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Post by roundtwo on Oct 3, 2019 18:50:59 GMT
I'm watching the world track and field championships and the British athlete (and current leader) is Katarina Johnson-Thompson which led me to wondering what would her name be if she married someone with a double barrelled surname. I realize she could choose not to change her name at all or just take her spouse's name but could they have all four?
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Post by wellway on Oct 3, 2019 18:56:49 GMT
Go KJT, she is doing wonderfully. On track for a new British record of 7,000 points
No idea about the surname question just routing for her. You could add Dina Asher-Smith (gold 200m) to that question!
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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2019 18:57:28 GMT
I'm watching the world track and field championships and the British athlete (and current leader) is Katarina Johnson-Thompson which led me to wondering what would her name be if she married someone with a double barrelled surname. I realize she could choose not to change her name at all or just take her spouse's name but could they have all four? In the US there are no laws restricting how many names a person can have. There are restrictions on computer programs about how many letters will be accepted. So at work the computer won't accept my full name because it is too long. Most times people with hyphenated last name marrying someone with hyphenated last names will either keep theirs, take his, or she will keep one of hers and take one of his to make a new hyphenated name she and future children will use.
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Post by lily on Oct 3, 2019 19:09:30 GMT
There was a guy on The Voice the other night and his name is : Mendeleyev Galileo Einstein Pythagoras Darwin Euclid Leonardo Allan-Blitz
I was chuckling about his hyphenated last name after all those middle names!!
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Post by roundtwo on Oct 3, 2019 19:29:10 GMT
Go KJT, she is doing wonderfully. On track for a new British record of 7,000 points I'm pulling for her!! I would find it so hard to decide which side of my family "wins" so to speak but I get why you need to whittle things down, especially as you said, for forms and the like. And the last name is quite dull compared to all the others. I'm assuming the parents like science... 
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Post by peabay on Oct 3, 2019 19:34:54 GMT
One of my daughters has a friend who is the adopted child of a gay couple and a lesbian couple (a gay man and a lesbian woman were best friends; adopted a child together and then both went on to have other partners - basically a season of Will and Grace.) His name is like (I'm not going to give you his real name, for obvious reasons but it's like this) John Smith Johnson-Jones.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2019 19:42:31 GMT
I'm watching the world track and field championships and the British athlete (and current leader) is Katarina Johnson-Thompson which led me to wondering what would her name be if she married someone with a double barrelled surname. I realize she could choose not to change her name at all or just take her spouse's name but could they have all four? They could if they wanted to. You can call yourself anything you want or legally change your name by deed pole but most people in the UK take their husband's name after marriage. There are exceptions such as Doctors or Lawyers etc who have established themselves under their maiden name and continue to use it in a professional manner but often outside work they are referred to as Mrs husband's name. I don't think I could be bothered to choose two double barrelled name though.... eek...writing that all out ever time you signed your name...no thanks!!
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Post by ashley on Oct 3, 2019 19:54:25 GMT
Some cultures give their children two last names and then when they marry they keep one and take one.
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Post by rainangel on Oct 3, 2019 20:28:57 GMT
In Norway this has become almost the norm. I don't think most people hyphenate a double last name, but most kids born in Norway for the last 10-15 years have both mother's and father's last name. Being in a country with a lot of last names ending in -sen, I know several kids called Olsen Hansen, or Larsen Svensen.
I think it has become very important for Norwegian families to show equality in this way. We are one of the most gender equal countries in the world, and this is an extension of that. (That being said, we have a fair bit to go still in equality, but we're getting there)
I'm not sure what will happen to the next generation. Will they have four last names because they are all important to them? Then eight....?
In my own family the middle names of our kids were more important to us than the last names. So both our girls have a medium-length first name, a long middle name from two different grandmothers, and a very short last name. We decided om his short last name instead of my long one because they both have long middlenames. He offered to take mine, but we decided on the shorter one.
Some cultures has like, 8-10 names and it's completely normal. So strange to me. And royals have ALL the names from their family trees!
I hope this double-barreling will stay double, and not become triple og quadruple etc.
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Post by katlady on Oct 3, 2019 20:58:41 GMT
To me, it seems like double-barreling is more common in the U.K. (and it's offsprings) than in the U.S. Is there a reason for this?
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Post by craftykitten on Oct 3, 2019 21:45:43 GMT
To me, it seems like double-barreling is more common in the U.K. (and it's offsprings) than in the U.S. Is there a reason for this? Do you think so? I'm in the UK and only know one person with a double-barrelled name. I'm getting married (yay!) and I think I'm just going to use both surnames, because his is already Van (XYZ) so I shall be Kate (ABC) van (XYZ) which I think sounds awesome. No one can spell my name anyway 
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Post by katlady on Oct 3, 2019 22:38:10 GMT
To me, it seems like double-barreling is more common in the U.K. (and it's offsprings) than in the U.S. Is there a reason for this? Do you think so? I'm in the UK and only know one person with a double-barrelled name. I'm getting married (yay!) and I think I'm just going to use both surnames, because his is already Van (XYZ) so I shall be Kate (ABC) van (XYZ) which I think sounds awesome. No one can spell my name anyway  I guess I think of Olivia Newton-John, Catherine Zeta-Jones, Daniel Day-Lewis, Camilia Parker-Bowles, etc.
