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Post by Deleted on Nov 15, 2019 19:53:49 GMT
This isn’t an issue as long as your family wasn’t in any of the photos. Actually you should be flattered that your photos were nice enough to be shared.
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Post by smartypants71 on Nov 15, 2019 20:02:46 GMT
She should have asked before sharing your photos. In the bigger picture, it's not that big of a deal since your kids weren't in them, but if you wanted them shared, you would have set your security settings accordingly.
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Post by lesley on Nov 15, 2019 20:07:22 GMT
What is it about this situation that most annoys you? Is it the lack of credit as photographer, making it feel like she’s stealing your art? (Which of course is actually images of someone else's art.) Is it that you managed to get to see something that was pretty exclusive, and you're a bit miffed that someone else is not recognising that or taking advantage of you sharing? Is it that she is disrespecting your desire not to share, whatever your reasons may be? Or is it something else I’m missing? FTR, I can’t imagine getting particularly upset about this.
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Post by paigepea on Nov 15, 2019 20:22:13 GMT
Totally weird. But let it go.
She should have saved your pics and texted them to her friend instead of reposting on Facebook. That’s what i do. Like when my friend had a baby my mom wanted to see the pic so I saved and emailed it to my mom. Then my mom deleted the pic because truly why would she care to keep it. But I’d like to think we’re all sane. This is weird to want to post something that isn’t yours, without permission, to your wall. Just try to be flattered that you did something so cool and took great pics that she wanted to pass on the joy.
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Post by peabay on Nov 15, 2019 20:23:28 GMT
Eh, I'm with you. It's weird. I don't want people copying and pasting my photos, whether or not my family is in them.
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Post by myshelly on Nov 15, 2019 20:30:51 GMT
But then she tried to tag a friend of hers (who is not a friend of mine) on my exhibit post. Friend, Mary, replied “I can’t see this post” (because of my privacy settings). Teacher then tries to share my post on her wall and can’t because of my settings, then tries to share the post to Mary’s wall and can’t. So I assume you saw the comment/conversation on your wall with teacher attempting to tag her friend... but how do you know the rest of that happened? Those aren't actions you would have seen because they were happening on teacher's end, not yours. So was she communicating these failed attempts to you? The reason I ask is because that would have been the perfect opportunity to private message her requesting that she not share your photos. Edited to add: For the record, I would not have cared if mine were shared. Obviously she was giving you credit with her friend as they had an on-line exchange about it that you could clearly see. I could see the actions. She shared my post and it shows up as a box that says This content is not available.
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Post by myshelly on Nov 15, 2019 20:32:48 GMT
What is it about this situation that most annoys you? Is it the lack of credit as photographer, making it feel like she’s stealing your art? (Which of course is actually images of someone else's art.) Is it that you managed to get to see something that was pretty exclusive, and you're a bit miffed that someone else is not recognising that or taking advantage of you sharing? Is it that she is disrespecting your desire not to share, whatever your reasons may be? Or is it something else I’m missing? FTR, I can’t imagine getting particularly upset about this. I didn’t say I was particularly upset, I just said it was annoying. I just think it’s odd for someone to copy someone else’s photos and post them as their own. I think it’s odd for someone to encounter privacy blocks that obviously mean I don’t want things shared and then do it anyway. I posted this because I wanted different view points, which I’m getting, so that’s good.
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Post by wezee on Nov 15, 2019 20:43:29 GMT
It wouldn't bother me.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Nov 15, 2019 20:59:17 GMT
I don’t put anything on the Internet and expect it to not be shared. You can lock your stuff down as tight as you want, but putting it out there in any way, shape or form is basically asking people to look at it and potentially steal it or share it. If someone is determined enough, they will find a way. She didn’t share any pics with family members in them, and that to me would be something worth voicing a complaint about.
My question would be, was it acceptable to take photos of the art in the first place? I have been to art and museum exhibits in the past that have openly stated with wall signage that taking any photos of the artwork is strictly prohibited. I specifically remember a Muppets exhibit at a local museum and photos of any part of the exhibit were absolutely not allowed. I was so bummed because it would have made some awesome scrapbook pages. Since this was such an exclusive showing, it would really surprise me if photos were in fact allowed.
