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Post by revirdsuba99 on Aug 4, 2020 3:45:46 GMT
So very sorry for the loss of your daughter-in-law. Wishing your family, and hers, peace and comfort during the very difficult days ahead. Time helps with the deep grief, but the grief stays with you forever, but you learn to live with it and can laugh and smile again. Next week will be ten years with the loss of my 48 year old son. Don't allow anyone, including yourself, to tell you how you should feel or when. In time you will do normal things, even now there are days I have trouble getting out of bed and it takes time to realize why. Be kind to yourself and particularly your son. Be there for him. Let him lead the way. Interfere only if he is doing something dangerous and/or making major decisions, particularly financial as in selling the house. He will not be thinking logically for a while. take are of you all!
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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The Great Carpezio
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Post by The Great Carpezio on Aug 4, 2020 3:48:01 GMT
I am so very sorry. Wishing you gentle memories.
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Post by worrywart on Aug 4, 2020 3:49:05 GMT
I am so sorry for your heartbreaking loss. Will be thinking of your ds and your family, as well as her family. (((hugs)))
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christinec68
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Jun 26, 2014 18:02:19 GMT
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Post by christinec68 on Aug 4, 2020 3:51:42 GMT
I am so very sorry. ((Hugs))
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Post by glory77 on Aug 4, 2020 3:54:24 GMT
Oh wow, that’s awful. I’m so very sorry.
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Post by iteach3rdgrade on Aug 4, 2020 3:56:00 GMT
I'm so sorry!
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Post by epeanymous on Aug 4, 2020 4:25:16 GMT
I am so, so sorry.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Aug 4, 2020 4:27:16 GMT
How awful. I’m so very sorry for your family’s loss. Sending you thoughts of peace and comfort.
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Post by gotranch on Aug 4, 2020 4:37:59 GMT
So very, very sorry for the loss of your dil and the sorrow your ds is going through. So many questions of why, when a young life is lost.
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Sue
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Jun 26, 2014 18:42:33 GMT
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Post by Sue on Aug 4, 2020 5:22:22 GMT
I'm so very sorry for the loss of your beloved daughter-in-law. My sincere condolences to you, your son, and to all who loved her. Such a horrible tragedy.
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Post by shirleyujest46 on Aug 4, 2020 5:28:12 GMT
sending you love and praying that God will wrap His arms around all of you and comfort you. I am so very sad that someone so young has passed, please know that all of us here and all of the people that you know have you in their thoughts and want to help in any way that they can. Try to let them. Only time will ease the pain.
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scrappinspidey2
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Post by scrappinspidey2 on Aug 4, 2020 5:29:24 GMT
rodeomom I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter in law. If your son needs someone to talk to who understands you can have him contact me. PM me and I will get you information. My husband was 35 when he died and I was 36. There isn't enough support for people who lose their spouses at this age. Lots and Lots of Hugs.
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Mary Kay Lady
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Post by Mary Kay Lady on Aug 4, 2020 5:40:39 GMT
I am so very sorry for your loss. 38 is entirely too young to die.
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bklyngal62
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Post by bklyngal62 on Aug 4, 2020 11:58:18 GMT
So sorry for your loss.
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zookeeper
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Post by zookeeper on Aug 4, 2020 12:04:38 GMT
I have actually been through this with my brother and my sil who passed away 10 years ago this September. My heart broke into a million pieces. My brother literally cried with me and wondered if he was ever going to be able to find that kind of love again. Thankfully, he is now in a loving relationship and happy again but it did take awhile.
The hard part is that after the funeral we all got to go back to our lives and sleep in our beds with our spouses. My brother did not get to do that. They also had two special needs sons so he had to move on and learn how to be a father and a mother for them.
It is rough and I am so sorry that your family is going through this. Be gentle with yourself and your son. Grief has no rules. It is an extremely personal journey and no two people travel through it in the same manner.
Many prayers and hugs are coming your way.
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Post by stampnscrap1128 on Aug 4, 2020 12:22:30 GMT
I am so so sorry. You are a great mom and just having your emotional and physical support will help him a lot. Take time to grieve for your loss as well. She sounded like she was well loved by a lot of people.
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Post by mikklynn on Aug 4, 2020 13:35:59 GMT
I am so very sorry. Gentle hugs to you, dear Pea.
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maurchclt
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Post by maurchclt on Aug 4, 2020 13:43:44 GMT
I'm so very sorry for your family's loss. HUGS.
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Post by ToniW on Aug 4, 2020 14:27:56 GMT
I am so sorry. Sending hugs and prayers.
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Post by liya on Aug 4, 2020 14:38:43 GMT
I am so incredibly sorry.
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Post by annie on Aug 4, 2020 15:06:31 GMT
I am so sorry!!
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anniebygaslight
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Posts: 7,394
Location: Third Rock from the sun.
Jun 28, 2014 14:08:19 GMT
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Post by anniebygaslight on Aug 4, 2020 16:08:14 GMT
I am sorry to read your sad news. X
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Post by tc on Aug 4, 2020 17:20:56 GMT
I am so sorry
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Post by 5peanutsnana on Aug 4, 2020 18:15:46 GMT
There are no adequate words for your loss. I pray for comfort and strength for all who loved her.
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Post by NanaKate on Aug 4, 2020 21:58:22 GMT
I am so very sorry for your loss. Love and prayers sent your way.
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Post by Zee on Aug 4, 2020 22:36:47 GMT
I'm so sorry
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michellegb
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Jun 26, 2014 0:04:59 GMT
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Post by michellegb on Aug 4, 2020 22:40:34 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
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momto4kiddos
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Post by momto4kiddos on Aug 4, 2020 23:23:59 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Post by bearmom on Aug 5, 2020 0:55:44 GMT
Sorry for your loss, prayers for your family.
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Post by whipea on Aug 5, 2020 1:42:35 GMT
So sad, sorry.
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