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Post by genny on Sept 5, 2019 12:44:54 GMT
Original thread >>> 2peasrefugees.boards.net/thread/78468/spectacularly-disgusting-case-fraud-tipsPops passed away Tuesday night. He's been under Hospice care since the last week of July. He was still holding pretty strong for the first couple of weeks, but then had a stroke and faded quickly. The last two weeks he was in and out of consciousness, and it seemed he was locked in a constant nightmare that was all in Vietnam. He'd scream for help in the middle of the night and couldn't be consoled, he was yelling about gunfire, holding the area, 'don't go in there boys!'...it was awful. Just awful. Then on Sunday he was mostly calm, he woke up and spoke a little, you could see recognition in his eyes. I told him I loved him and he told me he loved me more. I told him it was ok to rest, I'd take care of the kids and he said 'ok then' and went back to sleep. This was after he asked me for a hug. I'm so glad I was there at the exact time I was so I had that moment. One of the younger grandkids aged out of foster care (she has not been mentioned in this story until now because she wasn't around) and came to stay with her siblings and Pops here until she goes to basic training later this month. I'd only met her a handful of times until she came to stay, but she came up to me and said "ms genny, can you do something for me?" I said of course, anything you need. She said, "will you hug me like you're my mama for just a minute please?" Of course I did. And I cried even more for these precious young adults who have had no mother to love them and guide them. My heart is broken at the loss of a man I only knew a short time, but he added so much to my already full life. I'm grateful I got the chance to love him. Thanks for following his story. I hope one day I will be able to update with the news that somebody's sorry ass is in jail.
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Post by yodutchess on Sept 5, 2019 12:50:48 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss, and for these children’s loss. May Pops Rest In Peace.
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Post by jenjie on Sept 5, 2019 12:54:27 GMT
I am so sorry. Thank you for caring. Thank you for choosing to enter into his life and stay. It sounds like you were both richer for knowing each other and building relationship. This young lady... heartbreaking.
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Post by pierkiss on Sept 5, 2019 12:55:02 GMT
😢. I’m so sorry. What a sad story. I hope he is at peace now.
(And I REALLY hope they find his daughter and put her in jail. Awful).
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Post by ferblover on Sept 5, 2019 12:55:11 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. I am happy that you had that special moment with him. Pops story is a sad one but I am glad you have been on his side fighting for him!
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Post by Deleted on Sept 5, 2019 13:05:16 GMT
I am so sorry...you are a wonderful person to help sort out this mess and help those young adults
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Post by Deleted on Sept 5, 2019 13:07:48 GMT
I'm so sorry, what a sad update. I remember reading the original story. I, like you, hope that justice will prevail one day.You're a very special person genny for all you have done, not just for pops but for the grandchildren too. What a rock you are to them at their time of need.
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Post by tanya2 on Sept 5, 2019 13:08:36 GMT
I'm so sorry!
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Post by crazy4scraps on Sept 5, 2019 13:13:05 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m glad he was lucid when you said your goodbyes. How sad indeed.
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Post by unknown pea on Sept 5, 2019 13:29:52 GMT
I am so very sorry for you loss. Those children are so lucky to have you.
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Post by workingclassdog on Sept 5, 2019 13:39:45 GMT
Wow I don't know how I totally missed the original story... that is all kinds of crazy.. too bad he couldn't see her crazy ass in jail.
Do you know if the police will still continue to go after her? She still needs to pay for her crimes. I would be glad to get an open space where I work (I work in a prison).. I can put her right next to one of our troublemakers.. (just kidding of course) but stuff like this just makes me so mad.
So sorry for your loss.... I am happy he had someone on his side plus the part of his family.
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Post by gotranch on Sept 5, 2019 13:45:06 GMT
So sorry for your loss. What a champion you have been for these kids. I hope that there is justice for all.
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Post by compeateropeator on Sept 5, 2019 13:48:44 GMT
I am so sorry.
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Post by hutchfan on Sept 5, 2019 13:49:08 GMT
I am sorry for your loss, sending hugs.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 5, 2019 13:54:10 GMT
Hugs for you and his family.
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Post by KikiPea on Sept 5, 2019 14:00:10 GMT
I’m so sorry. Big hugs, and prayers for those sweet kids.
RIP Pops!
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Sept 5, 2019 14:13:38 GMT
Sorry for the loss of Pops. May the kids and you find comfort in each other.
(((((((((((((((((((HUG))))))))))))))))))))) for all!
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Post by freebird on Sept 5, 2019 14:17:42 GMT
Thank you for being such a kind person. I'm sorry for your loss.
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Post by ToniW on Sept 5, 2019 14:27:19 GMT
Your update brought tears. You both and the children are so blessed to have each other. And yes, I hope his daughter is caught and gets what she deserves!
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Post by Mel on Sept 5, 2019 14:28:20 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss!! I hope & pray that his "dear" daughter gets what she deserves for what she has done to him!!
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Post by beaglemom on Sept 5, 2019 14:33:42 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss. It is wonderful all you have been doing for him and his grandkids. I hope everyone gets closure and the witch ends up in jail.
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Post by used2scrap on Sept 5, 2019 17:57:03 GMT
Oh I’m so sorry. I’m so glad he had you in his life.
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Post by Sue on Sept 5, 2019 18:10:58 GMT
What a blessing you have been to this family. I don't necessarily believe that our justice system will reach his daughter but I believe there are other powers that will see that retribution will happen for her. Thank you for updating. I pray that your friend "Pops" has now found the peace that was missing in his life here on earth.
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Post by Lexica on Sept 5, 2019 18:17:05 GMT
Oh genny, I’m sorry that you all lost Pops, and probably much sooner than you should have done. I went back and reread the original post and my anger boiled up again like it did when I first read it. You are a hero for this family and I pray the daughter who did this will be caught. Can they escalate the charges to full murder now that he is gone, largely due to what she did? Or does the stroke count as a separate thing? Would getting this this elder abuse story out on social media help in getting this woman found and brought to justice? Obviously since time has passed from your original discovery of what she did, she knows that someone stepped in to stop her meal ticket from showing up in the fake bank account. Has anyone heard anything from her at all? What about her friends in Texas? I want to get in the car and go find this scum myself, I’m so disgusted by what she did. Thank you for standing up for justice and the family members that had no one else to turn to.
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Post by ladytrisha on Sept 5, 2019 18:34:23 GMT
This bring tears to my eyes. I'm so glad you were with him to offer comfort and love not only to him but to the granddaughter who needed that powerful hug and love. You were meant to be there with your kindness so that Pops' legacy continues.
Wishing you comfort and strength.
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Post by marmargirl on Sept 5, 2019 18:40:20 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Thank you for being such a wonderful person and role model to these younger people. 💕
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Post by shevy on Sept 5, 2019 18:42:41 GMT
Genny you have the best heart. The story made me mad before, but this made me cry. Your selflessness and love for that man and his family is so honorable.
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Post by purplebee on Sept 5, 2019 18:48:29 GMT
You are the angel who was there when Pops and his family needed one. I hope he is at peace and that Karma bites a big chunk....
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Post by teddyw on Sept 5, 2019 18:53:34 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss. I was really hoping his daughter would have been caught by now.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 5, 2019 18:59:21 GMT
Sad update. Sorry for your loss.
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