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Post by FuzzyMutt on Nov 15, 2019 21:02:44 GMT
I'm just curious what the exhibit was lol
The shroud of Jesus or something?
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Nov 15, 2019 21:03:52 GMT
I’m surprised that Anyone would think that posting anything on Facebook is going to remain “theirs” or private, or not copied, not credited, or claimed by someone else.
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Post by disneypal on Nov 15, 2019 21:11:09 GMT
It is unusual, yes, but since she didn't post pics of the kids or tag/reference you, I don't think I would have a problem. It would have been better if she sent the photos through messenger to her friend. But as you said, nothing you post is really private.
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Post by chlerbie on Nov 15, 2019 22:00:57 GMT
Honestly, I'd probably be a little annoyed, but not upset or anything. I had a place of business once take photos from my page and share them and felt pretty annoyed at them. But I put them on there, so it was on me.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Nov 15, 2019 22:32:08 GMT
I could see the actions. She shared my post and it shows up as a box that says This content is not available. That makes sense. I hadn't thought of that. I had a place of business once take photos from my page and share them and felt pretty annoyed at them. But I put them on there, so it was on me. I've been contacted twice on Instagram and asked for my permission to share a photo. One was a church and they actually use my photo on their webpage. The other was a restaurant meal which they shared as a once and done Insta post.
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Post by 950nancy on Nov 15, 2019 22:39:51 GMT
It wouldn’t bother me to share the photos. BUT since you didn’t, and have your controls set to Private, I think it is totally bizarre that she saved your private photos and posted them on her own Facebook. THAT is extreme cluelessness. I have Snagit on my computer and can copy any image I want and save it. It doesn't matter if a photo is private. I would understand that she could do it, but not sure why someone would do it.
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Post by jennifercw on Nov 15, 2019 22:45:56 GMT
Honestly, I'd probably be a little annoyed, but not upset or anything. I had a place of business once take photos from my page and share them and felt pretty annoyed at them. But I put them on there, so it was on me. What do you mean by "take photos"? Did they literally download/screenshot photos from your page and repost them on theirs? Or just use the share button from your post? If the former, that is totally NOT on you. Copyright is copyright. And a place of business should be particularly careful. I’m surprised that Anyone would think that posting anything on Facebook is going to remain “theirs” or private, or not copied, not credited, or claimed by someone else. Well it SHOULD, because copyright is copyright. But I'm also not surprised that it doesn't. The attitude that absolutely anything posted on the internet is fair game is prevalent.
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Post by librarylady on Nov 15, 2019 23:16:21 GMT
As long as she didn't post pictures of your kids, I'm not sure why it matters.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Nov 16, 2019 1:52:18 GMT
It wouldn’t bother me to share the photos. BUT since you didn’t, and have your controls set to Private, I think it is totally bizarre that she saved your private photos and posted them on her own Facebook. THAT is extreme cluelessness. I have Snagit on my computer and can copy any image I want and save it. It doesn't matter if a photo is private. I would understand that she could do it, but not sure why someone would do it. Same here, I have a snipping tool on both my Mac and on my PC. That’s why I would never assume anything I posted online would be safe from someone lifting it and posting it somewhere else.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 16, 2019 1:59:35 GMT
No don't need an app or tool to save an image off the computer. Just right click and choose "save as image" On facebook you do need to left click if first so it isn't in the newsfeed. Then right click. But that is all it takes.
I'm wondering if the upset isn't because the op wasn't supposed to take photos in the first place. Museum lighting isn't all that tricky. Getting a photo in while the docent isn't looking is much harder.
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Post by Sanibel on Nov 16, 2019 2:01:26 GMT
What is it about this situation that most annoys you? Is it the lack of credit as photographer, making it feel like she’s stealing your art? (Which of course is actually images of someone else's art.) Is it that you managed to get to see something that was pretty exclusive, and you're a bit miffed that someone else is not recognising that or taking advantage of you sharing? Is it that she is disrespecting your desire not to share, whatever your reasons may be? Or is it something else I’m missing? FTR, I can’t imagine getting particularly upset about this. I didn’t say I was particularly upset, I just said it was annoying. I just think it’s odd for someone to copy someone else’s photos and post them as their own. I think it’s odd for someone to encounter privacy blocks that obviously mean I don’t want things shared and then do it anyway. I posted this because I wanted different view points, which I’m getting, so that’s good. I validate you. Can you put a watermark on pictures? I’ve never learned how to do that. Yet!
