wellway
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Jun 25, 2014 20:50:09 GMT
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Post by wellway on Apr 3, 2020 7:47:22 GMT
I'm guessing from his reaction he knows it was wrong but maybe didn't have the balls to stand up to his co-workers and hated you calling him on it. That none of the six thought it was a crazy idea is frightening.
Has he seen the light yet? Maybe show him the number of threads here in the last day or so where peas are reporting deaths close to them.
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Post by SockMonkey on Apr 3, 2020 11:54:33 GMT
Validated.
He put your lives in danger for a nice meal out.
I’d be isolating from him for a lot of reasons at this point. I’d be so pissed.
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Post by dewryce on Apr 3, 2020 12:03:42 GMT
I’d be pea-livid. I think I’d be more pissed at his cavalier attitude than anything. Me too. People make mistakes and bad decisions, we are human. I mean, this is a really bad decision...but if my DH had come home and mentioned he had done that, but then really listened and saw the situation for the danger it was and said it wouldn’t happen again I would find it a lot easier to forgive him. And frankly, I would trust him more going forward. But the belligerent comment about paranoia and refusing to talk about it makes me think that this is the case: I'm guessing from his reaction he knows it was wrong but maybe didn't have the balls to stand up to his co-workers and hated you calling him on it. That none of the six thought it was a crazy idea is frightening. He was wrong and he knows it and hates being called on it. He put his wife and childrens’ health at risk. That’s a hard pill to swallow. Hopefully after he’s had some time to stew in his wrongness he’ll make much better decisions moving forward.
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Post by jemmls4 on Apr 3, 2020 12:50:01 GMT
That was a really stupid thing for your husband and the others to do. You are 💯 percent right to be pissed.
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Post by monicad on Apr 3, 2020 18:26:26 GMT
After two days of not speaking and sleeping separately, we were able to talk and he agreed that he will be more cautious and aware. I hope so. His office is a small space so those that are working are already in tight quarters, but why add to it? He came home for lunch yesterday and brought lunch today, and I will probably ask him each day next week what his plans are. Logging on here today made me realize that we absolutely should be doing everything within our power to protect ourselves, even if it adds tension or causes an argument. I am so devastated to read about the Peas that have lost loved ones and neighbors.
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