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Post by gryroagain on Oct 3, 2019 23:45:38 GMT
My kids have 2 last names, mine and their dads. They can keep one, keep none, have 3, make a new one, I don’t care. I just wasn’t gestating and pushing out a living being who would then not have my name.
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Post by andreasmom on Oct 4, 2019 1:17:08 GMT
I hope this double-barreling will stay double, and not become triple og quadruple etc. In latin countries it stays double-barrel as follows: Child name Dad’s first last name Mom’s first last name So future generations lose their parents’ second last name.
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Post by roundtwo on Oct 4, 2019 1:31:11 GMT
Is it always dad's last name - mom's last name or is it up to the parents to decide the order?
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Post by andreasmom on Oct 4, 2019 1:32:15 GMT
Is it always dad's last name - mom's last name or is it up to the parents to decide the order? So far, always dad’s - mom’s
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Post by roundtwo on Oct 4, 2019 1:41:52 GMT
So always the dad's name then. Thanks for sharing that - names and how different cultures use them has always been interesting to me. 
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Post by refugeepea on Oct 4, 2019 2:47:41 GMT
I haven't heard that term before. I have heard hyphenated last name. I wouldn't want to bother with a long last name, but I only have two initials to my name right now. It would take some getting used to.
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Post by librarylady on Oct 4, 2019 3:06:02 GMT
Situations like this are the reason I am not in favor of hyphenating last names. Just select one and move forward.
Hyphenated last names are a real PIA on computer forms as well.
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Post by my3freaks on Oct 4, 2019 4:00:42 GMT
I just went to look at my Rapid Rewards shopping account. I joined in June 2015, and have earned 15,148 points. 
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Post by paget on Oct 4, 2019 4:39:12 GMT
I haven't heard that term before. I have heard hyphenated last name. to. [ Same.
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Post by AllieC on Oct 4, 2019 6:42:48 GMT
I had a colleague a few years ago that had a double barrelled (quite common to call it this in Aus) first name and last name so it was like Jane-Doe Jones-Smith. She insisted on being called her full name but then told us we could abbreviate in writing to JDJS etc.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2019 8:06:07 GMT
I haven't heard that term before. I have heard hyphenated last name. to. [ Same. It's a British English term for a hyphenated last name.
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Post by Jockscrap on Oct 4, 2019 8:59:48 GMT
Growing up, I would always associate double barrelled surnames with posh people. It was always upper class landed gentry that had these names. I think it has become more common in recent decades as more children have been born to cohabiting couples and the child has taken both names of their parents. That’s how I mostly see these names used now. I know one couple who married each other after both were widowed and she added his name to her name (by the first marriage). She had an older teenager and young adult children and wanted to keep some name connection to them and their late father when she remarried.
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Post by sweetandsour on Oct 4, 2019 14:16:49 GMT
Is it always dad's last name - mom's last name or is it up to the parents to decide the order? My friend is Chilean and her name growing up was
Sonia Smith Doe (no hyphen)
Where Smith was her Dad's last name and Doe was the first part of her mom's maiden name.
When Sonia got married to Bob Jones, her married name became
Sonia Smith de Jones
Sonia's mom's married name was Augustina Doe de Smith (I think ), but we called her Mrs. Smith and she was fine with it.
I think their naming convention is fascinating!
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Post by maryland on Oct 4, 2019 19:10:07 GMT
This is off topic, but we have a unique name situation in our family. My husband's cousin got married and she kept her last name and her husband kept his.
They had 4 kids. The first kid had her last name. The second kid had his last name. The third and fourth were twins and one had her last name and one had his last name. Different, but it worked for them.
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Post by roundtwo on Oct 4, 2019 19:24:32 GMT
This is off topic, but we have a unique name situation in our family. My husband's cousin got married and she kept her last name and her husband kept his. They had 4 kids. The first kid had her last name. The second kid had his last name. The third and fourth were twins and one had her last name and one had his last name. Different, but it worked for them. I've known a couple of families that have done this. A couple of the kids found it a bit frustrating during middle school when the parents split and dad buggered off. They eventually took their mom's name too. I realize that this happens in families where everyone has the dad's name but when it's only some that do, I can see how it would possibly be uncomfortable.
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Post by maryland on Oct 4, 2019 19:33:37 GMT
This is off topic, but we have a unique name situation in our family. My husband's cousin got married and she kept her last name and her husband kept his. They had 4 kids. The first kid had her last name. The second kid had his last name. The third and fourth were twins and one had her last name and one had his last name. Different, but it worked for them. I've known a couple of families that have done this. A couple of the kids found it a bit frustrating during middle school when the parents split and dad buggered off. They eventually took their mom's name too. I realize that this happens in families where everyone has the dad's name but when it's only some that do, I can see how it would possibly be uncomfortable. I think with our cousin, they both wanted the kids to have their last name, so they did it this way. They did eventually divorce and now one of the girls has nothing to do with her mom. She had her dad's last name, but not sure if she kept that or changed to a last name of her choosing.
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