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Post by disneypal on Nov 16, 2019 22:54:31 GMT
Ugh - how frustrating! I think the best you can do is to continue to cook healthy since it is good for the entire family. If they make unhealthy choices/additions, that is on them. I'm sorry - it is like you are criticized if you do and criticized if you don't
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ComplicatedLady
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Post by ComplicatedLady on Nov 16, 2019 22:58:16 GMT
Doesn’t McDonald’s put cheese on their fillet o fish sandwich? Or is that something weird that my dh asks for? I can’t tell you the last time I (or he now that I think about it) had a McDonald’s fish sandwich, but I swear they used to have a slice of American cheese on them.
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julie5
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Post by julie5 on Nov 16, 2019 23:05:27 GMT
Is this a second marriage? I didn't understand about your not being part of his estate. Well he’s too lazy to take the time to add me to anything. So if he dies, I won’t get anything. It’s my third marriage, his second. His mom has been getting into him because she’s the one he put everything into years ago when he was single. She doesn’t want to be the dealing with it if he dies but right now, legally she’ll be the only one that can access his accounts. We’ve only been married 3 years.
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Post by cadoodlebug on Nov 16, 2019 23:19:24 GMT
Is this a second marriage? I didn't understand about your not being part of his estate. Well he’s too lazy to take the time to add me to anything. So if he dies, I won’t get anything. It’s my third marriage, his second. His mom has been getting into him because she’s the one he put everything into years ago when he was single. She doesn’t want to be the dealing with it if he dies but right now, legally she’ll be the only one that can access his accounts. We’ve only been married 3 years. Thanks for the explanation. Good luck to you.
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Post by Merge on Nov 16, 2019 23:20:54 GMT
I definitely hear you merge. Hearing my behavior worded back to me has helped. I’ll let them make their choices. I can’t believe I was being so obtuse about. Don’t beat yourself up. We all have blind spots.
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julie5
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Post by julie5 on Nov 18, 2019 23:58:05 GMT
I updated my post. Thanks for the suggestions peas!
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