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Post by peasapie on Nov 3, 2019 15:56:48 GMT
My husband's mom has been at an Assisted Living facility for 5 years. She passed away last night - and the staff was amazing to her in her final days.
We would like to send something over to thank them but I have no idea what. I know some of you have sent things or done things in the past, so I wonder if you might share ideas? Thanks so much.
(They aren't allowed to receive individual gifts, but we can send something to them as a group.)
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Post by mom on Nov 3, 2019 16:08:38 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
My husbands company owns an assisted living facility and really, just sending a thank you is enough. If you really must send something else, how about a plant with a nice card?
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Post by nlwilkins on Nov 3, 2019 16:10:48 GMT
For this situation since these people took care of your mother for an extended length of time, I would want something that kept on giving. How about a subscription of some sort, maybe a coffee of the month type thing? That would work for male and female plus be enough for a crowd to enjoy.
(I realize it is the final days that you are most grateful for, but they were there for the long haul also.)
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Post by mom on Nov 3, 2019 16:12:02 GMT
For this situation since these people took care of your mother for an extended length of time, I would want something that kept on giving. How about a subscription of some sort, maybe a coffee of the month type thing? That would work for male and female plus be enough for a crowd to enjoy. (I realize it is the final days that you are most grateful for, but they were there for the long haul also.) Oh thats a good idea!
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Post by Deleted on Nov 3, 2019 16:12:10 GMT
Pie for all shifts.
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Post by karenlou on Nov 3, 2019 16:13:06 GMT
I have sent a fruit basket....or brought home baked goodies.
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Post by rst on Nov 3, 2019 16:17:13 GMT
If individuals stand out, a nice letter to the administration calling out their professionalism and excellent care, with a copy to the individual, is a nice gesture, and can not only boost their morale but help them professionally. For the whole team, a special food item is nice. Or you could ask if they have periodic workplace parties or potlucks and arrange to have a special dessert provided at that event.
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Post by cindyupnorth on Nov 3, 2019 16:28:59 GMT
As someone who works in Healthcare we appreciate anything. Esp a note of support. If you really want to give something to all, then having a nice lunch brought in for the day and night shift would be nice. Subway sandwiches, something like that. Something store bought. We get a bit leery on home baked stuff. Also plants are iffie. That means we have to take care of them. Which can get touchy. esp if it dies. A nice deli plattter, or fruit basket is also very nice.
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Post by krcrafts on Nov 3, 2019 16:55:36 GMT
After my mom died from a few weeks in Hospice, we sent them a fruit basket from Edible Arrangements.
I’m sorry for your loss.
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Post by KikiPea on Nov 3, 2019 17:03:27 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers said for your family.
We just had this happen as well. My grandma was in a care facility for about 3 months. She passeds away this past Sunday. The staff took fabulous care of her, and one of the nurses came to her service Friday. Our family made a donation to the hospice care there, since ost things there are purchased with donations. Other than that, maybe make cookies, or something?
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Post by littlemama on Nov 3, 2019 17:03:35 GMT
A letter mentioning specific people who you felt took especially good care of your family member. If you send food, remember that there are 3 shifts and day shift tends to get more recognition than the others simply because of the time of day that most food is delivered.
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Post by peanutterbutter on Nov 3, 2019 17:17:27 GMT
Send an assortment of packaged snacks that way different shifts can easily grab on their shift. My staff love it when I fill the snack box with things they can grab on the fly. Chips, combos, protein bars, granola bars, fruit snacks, crackers, things like that. Keurig K-Cups if they have a Keurig, also packages of hot chocolate mix go over well. And truly a thank you note to them and their Administration of it's worth a lot. If you're so inclined, type or write it up on a big sheet of paper so it can be put up and easily seeing rather than someone stopping to read a small card that they might overlook.
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Post by bc2ca on Nov 3, 2019 17:34:43 GMT
Definitely a thank you card to the staff and a letter to the facility manager/administrative office. I'd probably send flowers and a tea/coffee/hot chocolate gift basket. I'm sorry for your loss.
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Post by cindyupnorth on Nov 3, 2019 17:35:27 GMT
Another thought is to ask the owner of the ALF if they need a piece of equipment, or a luxury item for staff. ie a keurig, a blender, new toaster, coffee pot ,Echo to play music. Something to make everyone's daily lives easier.
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Post by mustlovecats on Nov 3, 2019 18:40:34 GMT
My father was recently in rehab and we took over a basket of individually wrapped snacks and bananas and apples.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 3, 2019 18:46:10 GMT
Some good suggestions here. I’d go with a large dessert tray that would last through all shifts.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 3, 2019 19:55:58 GMT
I’m sorry for your loss.
In addition to whatever gift you choose to send, please be sure to speak to as many levels of upper management as possible about the kindness and excellent care you received from specific individuals. Go up the chain. Often an employee can be rewarded by management for going over and above, but only if they know. Our local hospital has a program that rewards nurses and care staff who are “caught being exemplary “ with a dinner for two and write ups in the company magazine.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Nov 3, 2019 20:07:10 GMT
I think a catered meal for each shift would be well received, or 1-2 large fruit baskets with enough for all shifts. At a place like that the afternoon and evening shifts have a harder job since some of the residents experience sundowning and are more difficult to settle at night, so I would want to make sure those staff members know they are appreciated.
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Post by mikewozowski on Nov 3, 2019 20:51:10 GMT
jenjie shared how she set up a coffee bar for the nurses that took care of her husband. i thought hat was the best idea yet. the gift that keeps on giving.
if you do food, remember to send some for all shifts.
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Post by tuva42 on Nov 3, 2019 21:37:09 GMT
We sent a giant basket of cookies to the facility my dad had lived for 4 years. I don't remember if it was Harry & David or something like that, but I just wanted them to know how much I appreciated them. I also send a letter to be shared with all the staff.
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Post by smcast on Nov 3, 2019 21:46:33 GMT
Staff love chocolate. 😁
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Post by KelleeM on Nov 3, 2019 22:34:26 GMT
The day after my husband passed away in ICU I sent 4 large pizzas and a huge tray of garden salad with rolls at around 2:00 in the afternoon. The nurse who came to his celebration of life said that it was very well received and appreciated. Our niece, an ICU nurse, brought a bag of goodies from Trader Joe’s for the staff. She included cookies, chocolates, chips and salsa and popcorn. They all over it.
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Post by KelleeM on Nov 3, 2019 23:23:44 GMT
I work in a nursing home and we really appreciate it when families bring over flowers after the funeral. If you don’t plan to bring them home those funeral bouquets are amazing and they usually last quite a while and brighten everyone’s day. We split them up or remove the ribbons so they don’t look “funeral” ish. The funeral home that took care of my husband’s arrangements works with a program that accepts flowers that the family chooses to leave after the services and they rearrange them and send them to nursing homes and assisted living facilities. I was happy to have our flowers sent where they’d be appreciated.
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Post by peasapie on Nov 3, 2019 23:27:00 GMT
Such wonderful advice, all. Thank you so much. I'm sharing all this with my guy and his sister.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Nov 4, 2019 6:45:50 GMT
I wrote hand written notes to each nurse, support staff and doctor that took care of my mom in ICU from all of my siblings.
I then, took 6 huge trays of cookies from a specialty baker to the icu nursing supervisor and asked that she divvy them up by shifts and give out the cards.
I taped a note to each cookie tray thanking them and telling a little story about our mom.
I said that I wasn’t sure what to bring to them but knew we wanted to show our appreciation and gratefulness to them. All the nurses including the male nurses said SWEETS ARE ALWAYS THE BEST! 😋
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