MerryMom
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Post by MerryMom on May 4, 2022 15:37:45 GMT
Update in the OP
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Post by Deleted on May 4, 2022 15:54:21 GMT
I liked your post because of the update. Hope you keep getting good news and it is all in your favor. |
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Post by revirdsuba99 on May 4, 2022 16:08:25 GMT
I am so glad to get your favorable update. Hope the rest is also in your favor!
What was he thinking....
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Post by librarylady on May 4, 2022 21:43:33 GMT
Glad the legal folks agree with you.
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Post by peabay on May 4, 2022 21:44:55 GMT
Thanks for the update. What an insane story.
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Post by Lexica on May 4, 2022 23:43:48 GMT
Thank you for sharing your update. At least two family members will be returned to their original burial locations. Who pays for this? Hopefully Uncle J since he had them moved illegally.
The court order on the 4 family members (that was not done properly because no one was notified?) are the family members that belong in the cemetery with your mom, correct? Will it be the same judge that vacated the original order to disinter that will decide whether or not they must be returned to their original locations or a different judge? Will Uncle J have to pay for the disinterment and reburial of hopefully all 6 family members?
I can't believe the cemeteries involved are not being held responsible for anything.
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Post by malibou on May 5, 2022 8:34:21 GMT
Please go see the court is working in your favour.
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Post by mikklynn on May 5, 2022 13:06:44 GMT
I hope things continue to go your way.
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ddly
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Post by ddly on May 5, 2022 21:17:53 GMT
That’s a great update!!
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Post by hop2 on May 5, 2022 22:16:30 GMT
You know, I’ve read your saga before and I probably commented previously. But I’m still aghast that an extended relative would move a loved ones body without permission if immediate family. I can not imagine anyone would be that mean and crass and obnoxious. And I say that as a person who is not a visit the cemetery person. I just can’t fathom who would do something like that.
But as for the update I sure hope they loved ones are put back at his expense! Dang. Moving bodies isn’t cheap.
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Post by luvnlifelady on May 6, 2022 3:22:02 GMT
Wpw, I have never heard of anything like this. I could see my brother doing this. However, my parents are at a military cemetery so that solves that problem.
I hope you get to have them moved back. Hopefully karma catches up with your brother. What he did is shameful!
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Post by pjaye on May 6, 2022 3:29:07 GMT
Good grief - you must have a lot of time on your hands to drag this out for so long. The people are dead, they don't care where they are or who they lie next to.
You're unhealthily & irrationally obsessed by this.
Time to let it go. What a waste of everyone's time and money.
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Post by Lexica on May 6, 2022 17:41:25 GMT
Good grief - you must have a lot of time on your hands to drag this out for so long. The people are dead, they don't care where they are or who they lie next to. You're unhealthily & irrationally obsessed by this. Time to let it go. What a waste of everyone's time and money. Seriously? I must be unhealthily and irrationally obsessed too because I would be doing the exact same thing if this were my family members. Yes, these people are dead, but they chose their own burial site and have every right to remain there. Who else will stand up for what has been done to them? I would not want to go visit the grave of my parents and see that 7ft shrine to the uncle every time I went. She and her brother will gain peace of mind that they corrected this on behalf of their family. Sometimes you need to exert the effort to right a wrong for others who cannot do it for themselves. I think you are unhealthily and irrationally obsessed with spouting hurtful things on this site. Why? |
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Post by silverlining on May 7, 2022 17:28:46 GMT
Good grief - you must have a lot of time on your hands to drag this out for so long. The people are dead, they don't care where they are or who they lie next to. You're unhealthily & irrationally obsessed by this. Time to let it go. What a waste of everyone's time and money. I disagree. Her mother wanted to be buried near her parents. I think when we have had a loving relationship with a parent, honoring their wishes after they've passed is a healthy and natural thing to do. I'm in a partnership with my siblings, and when we are making decisions, I often think about what my parents would have wanted with the business. Yes, I know they don't know what is happening, but it brings me comfort to know that if they were alive, they would be happy with our choices. |
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Post by MerryMom on Aug 24, 2022 0:11:00 GMT
August 23, 2022 update:
The trial was yesterday and was about 3 hours. We are awaiting the Judge’s ruling and hope to have it within the next month.
