What time does your 14 year old go to bed?

Mine is only 13, but gets up at 6:45 for school, and is on campus at 7:15.
He is in bed by 9 each night.

He’s always in bed by 9:30-10:00 on school nights, and up at 5:30.

Mine are a little older now, but they've always needed different amounts of sleep. DD is a major night owl and only sleeps 5-6 hours a night. DS, on the other hand, really does better with 10-12 hours of sleep. So, at 14 I think DS was going to bed around 9-9:30 and DD was probably midnight or later. I don't think they had set bedtimes at that age.

DD2 is 15 and is now, usually, in bed with the lights off at the latest by 10pm. She goes up of her own accord but it can be as early as 9.30 on some nights.It was nearer 9.30 most nights last year. She does't get up until about 7.30 and has to be at school for 8.35. She walks to school which takes her about 10 minutes so there's no travelling time for her to get there as such.

Around 9:30-10:00 and is up by 6:00am

13 yo DS goes to bed at 8:30 up at 5:45 for a 6:15 bus.

No, we just have a longer day. School is 7:55-3:00 for all grades (small district, only one bus run all on the same campus). There is free breakfast for all students starting around 7:30 so the busses pick up kids early enough to get there by then (we’re too close for a bus and yds is too picky for school breakfast).

Big respect to all of you getting families up, ready and off so early in the morning. I can not imagine those long days happening here. Some “country” children get the bus about 8 am for a journey of about 45 minutes but that’s probably the longest time with them getting home about 4.30pm.

Our school does the opposite.  One elementary school starts first, around 7:30.  The other elementary starts at 8:05.  Middle School starts at 8:45 and High School 8:35.  I think it makes more sense for the younger kids to start first.  And I am glad that we don't live in the area with the earliest start elementary.    

My older two (16 and 14) put themselves to bed for the most part.  Oldest says that he can't fall asleep before 11:00.  Younger one is generally good about getting himself to sleep at a reasonable time.  School just started yesterday so it is a new schedule, although they were both getting up for weightlifting all summer.  

This probably wont be a popular view, but if she is gravitating towards 930, then do 930. And for us, it was more important to consistently get in bed at the same time vs. be later two nights a week. If she is exhausted the other days (when not doing dance) she can always go to bed earlier if she wants. But I think its important to teach them to listen to their body. Their body will tell them what they need. Of course, if she simply cannot handle a 930 bedtime, then natural consequences would come into play. 

My kids are late nighters. My just turned 15 yo will most nights be up until 11:30-12. She gets herself up at 5:30. She seems to do good with this. My 17 yo is in bed by 11-11:30. He gets up at 7-7:10.

My ds is 16, in grade 11 and goes to bed at 10. That was the time I choose since grade 9. I thought he would ask to stay up later this year but he hasn't and he just put himself to bed at 10 on Monday before the first day. He gets up at 6:45 and is pretty good at self regulating how much sleep he needs. He is very easy to wake up in the morning so I am sure he is getting enough sleep.

He keeps his phone and ipad in the bathroom overnight and it amazes me when I get up to pee during the night and see the snap chats flying on his home screen at 1:00 and 2:00am