body wanted it. It was just the sudden shock and ongoing anxiety and stress of it all. Another year later, and I completely stopped cycling & changed to a different HRT.
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Post by Gennifer on Jul 21, 2019 14:02:33 GMT
That sucks, and I’m sorry. I just want to add my super helpful advice: don’t use a vacuum. Or get another IUD, based on your history. 😂😂😂
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