The case looks favorable to us, but if we prevail, we anticipate that our uncle will appeal it. The Judge said that with his ruling, he will issue a “stay” order until any appeals are done.
Thank you to those who supported me. It meant a lot.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Aug 24, 2022 0:38:56 GMT
Hope the judge decides properly, for you.. What a disaster your uncle has created!
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Sue
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Post by Sue on Aug 24, 2022 0:54:39 GMT
Here's hoping the judge rules in your favor. And, if your uncle files an appeal, that he will lose that case also. Best wishes.
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Post by peasquared on Aug 24, 2022 1:03:17 GMT
Wow, MerryMom, somehow, I missed this. I can feel my heart beating faster and my blood pressure going up just reading your posts. I am fuming for you! That is truly awful. I hope that the judge rules in your favor and that the appeals do too. I am just flabbergasted that someone would have the gall to do that! I'm so sorry! |
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Post by malibou on Aug 24, 2022 2:01:29 GMT
I'm glad it seems the judge is looking on you favorably. Hopefully he will put your uncle in his place.
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Post by gizzy on Aug 24, 2022 2:08:26 GMT
Good news, so far. I'm fascinated over why he's doing this and the amount of $ he's spent to do it.
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Post by Scrapper100 on Aug 24, 2022 2:40:02 GMT
I hope the judge rules in your favor and your uncle looses any appeals. I can't believe this is still going on.
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Post by chaosisapony on Aug 24, 2022 3:07:48 GMT
Good luck, I hope the judge rules in your favor and your uncle finally lets this go. I truly do not understand his motivations.
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Post by mikklynn on Aug 24, 2022 16:34:12 GMT
I hope things go your way and your uncle gives up the insanity.
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Post by epeanymous on Aug 24, 2022 16:42:37 GMT
Honestly this is one of the weirder things I have seen a person do--glad it sounds like things are going to be resolved favorably.
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Post by Rhondito on Aug 24, 2022 17:47:38 GMT
August 23, 2022 update: The trial was yesterday and was about 3 hours. We are awaiting the Judge’s ruling and hope to have it within the next month. The case looks favorable to us, but if we prevail, we anticipate that our uncle will appeal it. The Judge said that with his ruling, he will issue a “stay” order until any appeals are done. Thank you to those who supported me. It meant a lot. How did the uncle defend his actions?? |
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MerryMom
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Post by MerryMom on Aug 25, 2022 2:31:36 GMT
My uncle said this is what “family” wanted since the 1940s. He admitted that the same “family” that he said wanted “family” together, made no attempts to do this in the past 70-90 years.
He also admitted that he was executor of his mom’s estate and made no efforts to disinter people then. He admitted that he did not buy these estate lots at the cemetery where most people were already buried. He admitted that he gave no notice to no one but himself even though he has 3 cousins the same level of relationship that he failed to serve with court papers, let alone extended family.
Mostly he and his attorney tried to paint this as our personal vendetta against him.
After a minute of that, our attorney objected, and the judge reminded him to the hearing was about our uncle’s compelling reason to disinter the 4 people. As our uncle filed no court papers for 2 of the 6 people, the judge heard no evidence about that. Those 2 will be moved back.
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Post by librarylady on Aug 25, 2022 2:37:43 GMT
I do hope the judge rules in your favor and that he/the judge can put a stop to the moving of the deceased.
Enough!
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Post by Rhondito on Aug 25, 2022 15:17:25 GMT
My uncle said this is what “family” wanted since the 1940s. He admitted that the same “family” that he said wanted “family” together, made no attempts to do this in the past 70-90 years. Wow. If I were the judge, that's all I would need to hear. |
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Post by MerryMom on Sept 14, 2022 17:10:19 GMT
September 13, 2022 Update
The Judge ruled in our favor and the uncle has to move all 6 people back to their original burial plots at his expense.
He has 30 days to appeal. Hopefully we are in the home stretch.
Thank you to all who offered support.
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Post by Rhondito on Sept 14, 2022 17:16:13 GMT
I'm so happy for you!!
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