inkedup
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Post by inkedup on Jan 31, 2020 3:50:13 GMT
I am so sad for your family. I know you are doing your best to be strong for your sister and her wife, but I hope this place can be a place you come to for support now and in the coming days. My heart hurts for you all.
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Post by jubejubes on Jan 31, 2020 3:51:21 GMT
I am so sorry that this has happened to your sister, your family. How is your mom taking this news as this must be devastating to her. No mom should ever outlive their child's life, regardless of age. Again, I am so sorry for this in your life.
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~Susan~
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You need to check your boobs, mine tried to kill me!!!
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Post by ~Susan~ on Jan 31, 2020 4:52:01 GMT
I'm so very sorry 💔
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Post by ametallichick on Jan 31, 2020 4:57:45 GMT
I’m so truly sorry. Big hugs to you. And prayers 🙏🏻
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Post by Eddie-n-Harley on Jan 31, 2020 5:16:03 GMT
I'm very sorry, Mary.
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Post by elaine on Jan 31, 2020 5:17:42 GMT
I’m so sorry. 😥
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snyder
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Post by snyder on Jan 31, 2020 5:21:20 GMT
Prayers for strength as you and your family walk this path. It is most devastating to loose a loved one and pray that you will find peace in your hearts with all the memories you will hold in your heart. {{{Hugs}}}
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Post by MZF on Jan 31, 2020 5:24:00 GMT
I'm so sorry...
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Post by shirleyujest46 on Jan 31, 2020 10:30:11 GMT
sending prayers that she will not be in any pain, I am so very sorry for all of you, and I send love and gentle hugs along with prayers for all of you.
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Post by freecharlie on Jan 31, 2020 10:39:27 GMT
I am so sorry. I wish her, and you, peace in her final days.
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brandy327
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Jun 26, 2014 16:09:34 GMT
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Post by brandy327 on Jan 31, 2020 11:13:55 GMT
I'm so sorry to read the latest update. Thoughts are with all of you.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 31, 2020 11:17:22 GMT
I'm so sorry to read your last update Mary. Wishing you all peace and strength in the times ahead (((hugs)))
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Post by peace on Jan 31, 2020 12:37:13 GMT
Mary, I am so sorry
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Post by hop2 on Jan 31, 2020 12:48:06 GMT
Hugs
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Post by emelle64 on Jan 31, 2020 13:12:35 GMT
So very very sorry. I'll pray for strength for all of you as you walk this journey with her.
Emelle
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Post by JoP on Jan 31, 2020 13:49:48 GMT
I’m so sorry keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers
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J u l e e
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Post by J u l e e on Jan 31, 2020 13:55:31 GMT
I don't know how I didn't see this until now! I am so sorry, Mary. This is just awful. So many hugs!
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Post by jenjie on Jan 31, 2020 14:27:16 GMT
I just saw on another post that you're bringing your sister home on hospice. I am so very sorry. Yes. We had a very honest talk with the oncologist earlier this week and he told us that she was not strong enough to do chemo. Her cancer is a very rare and aggressive form of endometrial cancer and is not usually very responsive to chemo anyway. We could try and get her strong enough to do chemo but it would be brutal for her with little result so the decision was made by her and her wife and fully supported by us to bring in hospice. They were going to put in a drain today for the fluids that accumulate in her abdomen but they had to postpone until tomorrow. Hopefully we will be able to bring her home tomorrow. Hospice has already delivered the bed and oxygen to the house. Just waiting for her to be discharged from the hospital. We are committed to making her last days as comfortable and pain free as possible. Ohh I’m so very sorry. 😔 love her up. Say what needs to be said. Be gentle with yourselves. Praying for you all during this transition.
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oh yvonne
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Post by oh yvonne on Jan 31, 2020 15:38:56 GMT
Oh Mary, I am so so sorry. I just lost my younger brother the week before Christmas, I know your pain. <hugs>
I will be praying for you and your family for strength during this time.
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Post by twinks on Jan 31, 2020 15:45:20 GMT
Praying for your family. Hard and difficult decisions have to be made, but, it seems like Hospice is the answer. Love and hugs sent to you.
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msladibug
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Post by msladibug on Jan 31, 2020 16:03:58 GMT
I'm very sorry to hear this.
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Sarah*H
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Post by Sarah*H on Jan 31, 2020 16:39:10 GMT
I'm so sorry to read the latest update and I will keep you all in my thoughts as she prepares to begin hospice. Sending lots of love your way.
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Post by scrapmaven on Jan 31, 2020 17:01:50 GMT
I'm so very sorry. This is the time to let your sister know how much you love her and how important she will always be in your lives and not to worry about you. This is a time for you to talk about all of the things you don't want left unsaid and fill her w/love. I'm truly sorry that the doctors couldn't save her. We're here for you. oh yvonne, I'm very sorry to hear about your brother's passing. You are so kind to others. Please let us return the kindness and let us support you as you grieve. May your brother's memory be for a blessing.
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Anita
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Post by Anita on Jan 31, 2020 17:23:06 GMT
I'm so sorry. Cancer really sucks.
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Post by Sassy Sabrina SWZ on Jan 31, 2020 18:41:59 GMT
A family member in my home is on the same road, Mary, just following behind you a little more slowly. When you're a kid, you learn that if you get sick or injured, you always get better. Illnesses and pain are just temporary--there is hope for recovery. It's so hard to unlearn that lesson, and realize that this time, it won't ever get better. The best you can hope for is some good days. I'm so sorry you're going through this!
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Post by Deleted on Jan 31, 2020 19:53:38 GMT
I'm SO very sorry about all of this! I have never heard of or known anyone who got so sick, so fast! Prayers that she is in no pain or suffering in any way, and that she gets the BEST medical care! Many, many ((( hugs ))) ^This!! Prayers to her for comfort. DH hasn't been a candidate for his chemo (bladder cancer) bc of his other medical issues. He's supposed to begin a trial chemo in February for a year. Trying to keep him healthy but it's very hard. I'm sure that she's got a low resistance too? Praying for her to get strong and better!!
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Post by Deleted on Jan 31, 2020 20:11:20 GMT
I just saw on another post that you're bringing your sister home on hospice. I am so very sorry. Yes. We had a very honest talk with the oncologist earlier this week and he told us that she was not strong enough to do chemo. Her cancer is a very rare and aggressive form of endometrial cancer and is not usually very responsive to chemo anyway. We could try and get her strong enough to do chemo but it would be brutal for her with little result so the decision was made by her and her wife and fully supported by us to bring in hospice. They were going to put in a drain today for the fluids that accumulate in her abdomen but they had to postpone until tomorrow. Hopefully we will be able to bring her home tomorrow. Hospice has already delivered the bed and oxygen to the house. Just waiting for her to be discharged from the hospital. We are committed to making her last days as comfortable and pain free as possible. I'm so very sorry. I hope that she's comfortable at home. Lots of love and support to you. We're all here any time if you want to talk.
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