rodeomom
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Refupee # 380 "I don't have to run fast, I just have to run faster than you."
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Location: Chickasaw Nation, Oklahoma
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Post by rodeomom on Aug 3, 2020 15:18:35 GMT
My beautiful, sweet and loving daughter in law died Friday night. She was only 38 years old. We are devastated.
She was the perfect match to my son. I don't know how he is going to get through this.
I don't know what to do for him.
She had a tumor go to her lungs. She could not breath. He just keeps talking about how scared she was. He keeps playing everything over and over again in his mind.
They had so many plans for their lives. They were moving and their house is filled with boxes. Some stuff packed and lots more to pack.
I'm just rambling on now.
If your child has lost the love of their life. What can you do to help them??
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Post by gar on Aug 3, 2020 15:20:56 GMT
Just be there for him, hold him and let him talk...I'm so sorry for your family. He will get through this.
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Post by peano on Aug 3, 2020 15:20:58 GMT
Oh gosh, I am so sorry. I cannot imagine how devastated your son is right now. Sending some healing energy to you all.
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Post by femalebusiness on Aug 3, 2020 15:22:35 GMT
Oh my god, that's horrible. I am so sorry.
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leeny
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Post by leeny on Aug 3, 2020 15:22:54 GMT
So sorry for your loss.
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tanya2
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Post by tanya2 on Aug 3, 2020 15:24:14 GMT
oh how awful! I am so sorry for your loss
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River
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Post by River on Aug 3, 2020 15:24:18 GMT
I'm so very sorry!
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Post by Basket1lady on Aug 3, 2020 15:24:24 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss, too.
I guess help with funeral arrangements. Do they have kids? Childcare help is often needed when there are so many details to take care of. Now, and in the coming weeks and months. Take him a meal. Invite him over, even if he refuses. Laundry, dishes, lawn care, etc can be another place to help. But in the long run, it’s just something he needs to work through. I’m so sorry.
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Post by pierkiss on Aug 3, 2020 15:24:42 GMT
I am so sorry.
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Post by hop2 on Aug 3, 2020 15:24:44 GMT
OMG how terrible. I am sorry for your loss.
Hugs.
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Post by cadoodlebug on Aug 3, 2020 15:25:01 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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luckyexwife
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Post by luckyexwife on Aug 3, 2020 15:25:28 GMT
I am so sorry.
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maryannscraps
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Post by maryannscraps on Aug 3, 2020 15:25:46 GMT
I'm so so sorry. May her memory be eternal.
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lesley
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Post by lesley on Aug 3, 2020 15:26:04 GMT
I am so sorry. Your son must be devastated. All you can do is support him, let him grieve - and grieve with him, you are also bereaved - and be there for him. He will need you more than he has in a long time.
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Post by cindyupnorth on Aug 3, 2020 15:26:09 GMT
OMG. how terrible. just be there for him. There isn't much else you can do.
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luckyjune
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Post by luckyjune on Aug 3, 2020 15:26:56 GMT
That's heartbreaking! Keeping your son, you, and you family in my thoughts.
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Post by winniegirl on Aug 3, 2020 15:28:46 GMT
I am so very sorry for your loss.
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Post by malibou on Aug 3, 2020 15:30:21 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. May the happy memories of her see you all thru the tough days ahead.
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Post by mom on Aug 3, 2020 15:33:06 GMT
Oh my goodness. I am so sorry. My heart breaks for your son.
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used2scrap
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Post by used2scrap on Aug 3, 2020 15:34:18 GMT
I’m so very sorry.
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Post by Skellinton on Aug 3, 2020 15:34:35 GMT
I am so sorry. Everyone grieves differently, all you can do is be there for him and maybe suggest he find a grief support group or a professional to talk to. How very devastating.
I am sorry.
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desertgirl
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Post by desertgirl on Aug 3, 2020 15:37:11 GMT
So very sorry. My thoughts are with you ❤️.
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Post by Susie_Homemaker on Aug 3, 2020 15:37:26 GMT
I am so, so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how devastated you all are. My heart hurts for you. (((hugs)))
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Post by leannec on Aug 3, 2020 15:38:09 GMT
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Post by jmd74 on Aug 3, 2020 15:38:24 GMT
I am so very sorry for your loss. ❤️
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Montannie
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Post by Montannie on Aug 3, 2020 15:39:58 GMT
Oh no! What a shock for you all. I'm so very, very sorry.
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rodeomom
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Refupee # 380 "I don't have to run fast, I just have to run faster than you."
Posts: 3,661
Location: Chickasaw Nation, Oklahoma
Jun 25, 2014 23:34:38 GMT
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Post by rodeomom on Aug 3, 2020 15:40:30 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss, too. I guess help with funeral arrangements. Do they have kids? Childcare help is often needed when there are so many details to take care of. Now, and in the coming weeks and months. Take him a meal. Invite him over, even if he refuses. Laundry, dishes, lawn care, etc can be another place to help. But in the long run, it’s just something he needs to work through. I’m so sorry. They did not have children. They loved their life and the things they were able to do. They were the best Aunt and uncle to their nieces and nephews. |
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Post by marmargirl on Aug 3, 2020 15:41:24 GMT
I’m so sorry for your family’s loss. 🙏🏼❤️
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Rhondito
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Post by Rhondito on Aug 3, 2020 15:42:25 GMT
I am so very sorry... this is just heartbreaking to read.
My prayers go out to all of you.
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Post by KelleeM on Aug 3, 2020 15:45:57 GMT
I’m so sorry. How terribly sad.
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