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Post by myshelly on Nov 16, 2019 2:57:55 GMT
No don't need an app or tool to save an image off the computer. Just right click and choose "save as image" On facebook you do need to left click if first so it isn't in the newsfeed. Then right click. But that is all it takes. I'm wondering if the upset isn't because the op wasn't supposed to take photos in the first place. Museum lighting isn't all that tricky. Getting a photo in while the docent isn't looking is much harder. I’m just curious why you think that would make me upset? I mean, let’s say it were true...the museum police aren’t gonna come catch me through FB. This just seems like such a non-issue.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Nov 17, 2019 2:59:33 GMT
My social media is set to private, and my "sharing" is restricted. But, anyone can "right click save" most images on facebook and there is no control over that.
If a friend wanted a friend to view my photos, I would have suggest that person send me a friend request. I would accept and they could view my photos. Then once that person had viewed the photos, delete them off my friends list.
I would ask the friend who lifted(right click save) your photos, to please delete them. If she doesn't, contact facebook and request that they remove them.
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Post by elaine on Nov 17, 2019 3:07:03 GMT
Once you post a photo on Facebook, they can do with it whatever they want to. Meaning, once you post a pic on Facebook, even one with your children and your privacy settings locked down, Facebook can still do with it what they want and send it to whatever media outlet/foreign government, etc., wants to buy it. If you are wanting tight control of your pics, then posting them on Facebook is not advised. Your friend is doing nothing that Facebook isn’t already doing without you knowing. And including pics of your kids.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 17, 2019 3:51:47 GMT
Not weird. She didn’t share people. That’s all that matters.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 17, 2019 3:53:24 GMT
Eh, I'm with you. It's weird. I don't want people copying and pasting my photos, whether or not my family is in them. Then you’d better not put them on Facebook. Facebook is like throwing open your front door and yelling “come on in y’all” to the world.
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Post by roberta on Nov 17, 2019 5:02:19 GMT
She had the courtesy to not post pics of people so she was trying to be thoughtful. She should have asked your permission imo. That being said anything on fb is not really private which is why I don’t have an account.
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Post by annabella on Nov 17, 2019 5:07:08 GMT
weird thing to be upset about
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Post by chaosisapony on Nov 17, 2019 7:02:46 GMT
Way back in the days of Myspace I posted a picture of a tiger I took at the zoo that I was particularly proud of. A few days later my sister put it up as her profile picture. I remember thinking it was so strange. She literally had to save it to her computer and then repost it and then she made it her profile pic. She wasn't there with us at the zoo. I hadn't seen her in years. It did sort of rub me the wrong way.
Now that we're many years into social media I expect this sort of thing. Should she have respected your privacy settings? Of course. But I've realized that many people just don't think like that. They see something cool and want to share it with a friend. At least she did not copy any photos with your kids in them.
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Post by PrettyInPeank on Nov 17, 2019 7:20:33 GMT
What do I think? If I just woke up tomorrow and saw any of my pictures on someone else’s wall, I’d think it was weird as hell. But you saw her repeatedly trying to share the picture with a friend using various means, so seeing it successfully shared wouldn’t be all that shocking.
I’m pretty privacy-conscious, and this would not even be a blip on my radar. I would see the pictures, go “huh, she figured it out,” find joy in her excitement and her friend’s excitement, and then scroll on by. The end.
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Post by bc2ca on Nov 17, 2019 7:55:04 GMT
Finally teacher saves my photos of the exhibit, posts them herself on her wall, and says “Mary, these are the pics I wanted you to see.” I just think it’s odd for someone to copy someone else’s photos and post them as their own. But she didn't post them as her own photos, just as photos of the exhibit she'd seen and wanted to share.
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